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Face each other making love

January 01 2022

Face Each Other When You’re Making Love This might seem like a no-brainer, but it’s worth stating. When you’re aiming for maximum connection with your partner, you want to choose positions that create intimacy. That usually means a sexual position where you are facing each other. Eye contact can be a powerful ingredient in your lovemaking formula. Not so easy to do when you’re giving it to her doggy style in the walk-in closet. Instead, look for positions that allow you to be eye to eye, nose to nose and mouth to mouth. Missionary, The Lotus, Face Off and Coital Alignment Technique, also known as CAT, are a few worth investigating. These moves will give you the greatest chances of creating a connection. The one exception is if you’re in front of a mirror where you can still have that eye contact. However, it may depend on how confident your partner is, so check in with them about the mirror first.

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funtimescouple1

3 years ago

Let's take a step back, in our case with couples dating. Face each other when chatting, make eye contact and if it's reciprocated, build from there. The way we like to build interest, flirting, a connection, anticipation, excitement, arousal. As a couple we have no jealousy whatsoever and have no problem with each other trading cheeky looks and gestures with our opposite but we find some couples are reluctant to make eye contact. For us if we can do that and start and build a connection then heading to the bedroom becomes a real possibility and the more flirty the connection before hand, the better the connection and the more fun flows if and when we get to the bedroom.

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Rising_Phoenix

3 years ago

Having someone up close and personal behind you can be very intimate and erotic. Not a huge fan of eye contact, don’t even want him looking at me half the time because while what’s happening may feel freakin amazing, I’ll almost certainly have a weird half frown on my face 😂 I don’t think it has anything to do with confidence and in fact that seems like a rather psychologically manipulative thing to say. In summary, I do not agree with this theory.

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Rising_Phoenix

3 years ago

I can confidently look my partner in the eyes during sex, but I don’t like having to concentrate on my facial expressions in order to let them know I’m having a good time, so it’s more about not wanting to shake their confidence in themselves than anything. Also it seems weird and slightly psychopathic when people try too hard to maintain eye contact.

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FeistyFatty

3 years ago

This sounds positively awful to me. I don't like eye contact and prolonged eye contact while you're being intimate..... cringe. Certainly hasn't detracted from my or others enjoyment I might add.

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RHP User

3 years ago

I absolutely agree. People are so damaged they can't look another in the eye in general, let alone during sex. It is a huge confidence issue. It's associated with shame. Best way to overcome it is to realise a guy doesn't give a shit what your cum face is, it's still hot too him. And engaging with someone gives you the best orgasms.

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RHP User

3 years ago

Well, if someone wants you for your monster horse cock, maybe gazing into your eyes is not very relevant.

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countrytouch82

3 years ago

Way back I would eye gaze with a FWB, just while cuddled up on the couch. Kinda spontaneous for connection. Or in general, if you *want such a connection, you generally build it *before sex. Even for kissing though, which is great for connection, it's not with the eyes. And still wasn't normally an occurrence during sex. In any case most or many sexual scenarios and positions are not face to face :p

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