Slow_at_first

Slow_at_first

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Facials?

April 09 2013

We are new to this and yet to have our first meeting. We also have had very limited experience with other partners. We have watched a bit of porn to prepare. Just wondering if any women actually enjoy men coming all over their faces. Do guys want to do it? Seems a bit gross and disrespectful in a way. I hope it's just a porn "money shot" thing.

Comments

  • Mr_MrsAraps

    Mr_MrsAraps

    12 years ago

    Do what YOU want to do, feel comfortable doing and would enjoy doing. If facials or whatever kink floats your boat then talk about honestly and knock yourself out and don't feel the least bit embarrassed. I wouldn't do it just because its in porn.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In my eyes it's not degrading at all. It's a visual and tactile reward for all that has proceeded. But I am seriously into giving head, can do it for hours, love it to bits, so maybe there's a link there with my oral fixation. It's usually done with an intense sexy but fun attitude and smiles all round. What's degrading about that?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Some women enjoy it. I suggest you go to a swingers club as preparation rather than watching porn though. Sometimes men and women want to be treated like a naughty slut, cum on, pissed on, slapped, etc. Some people get it and some people no matter how hard they try will never understand it.

  • Cheeky_01

    Cheeky_01

    12 years ago

    The first sentence of your reply - pun intended??? :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm just going to elaborate as far as Meeka's statement about wanting to be treated as a naughty slut etc that it's really not the headspace I am cumming from. Initially when my husband wanted to do it I was just indulging his request, as you do, but now I genuinely enjoy the experience. I do not feel naughty, just desired, it allows me to look directly in the eyes of the cummer. It's hot and never ever have I felt anything but respect and lust from the guys. Don't knock it until you've tried it. Jism is a thing of wonder, it's a life force, it's gooey warm and just for me. I'd be interested to see if there is any guy here (non-BDSM) who likes to do it and backs up the theory that it's about degrading a girl, or putting her in her place. Anyone?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    women do like it. I'm not one of them, and I would never let a guy cum on my face (of course, I'm not referring to the times when a stray bit lands there if they cum on your boobs / chest, sometimes that's just unavoidable).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    He says a man likes to cum on what he finds attractive, ass, tits or if a foot fetishist feet. And so if he finds a woman facially beautiful he will enjoy cumming on her face.

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    12 years ago

    Male half here, if a lady wants cum on her face I'm happy to oblige ...actually I have been very surprised over the years by just how many women do enjoy cum play, whether it's facial shots, swallowing or just having body bits sprayed. From my perspective, it is certainly not degrading or a means of putting a woman in her place, that's just nonsense. I very much respect women, they are here to be worshipped IMO. If a lady asks me to cum on her face I take that as the ultimate compliment, however I would never ask her directly, I may tell her I'm about to cum and what does she like? Then it's up to her to say whether she wants it in the condom or somewhere on her. If I'm receiving head and I'm getting close I will ALWAYS tell her, it would be rude to cum in her mouth without her consent. Although, I would say at least 70% of the time that I've been in that situation the girls have swallowed! I've been amazed!At the end of the day it's all about having fun...so long as all parties involved are enjoying themselves & respecting each other's boundaries & desires that's all that matters!Quoting 'TokenUtopian' Don't knock it until you've tried it. Jism is a thing of wonder, it's a life force, it's gooey warm and just for me. I'd be interested to see if there is any guy here (non-BDSM) who likes to do it and backs up the theory that it's about degrading a girl, or putting her in her place. Anyone?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    ....in my opinion OP. Don't misunderstand me, porn has its place, but education in the ways of the lifestyle isn't one of them. What's important I think, is knowing your own rules and boundaries and talking about what you're looking for very openly together. Your partnership must always come first and that starts with absolute honesty. If that includes facials, go for your life! And for your education, experience is really the best way. Use those forums as a means of getting insight - there's a wonderful mix of people and opinions here and the contributors aren't 'actors' (well, mostly lol) and they share openly. For something more practical, visit a swingers club with your eyes and mind open. Once you've digested what you can...hang on to your pants, it's a hell of a ride!! Mrs IAT- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'TokenUtopian' I Don't knock it until you've tried it. Jism is a thing of wonder, it's a life force, it's gooey warm and just for me. I'd be interested to see if there is any guy here (non-BDSM) who likes to do it and backs up the theory that it's about degrading a girl, or putting her in her place. Anyone?  There is always someone who does things for the wrong reason Token. My comment wasn't meant in a bad way just that there are things that lots of people would view as bad, degrading or sick but there are always some of us out there that will like it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Not on my face, in my hair or in my eyes....I already get facials just not cum ones...Some women love it others loath it...its up to each individual -communication is a must where you want to put your cum...just ask-nothing wrong with that OP...the worst would be "anywhere just not on my face"...Best of luck ..FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    There is just no sexy way to wipe it off.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Never used to like it, saw it as degrading. But over time, I now actually enjoy having it sprayed on my face (no eyes), tits, etc. - have to say, I like it best down my throat.I have friends that will never do it though. So each to their own. I suggest you ask first before spraying.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Would it be a sexy way to wipe it off Ms_Devious if he was to kiss you and lap up all his mess off of your face?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • captainkaos

    captainkaos

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Ms_Devious'There is just no sexy way to wipe it off. There is no need for you to wipe it off. The gentleman can do it for you.........   I like it if the woman is totally into it. I don't like seeing porn where the woman is not enjoying it and even squirming abit. I think that it is a dominance thing with the guys and not respectful at all.   If however the woman loves it.........then try and stop me.......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I realise some women like it, and kudos to them, but it's not something I go out of my way to find. I enjoy sex full stop. If my partner has that desire I'm quite happy to oblige, but for me personally I find it too much of a power play. Degrading, however I don't feel is the right way to describe it.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Bahahaha @ no sexy way to wipe it off.... Wiping sounds so much better than scraping :p- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The lady actually loves it.And I came to realise a while ago that the reason that because she liked it once and does not want it again is because shes just not excited/in the headspace to want to do it.To me, cumming on the face is not the target. The sensation I chase is for the woman to be that excited for my cum that she will have as much of it and everywhere. Otherwise I like to shoot up the neck so a bit splashes on the cheek as a bit of a suprise. I wouldnt like to aim for the eyes just for the sake of it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'dickfullalove'Would it be a sexy way to wipe it off Ms_Devious if he was to kiss you and lap up all his mess off of your face?- Posted from rhpmobile Nope. Licking it off any other part of my body is hot, but not the face.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Can go on my face, just not in my mouth :D

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    Why not let HER choose.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'dotmelie' Can go on my face, just not in my mouth :D can i go on your face?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Hi I hate cum on my face. you can spray it anywhere else on my body but on my face. I cant open my eyes or breath properly Mrs B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Absolutely Luv it! mmmm....just the anticipation in knowing that hot cum is on it's way and then Bam!! it's spurting all over my face nice an Hot.....mmmm don't get it in the eyes though! that smarts.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    "Disrespectful" Please would you explain this description about this act?Thank you.

  • Slow_at_first

    Slow_at_first

    12 years ago

    I guess we felt it was just a thing in porn. Porn is usually aimed at mens pleasure and women are just the means for that. Men watching porn want to know that the actors have cum so the ejaculations are shown, which you can't do if it happens inside her body. Seems like way of humiliating someone by doing it on her face. Obviously based on the above responses we are a bit out of our league on this. For Mr he can't imagine it being more fun than Inside her and Mrs finds it a bit gross. But if women do actually enjoy it, then who are we to judge. Whatever turns you both (or more) on. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thank you for your response. When I cum on my wife, whether it be her pretty face or ... Anywhere, I am not doing this with vindictive or negative intention, never! So if she received our 'gift for each other' (if you like) with feelings of humiliation herself(or degraded, used...) then we would not do such activities as we would be interpreting the turn-on /arousal differently and feel a loss of affinity. I'm not sure the producers of porn are limited for ejaculation scenarios, it may be the more popular act due to the fact that most men don't get to cum on a woman's face and therefore fulfil a fantasy which is elusive. I am fortunate to be able to enjoy it and therefore only occasionally ask and she may ask if I'd like to.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I dont find it degrading or yuck....its a very personal thing though and personally i love it! The heat when it hits your skin, the warmth that penetrates the pores of your skin, the way it looks and feels so smooth and wet, the look the guy gives you for letting him do it...its just one of the many priceless benefits you get from it. Yes dont knock it until you try it...but if you do like it, it will form a part of your "im the boss" kinky sex sessions.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Too be honest i have never experienced it but if a woman was too let me cum on her face i would. My personal favourite is Cumming in a mouth

  • ArtemisLuna

    ArtemisLuna

    12 years ago

    It doesn't bother me really, if my man finds it a turn on then he can do it, it's a bit of a turn on for me too..there is no way I find it offensive or degrading...I guess it should be taken as a complement to look in your face as he cums.... Just don't get it in my hair!!!!! lol Everyone has there own likes & dislikes, speak up & respect others wishes and everyone will be happy MrsLuna🌙- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's not really my thing.   Mr Tryst has managed it once or twice by accident though. Guess he got a little too excited...   x Ms Shout