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FRIENDS LIST OR HOT LIST ?

February 20 2013

Ok so following on from my recent topic about profile pics...since adding a face pic I've seen a huge increase in profile activity!!!! Next opinion I'd like to ask is what members think about adding friends? What advantage does publicly advertising the number of contacts you have, have over just adding them to your hot list which remains private? Are members excited by or put off by a member who appears to have a large number of "friends" or similarly no friends at all? On other social networking sites people with 1000s of friends are seen to have kudos is it the same here?

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xFunlovingx

12 years ago

I only add people from the Forums or people I have met...I get turned off by guys that try to add me that have never spoken a word to me...They are just picture collectors in my mind! At least on FB if you have 1000's of friends (Good Lord why oh why would you do that unless your a teen) they are usually people you know! But in the end it is up to you and how you use this site! xFunlovingx

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RHP User

12 years ago

The greater the Friends count, the less meaning it has, as far as I'm concerned. I have a small number of people I've met or spoken to on my Friends list, whose profiles and personalities I like. Friends list does not equal shag list, either.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Well I can say that almost all my friends on my friends list are actually good friends of mine. Very few are actually people I have played with. So I only add people i have personally met, however there two exceptions. Friends that i message weekly and have never met personally but consider them friends none the less.Rhp is a social media and I enjoyed meeting everyone at the meet and greets. Its not all about sexual partners, so I don't see a problem with it.Ms Silk

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RHP User

12 years ago

I only have a few 'friends' on my profile, they are people I have or had some contact with. I don't find it off putting if someone was a lot or no friends listed. Like Facebook, some people like to collect and others don't. To me this has no reflection on the person at all.

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GezWouldGo

12 years ago

I don't do lists, hot, block, friends, whatever. Who I've chatted, met, played or drank with is mine and their business and I'm not advertising it to anyone randomly flicking through profiles.

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RHP User

12 years ago

We only add friends if we've met and enjoyed their company or played together. From time to time we get friend requests from randoms, we never accept them.

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RHP User

12 years ago

if they have heaps of "Friends". And I also reject friends request from people that i have had no contact with. Why the hell do people do that?

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RHP User

12 years ago

Yep , it's not FaceBook & many people Friend Request so they can always be alerted to your activity here . I see some Profiles with hundreds of Friends . I guess they accept every Request . Pretty sad to think that some people have more Friends here than they do in Real Life . Ultimately , I personally , am not here to score points . I'm here to do what I do ..... Intimately not Publicly ;)- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'neptune_drift'The greater the Friends count, the less meaning it has, as far as I'm concerned. I have a small number of people I've met or spoken to on my Friends list, whose profiles and personalities I like. Friends list does not equal shag list, either. All the people on my friends list ..are that...friends - Ive had serious interaction with these people and Im proud to be associated with them..most of them I have met....there are a few over East Im still to meet...and Im looking at rectifying tha tin the near future......and Im honored that they have included me on their list...who I shag though is my business and not up for public scrutiny... Do I want to bonk any of my friends on my list ??...........................: Mutley snigger........hehehehehe

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'neptune_drift'The greater the Friends count, the less meaning it has, as far as I'm concerned. I have a small number of people I've met or spoken to on my Friends list, whose profiles and personalities I like. Friends list does not equal shag list, either. Of my twelve friends (couples counting as one), I've met ten in person and emailed a fair bit with the other two. I've certainly not had sex with all of them, though here's hoping...

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RHP User

12 years ago

An apparently very popular guy I know has over 800 Fb friends, but swears he knows all of them. I doubt I know half that many people, am I missing out?

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inspirit

12 years ago

I could not give a shit if you have 1 or 1000. Until I meet you I will not judge you I may just spank you for starters Hope my list grows just to keep ya all guessing Click Click Clickety Click ......

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'Otori' We only add friends if we've met and enjoyed their company or played together. From time to time we get friend requests from randoms, we never accept them. Same Same, Only add if I have met them. But while on the subject I don't like it that if you put someone on your hotlist, it tells them.

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RHP User

11 years ago

BUT I have been here for close to 10 years. I enjoy the social side of RHP, which is pretty substantial if you live in Perth. I'm pretty chatty and stay in touch with a lot of people, but doesn't mean I am shagging them.I've been to heaps of meets, all sorts of parties, birthday parties, weddings and even funerals for some of the people on my list.I should really get around to culling some I have lost touch with, but I don't think it really matters.I just noticed I have 15 pages of requests I haven't even bothered to look at.

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