FWB , Discrete sensual friendship.

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  trybiwa1048

  2 years ago

  message me and we can discuss

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  KrisM

  2 years ago

  I suspect you have a vested interest in a FWB relationship being static in nature... which is made clearer by the term 'discrete' in your title. Realistically, any/every relationship changes over time. If you are looking for a bit of 'side action', then it should be fairly obvious that this also fits your current relationship. We can't help the way we feel, and often end up behaving in ways that run counter to the goals and ideals we set for ourselves. Said simply.. you aren't in control of your emotions (or those of other people). Those emotions are controlling you/us/them/etc. Efforts you make to restrain yourself by denying your natural needs, desires, and impulses is akin to going to war with yourself. You create something of an internal battle where you behave in a way that differs from who you are. You end up creating something of a fake persona... and it can lead to some serious problems if you continue pretending to be something you're not. At some point, you lose track of who you actually are, and then you really have no idea what you want let alone what's good for you. By accepting that life is somewhat unpredictable, that people change, and you should adjust accordingly... you'll have a much better chance of being comfortable living with yourself, and maybe you'll be happier too. If you have a partner, have a talk to her about opening up the relationship. If you're looking to explore your sexual needs, she (or he?) should have the same leeway. Otherwise, you accept that you can't guarantee a FWB relationship will remain oriented solely towards sex. There's a 'risk' that one or both of you will want it to evolve into something more. And your FWB partner will have something to gain by making a discrete relationship.. not so discrete.

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  RHP User

  2 years ago

  Just keep being friends and take all the benifits you can until you feel that emotional attachment , once that happens you got a few choices you either go with your feelings and do what makes you happy otherwise you gotta cut ties and move on

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  clasco

  2 years ago

  Love these 2 posts xx

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