Experimenting

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Experimenting is the spice of life lol... So why not take the plunge and indulge in kinks you may have. Before my fiance tried bi exploration for the first time, his expectations were that he'd get fucked, (you know where) and that would be the end of that. But no he liked it too much! Of course he's not going to tell his mates about being bi, but he definitely knows that he loves anal...

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  Phoenix_Rising

  5 years ago

  Talk to your partner first, end of story!! “I don’t think she would want to separate so I could meet someone else?” Absolutely hell fucking no!! Talk to her, then talk to others.

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  SpicyKale

  5 years ago

  As Phoenix has mentioned, talk to your partner! You never know where the conversation might lead. Yes, it might end badly, but at least you won't be cheating. One thing you'll pick up on here as open-minded as we are, people on here hate cheaters. Don't expect a warm welcome from most, a lot of us took a big risk talking to significant others about swinging. Personally we'd been married ten years before it was brought up, as close as we got previously was been up for a good nude beach, so at least we weren't prudes. Good luck...

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  nothing2serioRHP

  5 years ago

  Thanks Ladies, I understand your POV. It’s been a long relationship and for better or worse or for whatever has kept us together we are. I’m not going to say it’s a bad relationship but things might have been different if I hadn’t worked at I thought and it seems that she is happier than me it may have started the other way round. Sex, finance all no issue. Partly I’m happy trying to talk with people of a different lifestyle, maybe the talk gets more specific but it’s unlikely I can hook up with anyone due to location etc. I would certainly like to chat with people. We don’t have any real Kinks, never been to the nude beach together, late 40s now, not as impulsive as I once was. I’ve never hidden the fact that I think girl on girl is appealing or ffm threesome, it’s just talk. She has never talked of wanting anything like swinging or other partners. We were young when we got together so as well as we know each other I think I desire different experiences that we may not ever share. Not saying I want to cheat, or even lie. I think I am capable of that, maybe so is she. If she met that guy she was always keen on and could sleep with him secretly, would she? Would she fuck a guy because she thinks he is hot? I don’t know. If I had a chance to hook up would I? The thing is I think what interests me is maybe variety and options, that is hard in a relationship that is built around a family. It’s a conversation that I doubt would find much common ground or compromise. Chat is cheap and like porn it may be satisfying on some level, maybe people know the answer to opening that conversation.

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