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Face pics in pg's?
September 12 2011
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RHP User
13 years ago
ecept thats what 'private galleries' are for..........no need for face pics in the public gallery..........for us, there are indeed concerns of privacy, but from our adult children and their friends, everyone else who matters already knows we play, including brothers/sisters and parents....even cousins. we have 3 other family members with profiles here, but they dont need access to our more 'personal' pictures...........
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RHP User
13 years ago
Geeeez! The nerve of some professionals. I am a professional and I show my face lol.I used to refuse to show my pics to anyone that asked upfront without chatting or messaging. When I was sure that the guy was the type I was looking for I would ask to exchange pics. I have no problem showing my face and I can understand others being cautious but I don't get it either. If they can show their pics on MSN why not here?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I received a message from a guy the other week... I asked him to put up some pics. He then said that I obviously don't have kids. I replied that I do have a child. He then proceed to tell me that he would never consider putting up a face pic as he would not like his 14 yr old daughter finding him on the net...Huh??? I replied... There is a thing called private gallery where you can hide your face pics... I also asked him why he would think his 14 yr old would be searching sex sites....hmmmmm.. Too weird...blocked...lol.. If they can't put up face pics in their PG..then they are hiding something . hugs sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
We can understand people not wanting there face in there public gallery for all to see. Put considering it take 5 min to load on in your PG there is no excuse.What are some people thinking. Are you going to say yes to meeting sight unseen. They most likely will turn out to be John Merricks stunt double.The MSN things gives us the shits to. You can pick a fake person or couple in the 1st 5 min. A real person or couple who is honest and have nothing to hide. They will have a face pic of them self or both people if a coupe. They will be willing to talk on the phone and meet in person. Thats if you are what they are looking for. If not you will get a message that you are not what they are looking for. Its just so easy. Its always a easy straight forward proses with real people.A fake person or couple with something to hide. They will have little or no pics but request to se yours. Will be keen to move over to MSN. Will not have a verified profile. Will most likely not even read your profile before messaging. they will make every excuse under the sun why they cant talk on the phone or meet in person.We have had 1000's of messages from people. From that we have met a good 100 or so. Every single one of the people real people that we met in person things played out like above. It was a simple proses as you would expect from real people.We wish there was more that RHP could do to weed out the fakes and time wasters.T&J
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RHP User
13 years ago
We are getting so annoyed with some of these people. We had someone say to us recently 'what's wrong with you that you don't use MSN?' 'Eeerrrrr' came the response 'we are real and don't like to sit at home and watch the male 'half' of the Cpl jerk off while his partner is 'at work' we replied.
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RHP User
13 years ago
no face no fuk
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erotictouch4u
13 years ago
I have a professional job and have a face pic in my PG which I am always willing to share with interested people. Hard to understand why others can't. ET xox
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rupamohan
13 years ago
We want to see face pics don't care in PG or msn. We do prefer face pic in PG but we find the argument that if I have mine you should too is as useless as the argument that I am a pro nd I need to hide my face...( I am not saying you are making this argument) We prefer pics that are- a) Cpl together in same pic b) Updated pic if your looks changed in negative direction. We don't like old and new pic mixed up that is even more confusing c) If you post grp pic identify yourself.
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RHP User
13 years ago
My wife and I have just read this topic and agree that not everyone wants to fully expose who they are to all the people who use this site. There are persons who frequent this site like others pretending to be someone they arn't ie single males posing as couples etc. Why should they be given full access to a persons full identity just because they can search what they want. We respect the fact that some users are quite at ease with the whole "look its me thing" but we are a little more resevered than that. If someone wants to know our full identity than they can ask and share theirs I think you hard corers should be able to respect that. After all I dont want to give a wanker sitting behind a screen at home everything and nor doese my wife. We agree with the statement above that you have to PG folders and you can share everything in them with whome ever you want it doesn't need to be on the profile page. Just our thoughts hope we haven't pisssed anyone off, but if we have than you need to broaden your outlook.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'happycoupleky' My wife and I have just read this topic and agree that not everyone wants to fully expose who they are to all the people who use this site. There are persons who frequent this site like others pretending to be someone they arn't ie single males posing as couples etc. Why should they be given full access to a persons full identity just because they can search what they want. We respect the fact that some users are quite at ease with the whole "look its me thing" but we are a little more resevered than that. If someone wants to know our full identity than they can ask and share theirs I think you hard corers should be able to respect that. After all I dont want to give a wanker sitting behind a screen at home everything and nor doese my wife. We agree with the statement above that you have to PG folders and you can share everything in them with whome ever you want it doesn't need to be on the profile page. Just our thoughts hope we haven't pisssed anyone off, but if we have than you need to broaden your outlook.dont sweat it too much....people will always try to force their values upon others....just do what suits yourselves, we do, and it works famously. we dont care if other have face pics or not, so long as they show when asked. we are just annoyed and amazed by those who send a half dozen dick-pics when we ask to see some photos. I mean really, we arent children.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...that any number of women here will have nothing more than a cleavage shot or a picture of their butt and respond with "Show me some face pictures", reflective perhaps of the disenfranchisement of the single males in this venue. Many people do have and prefer to maintain some levels of privacy for very valid reasons...I respect those for both the person I am speaking to as well as extending that courtesy to myself. I am now highly inclined to simply pass if that is the first response...and take my "chances" with the rest. | A good gambler always plays his cards close to his chest...
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RHP User
13 years ago
And your face pics are where on your profile for all to see? and no I dont have mine in pg but I do have it in private and will grant access if required. It all boils down to choice of where you want to put your pics its a bit like the many number of members who choose not to put up pics at all its all about choice.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'ecept thats what 'private galleries' are forIm one of those people who work in the public eye (plus im in a small town now), but if anyone wants to see my face, its just a flirt away. I know I wont meet anyone without seeing a face pic, so I just assume others have the same expectations.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Chuzzwozza' Quoting 'mikeandshel'ecept thats what 'private galleries' are forIm one of those people who work in the public eye (plus im in a small town now), but if anyone wants to see my face, its just a flirt away. I know I wont meet anyone without seeing a face pic, so I just assume others have the same expectations. years ago it was a simple matter to 'save' the photos from sites like this...a matter of a click and it was done.....we encountered a guy who we'd never met, who was passing himself off as a couple......when he swapped pics with us, we discovered that a few of the pics of him and his 'wife' were actually our pictures...of myself and my wife......which is why our photos are all 'watermarked' now...........I have no real issue with my face pics being in the public gallery, but i protect my wifes integrity at all times..........and am extra careful with her pics.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
yes we get all those.. They want to meet without showing a real pic of both of them?? Then we are FUSSY and Hard core? cause we wont just turn up and agree to play that night? hahaha. Yes...what are these people thinking. if you dont have recent face and full body pics of both of you available Public or private gallery is fine. You are NOT ready or arnt serious about meeting we figure :) so we move on to the next profile. Bernie and Kat
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RHP User
13 years ago
So far the forum has covered the main issues, we also get pissed of when ppl are not willing to show face pics (in PG) and want to do msn. We usually find that it from ppl who do have something to hide. SIngle guys posing as cpls, single guys who show pics not of themselves but of a six pack gut and 8 inch cock. Or our pet hate cpls with no or bad teeth. I am sure there is a phobia for that lol. If you are afraid some one will see you then don't get online and don't bullsh..t. Be careful of identity theft, not just for ppl using your pics for their profile but real crime stuff. We went to last Saints and SInners and I walked inot a female that works in my office. All is cool we are both on the site so no threat. If any tries to use it fess up and say yes we are on a leagl adult site but you are committing an offence by harrassing me in the workplace. Great idea about watermarking pics, other swinging sites do it for you why not this one.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Chuzzwozza' Quoting 'mikeandshel'ecept thats what 'private galleries' are forIm one of those people who work in the public eye (plus im in a small town now), but if anyone wants to see my face, its just a flirt away. I know I wont meet anyone without seeing a face pic, so I just assume others have the same expectations. years ago it was a simple matter to 'save' the photos from sites like this...a matter of a click and it was done.....we encountered a guy who we'd never met, who was passing himself off as a couple......when he swapped pics with us, we discovered that a few of the pics of him and his 'wife' were actually our pictures...of myself and my wife......which is why our photos are all 'watermarked' now...........I have no real issue with my face pics being in the public gallery, but i protect my wifes integrity at all times..........and am extra careful with her pics..... How do we "watermark" our pics in our PG? Sounds like a great idea!
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RHP User
13 years ago
there are any number of programs available....I use "photoscape" ........is pretty easy...you can do them one by one, or edit a 'batch' of pics at a time...........do an online search, or go to one of the reputable software share sites....if you have no luck, message me if you like.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you've taken the time to set up a genuine profile then adding a few photo's, including a face pic, should be a given. Then, if you've taken the time to take the photos why not make the effort and verify your profile??? We keep our face pics and more personal photos in our PG to protect our privacy and no, we're not professionals. What a load of crap that ' I'm a proffessional ' excuse for not showing a face pic is. One thing i would like to see RHP introduce is the requirement to have your profile re-verified every 12 months to weed out those verified couples that are no longer couples but still pretend to be. Just my thoughts S
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RHP User
13 years ago
Thanks mikeand shel...will def look into that.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It seems the guys on here dont read the forums either...... Just been chatting to a guy who wont put pics in his pg but is willing to email them. Sorry.....but as my profile says.....no pics no chat no meet. I have face pics in my pg and are willing to show them when required but whats with the guys on here that dont have a single shot in any pg and then expect you to show them yours ??? I will continue to tell them I am not interested until they show a face pic.
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N4November
13 years ago
When I first joined up I was paranoid about anyone from my workplace finding out about my shenanigans on redhotpie. I'd worked nearly 20 years in a male dominated industry and reached a high level within the organisation and I could only imagine that my liking for bdsm/MFF/MMF's (especially bi lol) should get out there among the boys - that the only thing people would see is the sexual reputation and not my professionalism. I've worked too hard to lose it all for a fuck or 3! And frankly, I could only imagine walking through those environments and the boys sweetly offering to 'help me out with that'..... . And yep - its a small swinging world! The first party I went to down the central coast - I recognised several people but luckily enough degrees of seperation to not be overly worried that they would blab - I was the single one afterall! . But the main reason was that as a single woman living in a small coastal town - I had my personal security and that of my children to consider and I won't risk my families safety. . Luckily for me, it didn't stop people from meeting me - sight unseen. Many would come up from Sydney and meet me for lunch/dinner. No diff from travelling west sydney to the northern beaches I suppose. And I found those who had to put an effort in (to meet me) where genuine and awesome people! So thank you to those who took a punt (you know who you are) - 99% I enjoyed every minute. And some that lead to regular visits - yay! . We all have our boundaries. I've chilled a bit and now have a face pic in my pg. Funny, I'm not comfortable progressing a contact if they don't have a face pic. . C'est la vie
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hmmm well I am cheating on my husband and I work in a professional job where I would lose my position if it was seen on here so yes I don't put up my photo but I will share it after a bit of a chat.
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newyboy70
13 years ago
My wife does not work (housewife) and does not associate with many females only family. Yet out of respect for her as a wife and mother and for my children, i would not want her pictured being in any way associated with the "Lifestyle".Could you imagine if a parent at the local school found out. I think some of the people who are saying those who don't post a pic are not real or hiding, either do not have children or do not have any respect for themselves or partners.PS: people may call it a lifestyle, but lifestyles are not judged like this one.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Soooooooooooooo after the countless forums on this subject and looking at the Many people that have replied to the countless forums on people not putting there face photos on there profile I have changed mine to a face photo yeh I know I am not a Greek Adonis but put your whinge where your mouth is don’t complain about people not having a face photo if you are not willing to put your own up . there are plenty of people that have had a say about no face profile pics that have their face blurred out, tits or a dick photo or no photo at all so if you are going to have a say about someone not having a face photo where everyone can see don’t bitch about someone not having a face photo for you to see. Do a search there are more people on RPH that don’t have a face photo than the ones that do.XXXDW you started this thread mmm blurry photo no face pic I have showed mine where is yours?
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RHP User
13 years ago
these profiles and their pics should be the absolute best you can put together, if you dont have it in you to show an honest and enticing photo of yourself somewhere in either a public or private gallery, you are wasting everyones time. we have an issue with the guys who either have no photos, or only photos of their cocks to share. we feel they arent serious, so are quite happy to completely ignore them. for anyone to capture our imagination they have to at least have photos that show some thought, some care, and some consideration. this doesnt mean pics of some old tattoo, or of you in your hi-viz workgear, or of your shoes, motorcycle, car, boat, holding a dead fish, or wrestling a fucking crocodile......we have these things, or have seen them and done them............show us something we dont have...........show us who you are! or go away and leave us all alone.......
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RHP User
13 years ago
its about having them and showing them if and when asked. not having them visible for the whole world to see..........it matters little what gallery they are in.....thats personal choice. but if someone wants to see one before progressing further than just an initial contact, they should be able to do so........but here. not on msn or yahoo or facefriggnbook or anywhere else..........pg might mean 'private gallery'......understand?
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RHP User
13 years ago
We have been 'caught' 3 times over the years and now because of that we request face pics first, but we have ours ready to go in the PG. Sometimes it feels a bit crass we make such demands upfront but if it's going to work that's how it is. If people don't have face pics they might swell not be here. We really only look at faces followed by general body shape, we don't care what the rest looks like or the size of this and that. I am disappointed when getting PG access full of dick and pussy shots and nothing else. We don't respond to such profiles usually. It's only slightly less annoying than people who do not read the profile and contact you like they are fishing for any hits. Only slightly less....
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DonnaBrett
13 years ago
For us..no facial photos..no meeting!! And if you do show your faces..you damn well better look the same in person like your photos show!! If that's being shallow...tough!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
anyone get the chain of sentiment yet? that pictures are desirable, but need to be desirable in themselves............or they are useless.
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RHP User
13 years ago
A couple contacts us with body shots only, so we ask for face photos from a couple just touching on 50. We get given photos when they were in their late 20s, complete with the look ....from the 1980 / 1990. We did not think a responce was warranted untill they give us CURRENT photos, Like the Mrs says "I am 49/50 and when I am in my sixties I will play with other 60 yr olds" It just screams they are hiding something!
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RHP User
13 years ago
watermarks are a good idea, we will do that as soon as we make new pictures (mr is 10+kilos)as for re-verifying, thats a fantastic idea.for us, we seldom contact anyone with things to hide,those we do contact are the ones who placed their efforts in writting a profile that explains why their pictures and stats are so bare.and a face picture does not gurantee 'nothing to hide',just weeds out the undesireabes.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not just lack of face pics but what about the "couple" profiles that just have pics of the woman? Shits me to tears. If you're here advertising as a couple looking for couples, then there should be pics of both of you. Mrs D
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RHP User
13 years ago
Couples' profiles with 101 pics of the girl and nothing of the man would be our biggest gripe. Then by the time you weed out the photo of the male half, most times you are wishing you didn't bother. What are they expecting, you're going to be mesmerised by the female pic and your partner is just going to go along for the ride and take one for the team?The comment before regarding not being able to put up face pics even in a Private gallery we really cant understand. What is the difference between opening your pg to someone or send them a email or having to use MSN or Yahoo? It's a private gallery, your choice as to who can see it. If they happen to be people you know outside of RHP, then they have to explain why they were on here and asking for your PG. What we like to see before there is any chance we will meet in person: a clear and recent face pic of both of you in your PG - no sunglasses, hats or so dark and blurry you can't see anything. In your public gallery, if you're a couple, a body pic of both of you so we have some idea of your body shape.No one wants a blind date. We are looking for people whose body and face we are attracted to, if we can't see a pic of both then we cant make a decision if we are interested or not and things will go nowhere.Also the people that send you a friend request along with their first message. We have clearly written in our profile that we do not accept friend requests from anyone we haven't met in person. When we get the request, it's a clear indication they haven't read our profile.We find that the more genuine the people are with nothing to hide, the more simple the process of an initial exchange to meeting to potentially playing. It happens smoothly, easily and in a straight forward manner. Or you deal with the above mentioned, it's complicated with excuses. I guess that's the game of whether you click or you don't. It can be a frustrating process dealing with the ones that you don't.Tim & Jane
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jummy
13 years ago
i dont have a pic but i am for reel... my job wont let me put a pc up iam a park ranger,
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting '2into2' ... cpls with no or bad teeth....This reminds me of a girlfriend I had. She gave the best head and I mean the best. After two years together we split up and I had to ask "what was her secret to giving great head". Turns out she had all her teeth pulled out in her teens... So don't knock women with no teeth!!!!My wife and I were having coffee with a couple without photos. As we walked in I was disappointed that the womans body type wasn't to my taste. She flirted with me and I flirted back and before too long I could tell that she really wanted me. That always gets me hard. I was very disappointed that my Mrs gave me the "I'm not interested" signal as I would have very much liked to take it further. Motto is that photos don't tell everything - for me a woman that wants me is far sexier than one with a perfect face/body.
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