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FACE FACTS...

December 31 2012

BUKKAKE Japanese verb bukkakeru to dash or sprinkle water), and means "to dash", "splash" or "heavy splash".You see this a lot in Porn, (mainly men) ejaculating onto a women's face...For me personally I find this one of the most degrading acts to do to a woman especially if there is a large number of men involved standing around and edging each other on...Sure if it's 1:1 in the bedroom not an issue for me...I understand some women love it - a huge turn-on...I'm open to hear other people's thoughts and opinions around the act of BUKKAE.Does this happen a lot in Gang Bangs??

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  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Not really into it myself and certainly I would never like a group of men "egging" each other on in that pack mentality. Would kick then all in the nuts first! However, I do like being dirty, naughty or just a bit of depravity is always fun. I like the sweat, and all the dirty side of sex. I was in a MMF bi once where we all ended off with a group rub so to speak. The boys standing over me and it was hot. Mind you my lover then licked all the cum off me afterwards. Got to love a man that will clean up after himself and the other boys. Lol I know most people will go Ewww. But I love being wild and uninhibited. I can only be this way with people I know well and trust though. So it's great that I can take my lover along and we can be wild together with others. :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    And no I haven't had anyone cum in my face. :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    But put your swim gogles on , not good to get it in your eye, thats not safe sex   Just have to get them to let you know to shut your eyes when they come.   I had a threesome with a girlfriend a week ago and we both knelt in front of him and he wanked over both our faces   boy he sure was full.   But we lightened his load   nope I do not find it degrading at all.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    this is another of those things we feel a guy should experience for himself...ie let his face be showered with cum....so he knows exactly what he's asking a woman to do........

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    In my mouth is great, but not on my face please. Really not my thing.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It stings like a bastard?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Yup, sure does! Quoting 'Ghostbusters'It stings like a bastard?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I love it. Im with Meeks. Much more enjoyable if your with a guy who will clean up afterwoods Still have fond memories of the other night of a guy blowing all over my face after he had fucked my ass. I then squatted over him and peed into his mouth and he laid me down and shared myself with a kiss. he continued to lick my face clean while sharing everything.   Mmmm yeah I love it :P

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    My thoughts are that the only person who determines if something is degrading V's Sexy and naughty is me!   I love it when a man cums all over me...face, body, breasts.....whatever.   I've never tried it in a group situation, but hey, if it's part of the fantasy or scenario, i'm all for it.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It's really good as a face mask! Does wonders to the skin..

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    for it to be all over me except my face. Now if I have my mouth open and tongue sticking out.... and a bit splashes on my nose as I'm about to drink, well that's ok as long as he licks it off.....it's team work

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think, perhaps, the visual 'treat' is meant as a consolation prize.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    That's almost an un-friending.. Almost..~sheesh~

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    If a guy wants to cum anywhere on my body then he should be willing to let a man do the same thing to him. And if he wants me to swallow or lick cum, then he should first swallow or lick his (or someone else's) cum first. Then I feel that even if the act is 'degrading', we are still equal, or equally degraded as the case may be. Sex is political. You can't remove the politics from sex. You can only be mindful of it and play your cards intelligently.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'LittleRedEngine'That's almost an un-friending.. Almost..~sheesh~ LRE Only one way to solve this: a MMF. You takes his cum all over your face, I'll take yours. Deal? Jman, you in?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I just gotta get around Cavey. ...Then again, ...I don't want him behind me with that thing.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ....to myself. She laughed.. :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I can't see how it's degrading to the woman if she put herself into that position?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Like everything not ALL women find it degrading. There are those that will gladly volunteer, out of their own desires and willingness. However, there are also those, that see it as a form of degradation...branding if you will, an exertion of ownership, which infers their feminism. I can't say it turns me on, nor can I say it's a pre-requisite for an enjoyable finale. Personally, I find it more enjoyable feeling myself orgasm whilst still inside a woman, while kissing her to be much more tantalising....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I saw a stereotype of men being used in first the topic, and also the first comment, that's why I put the question out there. As not all women are empowered or turned on by 'bukkake', not all men are out to degrade women when in a 'pack' situation.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I don't think it's degrading with your lovers. Bukkake though, isn't that usually a crowd all wanking over a person? Firstly, I think most women find this position submissive which may go against the grain and frankly the porn that I have seen of these (and I am talking very few) it never looks like the woman is enjoying it much.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Actually I saw a similar themed porn clip recently. A woman on her knees surrounded by women who would come up and squirt on her. She was soaking wet and loving it. Although admittedly the comments the women were making were probably not too different from men that you see in gang bang videos. Hmmm it's the comments that make it degrading I think. And yes I know... It's a video!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I think if it's professional made porn the actress is probably playing up the not enjoying it part because that is what the viewer wants to see. I am interested to know what it's like in a real life situation. I've seen an amatuer bukkake video and actually spoke to the girl about it. She said it was empowering to have 6 guys standing around her there for the sole purpose of fullfilling her personal desire. The guys all respected the boundaries set and she said it was great fun.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I never actually thought about separating the comments from the act...hmmm food for thought me thinks

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    It's the intentions behind the act GB. If a group of men are surrounding me saying derogatory things. You know the sorts of comments I mean... I would turn around and tell them all to get fucked then knee the closest one in the balls. Hehe If a group of men are saying... You are so beautiful, gorgeous, hot, etc etc. Then its a totally different ball game isn't it.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Man 1: You are so sexy, you're on FIRE girl! Man 2: Here, let us all extinguish you. Man 3: With our utmost respect and admiration of course! Meh, still doesn't do it for me.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I was married once... and for a short period of time..   My then wife was not always into sex... I was in my prime.. (So I thought)   If she ever refused me sex before falling asleep. she would invariably awaken.. KNOWING someone had done norty things over her face and hair... only once did I get a mate to add a bit there.. but.. had she ever found out about THAT one.. I guess I would have been married for even a shorter period of time.. *shrugs* I never try to convince anyone I am nice..

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    For bukkake, no but it doesn't have to be on the face. But what about you and a good few men? Huh? I was recently in a situation with my FWB and three other guys who were all bi. My lover says to me afterwards have you ever been gang banged like that before. I was shocked!! I am not into gang bangs I said. Ewww! But I suppose it was. Anyway the other blokes were hugely disappointing and I swear one had never touched a women before. One man and three halves I called it. If that was a gang bang it must have been the shortest one in the history of the world!!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    That is shithouse! I think a group of women need to tie you up naked and torture you for hours to teach you a lesson!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Crack me up....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' I was married once... and for a short period of time..   My then wife was not always into sex... I was in my prime.. (So I thought)   If she ever refused me sex before falling asleep. she would invariably awaken.. KNOWING someone had done norty things over her face and hair... only once did I get a mate to add a bit there.. but.. had she ever found out about THAT one.. I guess I would have been married for even a shorter period of time.. *shrugs* I never try to convince anyone I am nice.. That's down right RUDE and disrespectful to your then wife!I think you need more than a spanking and whippin!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I agree totally....   Let me know when you want me to present myself to you all... The four horsewomen of the appocalypse.. all riding to pour the vengance of the Mother Goddess onto the heathen caveman... Sounds HAWT!!!!! :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    yep i did that.   tasted my own cum after having a wank just to see what the ladies are experiencing.   As a few of you ladies have said no point asking someone else to do something you wouldnt do your self.   The first time I tasted my cum it was really salty and an ex GF told me once my cum was really sweet the day after Easter so I ate a whole bag of raspberries tasted my cum again and hey presto it was sweet.   I wont do it again bit just wanted to do a Dr Karl experiment, maybe I should call tripple J and tell Dr Karl about my little experiment!   To all you knockerts out there, dont knock it till you try it, just make sure you have a glass of water or strong flavoured chaser ready incase you gag, her afterall its just your own body fluids, we have all drank worse.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Actually I recommend to any man going on a date that expects to get a BJ to eat a lot of sweet stuff in the lead up to your date so if you do get a BJ its a bit sweeter for your date.   Put yourself in the same situation guys, when you go down on a woman that has a beautiful smelling / tasting pussy you cant get anough of it (I cant anyway) but; you will be doing yourself a favour if your cum tastes nice and sweet the first time she tastes itas it will be a pleasant surprise.   Give it a go, I swear it works!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ghostbusters'.... it does

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    is that human sperm is good for the skin,it contains a powerful anti oxidant, spermine which is said to diminish wrinkles and smooth the skin. Many ageless beauties throughout history were privy to this secret,because the Victorians didn't want to upset their Queen ,they re-wrote the history books,it was not asses milk the beauties bathed in but sperm,donated to the cause of eternal youth by armies of devoted wankers. When she died Catherine the Great of Russia was said to have the complexion of a twenty -five year old,entirely due to her devoted personal guard.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' is that human sperm is good for the skin,it contains a powerful anti oxidant, spermine which is said to diminish wrinkles and smooth the skin. Many ageless beauties throughout history were privy to this secret,because the Victorians didn't want to upset their Queen ,they re-wrote the history books,it was not asses milk the beauties bathed in but sperm,donated to the cause of eternal youth by armies of devoted wankers. When she died Catherine the Great of Russia was said to have the complexion of a twenty -five year old,entirely due to her devoted personal guard. Thinking this may be a future Business....BUKKAE SPERM ANTI-WRINKLE CREAM - The fountain of Youth. Yep I'd plaster SPERM daily on my face......

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    for your delectation Superfox,there is chocolate sperm cake,delicious in many different ways.Has to be freshly caught though,fresh is best.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' for your delectation Superfox,there is chocolate sperm cake,delicious in many different ways.Has to be freshly caught though,fresh is best. I'll take two please....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Maybe it's Ejaculate...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Not really into it myself and certainly I would never like a group of men "egging" each other on in that pack mentality. Would kick then all in the nuts first! However, I do like being dirty, naughty or just a bit of depravity is always fun. I like the sweat, and all the dirty side of sex. I was in a MMF bi once where we all ended off with a group rub so to speak. The boys standing over me and it was hot. Mind you my lover then licked all the cum off me afterwards. Got to love a man that will clean up after himself and the other boys. Lol I know most people will go Ewww. But I love being wild and uninhibited. I can only be this way with people I know well and trust though. So it's great that I can take my lover along and we can be wild together with others. :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    If the lady enjoys it why not its her choice & obviously not degrading to her or she wouldnt do it, other women dont like it & thats their choice/decission too. I really dont see the issue either way as it all has to be consentual.

  • MissSarahCurious

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    12 years ago

    I don't do it myself (yes Jensman, it burns like hell when it gets up your nose) but I know girls who love it, they say as long as the guys know they're not getting to do it as a chance to be degrading to her, they're acknowledging that she is the QUEEN of all those cocks and their cumming all over her is like a form of tithing.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    But its a turn on anywhere else on the bodyIt wouldn't be the same for a man so there's no point in getting them to have one

  • N4November

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    12 years ago

    But I hate cum on my face. And hair. But I love cum being spurted on any other part of my body yummmmmmm#next_pages_container { width: 5px; hight: 5px; position: absolute; top: -100px; left: -100px; z-index: 2147483647 !important; } In a gangbang, the girl is usually controlling the play so if that's what she wants, hopefully she will get. But like any fetish, you are either in to it, or not. But here's the oxymoron - I can't stand cum on my face but I PERSONALLY LOVE SQUIRTING either on a man's face or in his mouth!!! It's sooooooo HOT HOT HOT!!! So call me a hypocrite. Spank me :p

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Apparently Silverfox,bukkake originated in 12thc Japan as a punishment for adulterous wives.The village men would gather at the cuckolded husband's request and publicly ejaculate over the kneeling womans face.The intention was to humilate her in front of her fellow villages and family.So historically it was definitely a practice that had a demeaning purpose.In the 1980s Japanese porn introduced the practice to westerners.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MissSarahCurious'I don't do it myself (yes Jensman, it burns like hell when it gets up your nose) but I know girls who love it, they say as long as the guys know they're not getting to do it as a chance to be degrading to her, they're acknowledging that she is the QUEEN of all those cocks and their cumming all over her is like a form of tithing. Liking the idea of the women as the Supreme Being, with men making her an offering of the most intimate part of their manhood. But still.... No.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    cu should stay inside a condom and straight to the bin or toilet..nothing better than a nice clean sex :)   mr passion.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I find it degrading. Now I really dont care about the intent. It is like a dog cocking his leg and marking his territory and as far as I can tell, nobody ever really thinks all that deeply about why they find it so hot. It is a submissive act and deep down inside of the man it is a desire to be THE MAN! All those that say it is not an act of degradation ask yourself why? Why would you want to cum all over a womans face? Why would a woman want the man (men) to cum all over her face? What is there about this act that you find so hot? Be honest with yourself now and I bet you will find it is the dom/sub act you find so stimulating. Sorry guys and girls...I am nobodies bitch. Find another tree to cock your leg on!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Although I don't remember asking.   By the way, if you think it burns up the nose, check out this bit of (distastefull) information. After Freya posted about Catherine the Great's fetish, I tried looking it up on Google. I entered 'catherine the great semen' and this site popped up. When I entered, I found no mention of Catherine but this bit about semen.   "One day, a woman decided to join a beastiality chatroom, like ya do, and in doing so met a German man with a German Shepherd dog, who were both very enthusiastic about having sex with the 43 year-old mother of three. So, you know, if you're looking to join a beastiality community, that's what you want. Mission accomplished. After they met up the faithful, obedient, enthusiastic dog ejaculated in her, like people do during sex. This particular part of the act, though, didn't sit too well with the lady's immune system because it turns out, she was allergic to the dog semen. Who knew? It's not like they test for that. Kind of a crappy way to find out you're allergic to dog semen, though. That's like going on a Cheese-of-the-Month weekend retreat with a group of friends and then finding out you're lactose intolerant. Anyway, the semen killed her after she went into anaphylactic shock."

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'shitusername' I can't see how it's degrading to the woman if she put herself into that position? If a woman CHOOSES to put her self in that position - and the men are respect to her so be - all people are empowered.HOWEVER....If a women puts herself in that position, men push her boundaries, egg each other ( to boost each others egos), to cum on her face, humiliate her and over right her enjoyment...than what do you call that?? DEGRADING in my books....

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Maybe it's Ejaculate... Crack me up!!! I just replaced Maybeline with ejaculate and can hear that girl in the add in my head. Too Funny!!!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel'this is another of those things we feel a guy should experience for himself...ie let his face be showered with cum....so he knows exactly what he's asking a woman to do........ If a woman wants to squirt all over my face... please do, its such a turn on... its just finding women that can actually squirt is the problem... lol I experienced it a couple of times from the same lady many years back, squirted all over me, from my head down to my knees, absolutely bathed in it, what an awesome feeling it was... and then again only 3 years ago, the WOW-factor, you really can not ask for more... The sweet taste of a woman... cant beat it...

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Whats wrong with using a condon, and instead of cumming on the girl give her a kiss and a hug to thank her for the great sex u just had???? Mr passion.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Where a bunch of us "squirting cougars" *tries not to puke* ties up a man (let's play with Cavey) and attempts to drown him? We'll change Cavey's name to Noah or Moses or ......- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'howaboutsayinghi' Quoting 'mikeandshel'this is another of those things we feel a guy should experience for himself...ie let his face be showered with cum....so he knows exactly what he's asking a woman to do........ If a woman wants to squirt all over my face... please do, its such a turn on... its just finding women that can actually squirt is the problem... lol I experienced it a couple of times from the same lady many years back, squirted all over me, from my head down to my knees, absolutely bathed in it, what an awesome feeling it was... and then again only 3 years ago, the WOW-factor, you really can not ask for more... The sweet taste of a woman... cant beat it... no........if a man asks or attempts to cum on a womans face...he should first experience men cumming on his own face.... its only fair

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel'no........if a man asks or attempts to cum on a womans face...he should first experience men cumming on his own face.... its only fairHow can it be fair to do this to a hetero male? It's a different kettle of fish. I've had girls smother me with their pussy. Their juices all over my face. This seems a more equal trade to me.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ...the first thing Jennylee does after a blowjob is to pounce on me and kiss me. That's fair too, isn't it?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Was talking about this the other day. It feels like the pay off for all the energy spent leading up to the climax. It's hot and it makes me smile.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Careful what you ask for lady.... I am only in Orange you know... just around the corner from you really... :)   I am a fluid transfer person... so girl, IF you squirt..... I WANT to meet you :)

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'jensman1903'...the first thing Jennylee does after a blowjob is to pounce on me and kiss me. That's fair too, isn't it? Fucking HOT!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    if a woman could cum like a male perhaps...but they dont...its like anal...we agree that a guy should offer his ass up for exploration, long before asking a gal to do the same.... its only fair.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    Quoting 'mikeandshel' if a woman could cum like a male perhaps...but they dont...Dozens of squirting experiences mentioned on the forums... I believe they can!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ...before allowing him to indulge in hetero play with the lady of his choice. I wouldn't force a woman to do anything she doesn't like but, if she does like it, why would I need to be made to do something I don't like. This is like telling a hetero woman that she has to eat out another woman before I'll go down on her. Your concept of fairness is perverse.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    how else can a man fully understand what it is hes asking a woman to allow herself to be subjected to? i'd say by allowing himself to experience the very things he's asking for...he'd be showing just how 'broad minded' he's willing to be......how can that be anything less than fair?

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    wht's wrong with behaving like humans, and don't do yukky things like that. won't be any rooms for arguements and everyone will be happy.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    ...before you would go down on her.

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I find it quite a turn on to get cum on me and have had it from a small group of men before.It's warm and gooey and if your a little submissive it's perfect. Big tick for me!

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    to e honest never thought of it that way but can see your point

  • RHP

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    12 years ago

    I knew you were close ... I could sense it with my aqua radar ... ;-)