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Fake it or Break it...

December 30 2012

HARRY MET SALLY..Meg Ryan faked the most famous orgasm while sitting in a crowded deli in order to demonstrate how persuasive a fake orgasm can be...My question is...."Would you rather FAKE an orgasm and continue just to please partner or CEASE intercourse all together knowing your head space is not there to continue, thinking of yourself first."

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't always come through intercourse anyway. That doesn't mean I'm not enjoying myself. I love being touched, no matter what head space I'm in. If my partner knows this, neither one of us will ever feel bad about me not having an orgasm.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Would like to pose another question as well in this thread, which is does it make you feel less of a man/woman if your partner does fake it?? I'm with missdevious though on the whole, there's so much enjoyment to be had without the need to orgasm, that in my view, can be just as fulfilling. Sorry missdevious I only mentioned you twice :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I’m too honest to fake it...I could never deceive someone like that and it doesn’t help either of us. I love everything about intimacy and sex....touching, tasting, exploring, but I don’t orgasm through intercourse alone....I’m not saying I’m not capable, I just haven’t yet, but gosh I love the whole experience nevertheless.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yep I've faked it....was horrid sex with ex husband..then I woke up and stopped altogether cause just couldn't fake anymore...to honest for my own good...- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Then I left....and discovered fucking awesome sex!! Can't fake that.. :-) :-) :-)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'MissPoppins' I don’t orgasm through intercourse alone....I’m not saying I’m not capable, I just haven’t yet, but gosh I love the whole experience nevertheless. Definitely need some clitoral stimulation at the same time!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    doesn't love to hear those four little words''did ya cum yet?''...this is a huge incentive for us to get our Sally on....is this faking it? Of course not,hearing those words will always make us moan

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To tell you the truth, I'd prefer a woman be totally honest about it. Faking it is only going to tell me that whatever I'm doing is working when it may not be.Communication is a better option. If you need something in particular to be done to come, guide the guy into it. If you have a problem coming for whatever reason, be honest with him. If he's a good guy he'll either try to help you get there or if he can't, he'll make sure you at least have as much pleasure as you can even if it's not coming hard.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've never faked it...don't see the point for either person. Sometimes it just doesn't happen...e.g if I've had too much alcohol I often don't cum. I can still really enjoy the sex though, even without the explosion at the end. I do admit that sometimes when a guy has obviously been putting a lot of effort in to make me orgasm and I still haven't, I've started putting pressure on myself to do it, which I know is stupid because then I'm uptight and pretty much guaranteed not to cum. Even in those situations though I don't fake it, just have to explain that it doesn't always happen but still feels great.