M54
Eye catching photos
February 26 2016
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RHP User
9 years ago
for the 2394783th time, haven't you been listening nah just kidding, love the random number, so funny . Good for you. Put whatever pictures up you're comfortable with. When I first went online, I wasn't comfortable with private pictures so just had other mostly body shots, even a lot of them were clothed. My how things have things have moved along since then hmm anyway, all depends on how you want to be seen, meaning what kind of audience you want to attract, how you approach that is entirely up to you. I personally need to see the body, many women don't. I am finding I don't take to pictures where they're not smiling, just gives a better feel for a person and for me, helps with trust, if they look happy, and always good to have your face on show, even if in a private album. Another thing that puts me off is guys trying to rush off the site having not shown themselves here first and I don't mean dick pics, I can't see them here anyway, just referring to body shots. I know many of them would have good intentions, preferring to use kik etc, but for me I prefer to filter on here first, that's just me though and my thoughts on what I like to see, everyone is different. Good luck Oh and keep the pictures bright like your current picture
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Well the general advice when taking a photo would be to have a clean environment in the background. If you are going to take a bathroom selfie make sure there is only one toothbrush visible, any more than that and some women will think that you are either a cheating husband or at the very least not single ( sad, I know ). Don't put up any cock shots, keep them in your PG and facial portraits are a must ( if you are not comfortable with the portraits being public then put them in the PG, mention this in your profile) Put on a nice shirt etc.......oh for gods sake make sure you put the up facing the right way my 2 cents
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Ok.... now that the good ladies of RHP have offered you some assistance..... ...... shall we hold your hand through to the end? OK, I jest... BUT.... I have a reason.I used to offer quite a bit of assistance in these topics, but after an unsavoury event assisting one guy, I saw the other side and changed my position. What IS a profile? A profile is a form of advertising..... brand "you"... in a catalogue full of of other brands. (or, full of the majority "flexing chest and dick" brand, to be more accurate) And if you need to ask others how to best advertise yourself, perhaps then, you're not accurately going to be representing yourself, and people aren't really going to be making their evaluation on who YOU are, but on who other people have said they want to see... because thats their preference. So, you choose those parts of the preferences of selected forum ladies, put them in your profile..... but is that really you?! I say its not, and that never turns out well because the expectations of people communicating with, and meeting you will be skewed. People can even feel a little manipulated through that misrepresentation. So, just give it YOUR best effort and those people who reply to you, and end up meeting will have already accepted who you are. If you're selfish, and not prepared to put in any effort, even to help yourself... then the typical template profile, or two basic sentences about loving sex and seeking NSA will represent who you are. If theres much more to you than that, say it, and why. And then show it in your photos. Personality will show through. Now go get em tiger.And don't compare yourself to anyone else..... you have to believe you're worth getting to know... not a bunch of skin, muscle and a dick. Dammit... I went and helped again. DG
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PurePeony
9 years ago
Great tips! I agree with all except I actually love cars and motorcycles! Someday, I wanna ride the Hayabusa and I miss my days of riding pillion on the Honda Goldwing so men with motorbikes, bring it on!
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RHP User
9 years ago
You can listen to all the advice in the world but when the crunch comes you need to be you and not what some other opinionated person think they would like you to be. Same as real life, be yourself . Being happy with who you are will always take you much further in life than trying to be something you're not. Good luck.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I agree about the dead fish pictures, and I don't mind fishing, just on here I'm fishing for something less rubbery and scaley lol just baiting my hook now mmm car pics I kind of agree, but I do like to see a guy behind the wheel of his car, nothing sexier yum
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RHP User
9 years ago
A nice smiling face. Suggestive rather than in your face. See S on the Loose main profile pic? No fish or toilets. And cocks in private galleries. Thats only my personal likes though ....wish you luck on here!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' Do smile in your photos, as grumpy pics can make you look like a serial killer (I'm not even joking.) Sunglasses are a no for most women, especially when worn indoors. Sorry but they don’t make you look more youthful, just less trustworthy. ...what about wearing sunnies on your head? That balding, what's-his-name celebrity hairdresser does and he's cool isn't he?Your right about the smiling bit, though...my "Resting face" isn't child friendly.On the plus side, my skin is youthful and wrinkle free. Smiling a lot ages you...
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Crackatini
9 years ago
Light - play around with the light a fair bit to create unique angles and contrasts. Use a lamp or the like to focus on an area or to create different effects. :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
With taking pics. Be a little bold. I like your current pic. You're on the right tack. You just might surprise yourself with what you come up with. Xx
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' And if you need to ask others how to best advertise yourself, perhaps then, you're not accurately going to be representing yourself, and people aren't really going to be making their evaluation on who YOU are, but on who other people have said they want to see... because thats their preference. Most guys very rarely if ever take pics of themselves, asking for a bit of general advice on what makes a good pic is hardly a crime. He's not asking people to write his profile for him. You don't need to have a dig at every guy on here who asks for advice. They weren't all born with the pussy whispering ability like you...
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RHP User
9 years ago
I hope our pics come across as it was a big night and we just had the camera clicking about 100 times lol just having fun and here we are Mrs - Posted from rhpmobile
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Mate, Mrs S never posts comments on here... It is ALWAYS myself, the male half who does.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Summer_solstice' And please no pics of you with the catch of the day. Dead animals are not sexy. Like a pic I saw today on one guy's profile, in which he's holding a big shark dorsal fin that had obviously been recently cut off the shark. I don't care what the story is behind it, how the shark was caught or why it was caught, that sort of thing disgusts me
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Quoting 'Crackatini' Light - play around with the light a fair bit to create unique angles and contrasts. Use a lamp or the like to focus on an area or to create different effects. :) - Posted from rhpmobile And turn off the flash too.
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
What you put in your profile is entirely dependent on what you are seeking here. If you are seeking romance and now just FB or sex then reflect that in your profile and leave no doubt.The advice given here suits that kind of person seeking dating and romance.Yes don't put cock shots if you are trying to get romance. OTH if you only want sex or FWB then make that clear in the same way.Put a cock shot up because it will weed out those looking for romance and anyone with a weak stomach for explicit sex images and talk.For the women who just want you for action, they want to see the goods before they try so if they are the ones you want to be with then that makes it clear you are not here for romance..Women seeking sex only do the same and put up spadger pics to make it clear they want your junk not romance.
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RHP User
9 years ago
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Black and white fallacy.
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Suggest a person should put up a romantic persona in their profile when they are just seeking sex is not just dumb, its dishonest.
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Seachange
9 years ago
deja vu? just give it a break... yawn.. My 2c OP. just be clear what you want and reflect that in your profile. There are a many women here who seek different things and what you write in your profile and the pictures you put up in the public and private galleries will attract your target audience. There are a lot of good advice above. Try using them and see how you go. It may not happen straight away, but be patient. If one mix does not work, try changing it around a bit and observe the number of hits and contacts. but definitely, a good profile pic can lure in the interested women and the profile itself will keep them in there and interested. A cock pic, if you want to attract women who do not mind them or actually want to see them, before a meet may be included in your private galleries. Remember, knowing what you want, the type of interaction you want in here should guide you in determining the depth of information you need to put into your profile and the type of pictures. Right bait for the right fish... so to speak. But keep your profile positive, fun and as DG said, you are selling 'Cableguy71' brand, so work it. Best wishes.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Like a vinyl record for instance before compact discs, can get stuck and repeat itself.... Like some elderly people. Can repeat themselves, again and again and again. Sorry Op. Back on topic.........what were we talking about?
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Quoting 'AnnieWhichway' Like a vinyl record for instance before compact discs, can get stuck and repeat itself.... Like some elderly people. Can repeat themselves, again and again and again. Sorry Op. Back on topic.........what were we talking about? sell a new CD in an old LP cover.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Just saw the funniest profile pic on another site. Pic taken standing up and has the little feet poking out from under his willy. But the funniest part was that he had a toilet roll on the end of his dick. Kinda looked like a party hat sitting on there. Hawt!!
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' And if you need to ask others how to best advertise yourself, perhaps then, you're not accurately going to be representing yourself, and people aren't really going to be making their evaluation on who YOU are, but on who other people have said they want to see... because thats their preference. Most guys very rarely if ever take pics of themselves, asking for a bit of general advice on what makes a good pic is hardly a crime. He's not asking people to write his profile for him. You don't need to have a dig at every guy on here who asks for advice. They weren't all born with the pussy whispering ability like you... There you go again You probably should use ALL of my comment... it helps with the context.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'social_suicide' Mate, Mrs S never posts comments on here... It is ALWAYS myself, the male half who does. Aye... the pitfalls of not signing your posts. Peachy :-D
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' You probably should use ALL of my comment... it helps with the context. wouldn't change anything about my comment, the context remains the same. Also, the condescending tone you always use when you reply to women who disagree with you really reflects the underlying insecurity underneath all that bravado.
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Mischeviouslad
9 years ago
Well..... thank you for contunuing to read my comments. The rest, I guess we will differ upon. 👍
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RHP User
9 years ago
Please ... men with sunnies on when obviously not needed (no sun in sight) ... that's a REAL turnoff for me ... hiding something I say !!!! Yes a natural pic is a winner with me BUT as mentioned before it's all depending on the audience you're attempting to attract.
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