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FFM
April 22 2014
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Mischeviouslad
11 years ago
That explains the jealousy part. The bloke expects it to be all about him. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I normally share the idea and let them think about it and fantasise. Over the years I have found that many women had that desire and curiosity buried within themselves but for a number of reasons they suppressed the desire. A girl that I have know for 20 years said to me once that she would do it if she were really drunk. And I replied, well that doesn't make sense because if you want to try it and you are couscous about it, you should just try it. She was using alcohol to liberate her so her values wouldn't somehow be affected. The bottom line is that a lot of women want to try it, ether for the curiosity or because it really turns them on. Sometimes just giving them the idea helps them to allow these desires to surface and that's how it starts. If it isn't started by the woman and she does it just to please me it won't be much of a turn on. It has to be natural and somewhat spontaneous. I did have girls say that they would do it for me, and I said if they weren't doing it because they were turned on by it then it wasn't right to do it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I love the idea of being with a woman, my Husband seeing me with a woman, us both being with the woman and us both pleasing her....it's a fantasy of mine to have a FFM/FMF which he is willing to be a part of haha. We've only done brothel play (separately that is, I asked him to go then return to tell me all about it and re-enact it, I love pleasure/pain - mental anguish? Obviously the pleasure part is stronger than the pain part, then I went out if curiosity, it was a strange experience the whole brothel process but I did enjoy my first time with a woman) Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
"Not like the girls are going to run off together.." It has happened
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' "Not like the girls are going to run off together.." It has happened Yes... yes it has... SG
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Amicus75' Quoting 'Luckdragon23' "Not like the girls are going to run off together.." It has happened Yes... yes it has... SG Hope I haven't brought up some bad memories for you Amicus. Sincerely apologise if I have...
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RHP User
11 years ago
We are a young couple and seeking a FFM it is something we both fantasies about. If anything me (the female) is the one that suggested we really look ;) of course being married there's a sense of will your partner have more fun with another woman more then with me? But we both are in it together and we both really want it and we have sexy chemistry between us both already. As long as the female who joins us respects that we are married then it shouldn't be a problem but instead a lot of fun!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Me and my guy are in an open relationship and I actively encourage him to find other women for himself and for both of us to share and yes I was the one that instigated it, I'm secure enough within myself to be able to do this and he knows that he's the only guy I'll have sex with, he is turned on by me being with other women {nearly but not quite as much as I am} with or without him being involved.. it is a trust/respect thing, he trusts me not to run off with another woman same as I trust him not to either and we respect each others needs and desires.. Trust is far more powerful than love..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'wantabitoffun3' We are a young couple and seeking a FFM it is something we both fantasies about. If anything me (the female) is the one that suggested we really look ;) Have you too had the "What if" conversation? Say for argument's sake I'm the second F. For example, would you be perfectly ok with your man fucking me or coming in my mouth? What if he and I shared a passionate kiss?What if he's a bit too enthusiastic for your liking? I've been in the situation where the wife suddenly gave hubbie an angry look and said "What are you doing?!"She had not anticipated how she would feel when observing her husband enjoying himself with another woman, she had mainly considered everything she herself would experience and feel. I could be totally out of line here, but I'd hate for that to be you.
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madotara69
11 years ago
It's Mado the Mr, Tara is sitting on the lounge just over there, holding our little one watching our son play video games. We have been playing with MFM, and just recently we talked of playing with a woman, FMF. It was Tara who bought it up. I get off on her getting off, so I go with the flow. Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
11 years ago
the 'her' being bi? I've been in a few uncomfortable situations where the couple didn't have their shit sorted. Boring as far as I'm concerned. Like Meander said, she can get pissed if he's connecting a bit too much. He can also get pissed if the girls are having too much fun. Geez people, it all gets too hard if you have issues. Enjoy seeing your partners get off with other people or get out of the game for a bit. No wonder unicorns are hard to find.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Luckdragon23' Quoting 'Amicus75' Hope I haven't brought up some bad memories for you Amicus. Sincerely apologise if I have...No no... is all good LuckDragon. SG
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madotara69
11 years ago
is a difference with three way play and threesomes. Personally and this is no ego thing, but there is nothing I would share with a lady that I did not share with Tara, there is no way in the world I would have her feeling like that. But if, well when we play with another lady, it would be an all together event. That is why we like threesomes and not really interested in three way sex. Just one tangled mess, all cumming with each other and stuff like that as long as it can possibly last, at some point we would all need to rest. For a little while, then fuck it, why not just do it all over again, for the sakes of it. Mado Tara xx
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Beachlifetwo
11 years ago
We have had a lot of fun in both MFM and FMF threesomes fun for all, I (Mrs cplinmountain) love both and have initiated FMF's for our (read my) pleasure Mr seems to be having fun too though. LOL
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RHP User
11 years ago
no idea how people in committed relationships can do it. I would not and could not. I wouldn't say that I am an extremely jealous person, but I am jealous enough that I know that I would not want to see my partner with another person sexually whether I am involved or not. I could be the unicorn while not seeing anyone but I could not do it with a loved one. Congratulations if you are one of the few couples that can but to me it is a recipe for disaster. You would need to be very strong and committed and not have any doubts whatsoever to get away with it. I don't know too many couples like that.
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Lovinit28andKC72
11 years ago
Couldn't have said it better if I tried.......👍
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RHP User
11 years ago
She wanted it, and yes, she did run off with the female. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
You took the words out of my mouth ;) Erm....keyboard ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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JohnAnn2227
11 years ago
Every boyfriend I have had has pushed the FFM. I would have been worried if they hadn't. Once I tried it I was hooked and have now fully embraced my bisexuality. By participating in a FFM for John, down the line it has resulted in me understanding who I really am and a little bit more of what makes me tick. I would never have taken the step of meeting a girl for sex if I was on my own and so would never have really come out and been myself sexually.I suppose that is the difference as well between bi-curious and bisexual but that is probably for another post.
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RHP User
11 years ago
My ex partner and I discussed this in length. To be honest I can't remember who came up with the idea however she definitely drove it after the 'Discussion' when it was brought up. It is a pretty touchy subject for some couples and should definitely be thoroughly discussed beforehand. It can break a relationship but it can also enhance a relationship, it really just depends how each other react when they eventually see their partner with 'another person'. My advise is to set boundaries and make them clear! Make sure you always respect the boundaries and have fun!
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