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April 16 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I expect mobile phones to be switched off or at the very least to silent during play time. I do understand the need in case if emergencies as mine is on silent but not off for that very reason. . She is not getting the message that it is over because he keeps responding to her, answering her texts, still facebook friends. Maybe he is stringing her along a little. Then again........ maybe it isn't over.- Posted from rhpmobile
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
Was there a question in there or just ranting away For me unless its an emergency then everything phone and IT related is the last thing on my mind. As to being over the only person who can answer that is him
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RHP User
12 years ago
If it's happening and she's getting catty, obviously she's still holding some feelings for him. He needs to take control of that situation and sort it out before it becomes a big deal. I think you have a right to suggest he put the phone away when playing, but in the end it's his problem to deal with, not yours.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' I expect mobile phones to be switched off or at the very least to silent during play time. I do understand the need in case if emergencies as mine is on silent but not off for that very reason. . She is not getting the message that it is over because he keeps responding to her, answering her texts, still facebook friends. Maybe he is stringing her along a little. Then again........ maybe it isn't over.- Posted from rhpmobile B.I NGO and BINGO was his name... O!He should NOT be more intereted in his ex and her messages, than you, when youre sitting right in front of him.Poor nammners on his part.. and I suggest HE has as much baggage as his ex if he is hasnt dealt with it and is imposing it upon you through the way he is still failing to handle his shit.Man licence..... suspended.DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
DG you are absolutly correct...except for the spelling of manners...It took me a long time to get over my divorce. I learnt that you can not change the past, and reliving old memories is not necessarily a good thing. I read a quote some time ago that sums it up perfectly: When all is said and done, you can not be friends, and you can not be enemies, all you can be is, two strangers, with the same memories.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ignore FB if it is being used as a vehicle for upset to you by another. Being part of that model world FB has become, allows people to abuse anyone who reads their drivel..Believe it or not, you are in control of what you choose to read.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Plus,Tell him not to be "part" of the problem. Ignoring troublemakers will give you the disconnection that will eventually give you peace...and it's funny hearing someone who's 33 refer to "Young People". ~giggles~
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discreet_liasons
12 years ago
Yeh that's it, he should cut her off, deal with her and make like the time he spent with the ex is just a vacuous hole and never happened. What a great way to bring to the surface any underlying mental problems and end up with another tribute page on Facebook for a suicide victim. Nobody knows her story, nobody here knows the history or current between them. If someone's not happy by all means get out but to advise someone to force someone else's hand? Where's the qualifications to make that call? Men and women often string ex's along as a safety net and for perverse pleasure, I think the OP is the best situated to work it out.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Only those that are being encouraged to contact will contact. Unless there are kids involved and the contact is orientated that way then he should be ignoring her while he's on a date. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Quoting 'Handmaiden'Man licence..... suspended.DG AGREE with the above....MAN LICENCE SUSPENDED and FACEBOOK !!FOXY
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Quoting 'anybodyjustnow' DG you are absolutly correct...except for the spelling of manners...It took me a long time to get over my divorce. I learnt that you can not change the past, and reliving old memories is not necessarily a good thing. I read a quote some time ago that sums it up perfectly: When all is said and done, you can not be friends, and you can not be enemies, all you can be is, two strangers, with the same memories.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I would suggest you do yourself a favour and find a new friend who has no baggage! Life is stressful enough to deal with, you don't need anymore nonesense :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know my exes are on my fb have keys to my house. text me everyday and are protective of me. Yes it's over but we were friends first and friends now. I'm the mother of their kids an that doesn't always end up as a horrible nasty mess. We are still family and anyone that wants to date any of us will need to respect that. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have two Exes no hundreds ;) Maybe it's just not a dynamic you have seen before- Posted from rhpmobile
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twowithnolimits
12 years ago
turn off the phone ...stay away from facebook....enjoy a real life with real people 24/7
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RHP User
11 years ago
was giving my fb a thorough pounding dogy style when her hubby phoned. She simply chatted on without batting an eyelid. I must admit that spurred me into trying to get her to moan but try as I did she wouldnt. Was certainly exhilarating tho
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