Fallen out of favour

October 30 2017

What did you once enjoy that you do no more? Answers can be relating to sex, or life in general, or both. For me, sexually, I have enjoyed exploring my bi side in recent years, am finding sex with men (only) now rather ho-hum. Life in general - loved a good afternoon beer/catchup session with friends once upon a time (stopped going out at night a long time ago), find now that it just makes me sleepy so prefer to stay at home.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Keep in mind some of these may be going back a number of years but here's a few I can think of 1. Missionary sex 2. 69 3. Spending way too much on clothes. Never buy clothes new anymore. All my clothes come from op shops with the exception of bikinis and underwear. Takes a bit of time searching but there are gems in op shops 4. Lights off 😉 daylight all the way now 5. Mars bars 6. 80's decor omg what was I thinking. Even painted the walls pink at one point 😱 7. Older men 😂😂😂 seriously I did

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Spiders, icecream in softdrink. Probably the closest thing to a hangover from a non alcoholic drink. Guaranteed to give you a headache 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Southern Comfort Stones Green Ginger Wine Ouzo. Sambucca All of a sudden I feel queasy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    VB

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I do miss swinging and the clubs and parties we used to go to, but for the moment, not enough to change it for now.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    Cheese.. I love cheese , but was told it was giving me a fatty liver.. Gone ? Playing footy (nrl ) with my mates .. Heady days.. Movies , loved them as a kid , but these days never.... Running 8 K's a day... Lucky to do half that these days.. fit enough , but it's getting motivated ... Screwing all night ? now takes all night to do.. ( well' not that bad ....... Yet ? ) lol...

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    7 years ago

    I dont do Random hook ups Role play phone sex, I feel awkward. Its a fine line between sexy and corny. Caring a lot about what other people think of me Stuff - Like experiences rather than things. Spending time with people who drain me because I'm related to them or we once had a history/ friendship The News. Its always depressing. Passion Pop or any sweet wine.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    The pub life which used to be my work and entertainment is the irregular lunch at our fav local these after totally getting over the pub scene early on and made ourselves comfy at home. So much safer and more fun too. Threesomes and moresomes, I've had a lifetime of it and after a lot of experimenting early, with a brief spell into swinging in my early 40s, I am more then happy to relax and make the most of what I have at home these days. No worries about misplaced condoms, men that don't recognise my husband's place, or paying for a place to be. I'm over Rolf Harris (filthy pig). I always wondered but loved his music and painting all the same... and have now deleted all his music off the list we listen to. It sends me into shock to hear a song come. Yay radio stations don't play him any more! Gotta Say: A topic on the other side of the question would be great too ;-) Hubby used to hate garlic but he loves it now! Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Sailbadthesinner' Southern Comfort Stones Green Ginger Wine Ouzo. Sambucca All of a sudden I feel queasy. Enjoying locally made ouzo on Corfu..........wonderful.......there's nothing like it. Best alcohol ever.Jellybean anyone?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'EarthQueen' I dont do Random hook ups Spending time with people who drain me because I'm related to them or we once had a history/ friendship

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Love it, all grog lmao 😂

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    tv/television. Anyone else in Australia not have one by choice? Excellent decision. Sometimes I go looking for the heart of the home and then I realise, it's me, not a bloody plastic box

  • OkeyDoke45

    OkeyDoke45

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'PeachyPearL' The pub life which used to be my work and entertainment is the irregular lunch at our fav local these after totally getting over the pub scene early on and made ourselves comfy at home. So much safer and more fun too. Threesomes and moresomes, I've had a lifetime of it and after a lot of experimenting early, with a brief spell into swinging in my early 40s, I am more then happy to relax and make the most of what I have at home these days. No worries about misplaced condoms, men that don't recognise my husband's place, or paying for a place to be. I'm over Rolf Harris (filthy pig). I always wondered but loved his music and painting all the same... and have now deleted all his music off the list we listen to. It sends me into shock to hear a song come. Yay radio stations don't play him any more! Gotta Say: A topic on the other side of the question would be great too ;-) Hubby used to hate garlic but he loves it now! Peachy I'm the same with Rolf Harris now too, I feel a bit grubby that I thought him enchanting as a child.As posting a forum about the flipside - go for it!

  • MrPlayful

    MrPlayful

    7 years ago

    Whatever we wanted, whenever we wanted. Having kids kinda stuffed that lifestyle!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    No, to be honest, I never enjoyed it...it always felt like a chore that had to be done. I've always and still do enjoy activities that are exercise...and that includes work...but I didn't enjoy the mind-numbing repetitiveness in the gym.I don't do anything these days that I don't, at least, mind doing. And that includes work. And people. I'm more honest with myself than I was 5 years ago.

  • Hawt1

    Hawt1

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Koolgrey' No, to be honest, I never enjoyed it...it always felt like a chore that had to be done. I've always and still do enjoy activities that are exercise...and that includes work...but I didn't enjoy the mind-numbing repetitiveness in the gym.I don't do anything these days that I don't, at least, mind doing. And that includes work. And people. I'm more honest with myself than I was 5 years ago. Have told the boss NO a few times now... I dont see why I have to be a sheeple and sign every piece of paper placed in front of me or be forced to do tasks with disagreeable people, so the word no will come out on occasion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Snip snip, condoms

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    7 years ago

    I loved dancing, ballroom and latin. I used to go religiously 3 times a week and some private lessons. Now it's not something I would enjoy doing again. It's not the dancing, but the people they tend to ruin things for me. Movies and tv shows have changed, some are still good and I only like ones with a warped sense of humour, Rick & Morty as an example. Movies now are rehashed garbage, just to please the masses. Although Starwars is the only thing I'm hanging for. Videogames, now just paid actors to voice shitty characters and make a short lived effortless games, I'd rather go do something constructive now than play a game. I guess I finally grew up. I used to love going out and have some drinks hang out with people, but they tend to spill their drama and bullshit on you and ruin the fun. Last Thursday I went with a friend from work and we were going to a friends Birthday dinner and drinks we were 2 hours early and went to TGI on Chapel. We had a great time, ordered some food and drinks and the both off us loved it. Then we went to the dinner and we both just wanted to leave, people drunk, on drugs and the birthday girl didn't even want to do it! Again people make things shit. Sex wise I just can't do the normal thing anymore, I need kinky, dirty and rough. I've had "vanilla" sex and just doesn't even get me hard now. A few months ago I went on a date like that went to hers and I weren't down on her and when it came to my turn I was just bored. No dirty talk, no banter, no decent conversation. If I meet someone who's looking for the white picket fence house with 2 kids and 9-5 job and go away as a family I run. I need spontaneity, I need someone who will slap my ass in the morning and tell me were going for a run or get home from a shitty day at work and I open the door and she's on the couch fist deep watching porn and the lounge is a mess! I went way above and beyond on your topic ;P Good one though

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    7 years ago

    I once loved owning things and proud of my purchase I had to have the latest phone, iPad and gadgets. Possessions now mean nothing to me, I see friends buying new cars every year and I yawn. Now I'd rather go do something fun, I did Tough Mudder last weekend and loved it. Spartan race come at me!!!

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'PeachyPearL' The pub life which used to be my work and entertainment is the irregular lunch at our fav local these after totally getting over the pub scene early on and made ourselves comfy at home. So much safer and more fun too. Threesomes and moresomes, I've had a lifetime of it and after a lot of experimenting early, with a brief spell into swinging in my early 40s, I am more then happy to relax and make the most of what I have at home these days. No worries about misplaced condoms, men that don't recognise my husband's place, or paying for a place to be. I'm over Rolf Harris (filthy pig). I always wondered but loved his music and painting all the same... and have now deleted all his music off the list we listen to. It sends me into shock to hear a song come. Yay radio stations don't play him any more! Gotta Say: A topic on the other side of the question would be great too ;-) Hubby used to hate garlic but he loves it now! Peachy He drew a picture of me when I was 6 at Grace lands in Sydney in front of a crowd

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Dirtyandfriendly, have you still got it? I hope you enjoyed the experience. In our household, he was revered by the man of the house, another filthy pig. Now, I'll never think of, "2 Little Boys" the same again. Or the live, "I Touch Myself" rendition he "performed as part of Andrew Denton's Musical Challenge on the MMM Breakfast Show in 2,000". I think what fell out of favour for me the most Okeydoke is trust. I'm just not as prepared to give it as I used to be after so many years of finding people not worthy of it. Another thing that has fallen out of favour for me is starting topics, I try to encourage other people to instead. I'm a boring OP and always get writer's block! LOL. Oh, and Carlton Midstrength, it just does not taste the same anymore. The cans with 'C' on the bottom taste like crap compared to the ones with 'A'. The customer service is shocking! A whole month and they have yet to deal with the flavour issue, and now they're getting narky with me. Wish I could say I had writer's block there. Hahaha, pesky Peachy

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'PeachyPearL' Dirtyandfriendly, have you still got it? I hope you enjoyed the experience. In our household, he was revered by the man of the house, another filthy pig. Now, I'll never think of, "2 Little Boys" the same again. Or the live, "I Touch Myself" rendition he "performed as part of Andrew Denton's Musical Challenge on the MMM Breakfast Show in 2,000". I think what fell out of favour for me the most Okeydoke is trust. I'm just not as prepared to give it as I used to be after so many years of finding people not worthy of it. Another thing that has fallen out of favour for me is starting topics, I try to encourage other people to instead. I'm a boring OP and always get writer's block! LOL. Oh, and Carlton Midstrength, it just does not taste the same anymore. The cans with 'C' on the bottom taste like crap compared to the ones with 'A'. The customer service is shocking! A whole month and they have yet to deal with the flavour issue, and now they're getting narky with me. Wish I could say I had writer's block there. Hahaha, pesky Peachy It's in a poster tube, he drew Andy Capp and Superman too

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' tv/television. Anyone else in Australia not have one by choice? Excellent decision. Sometimes I go looking for the heart of the home and then I realise, it's me, not a bloody plastic box I've had my stages where I've been a real "square eyes" however I do admit that TV is the biggest cause of time wasting ever invented.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    On the opposite side of the topic, if you don't mind OkeyDoke. (tell me if you do :-)) Reading Vampavibe's post above me, I'm reminded I had a TV and stereo of sorts but not a video recorder when I first met hubby in 1987. Now we have a houseful of game machines that can play DVDs, CDs, and of course games. The computer set ups are largely mine but since having the PC put together, I signed him in on his fb and email... Now to lure him into using it instead of me. Peachy, has fallen out of favour with being the computer connection / search engine etc, lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'Sailbadthesinner' Snip snip, condoms Similarly agree, but still use in casual situations. But more to the point, did/does anyone ever actually enjoy using them? :P (And not because they are used during sex haha).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    No TV either. Somewhat by circumstance, but don't care much for rectifying it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    "Sex wise I just can't do the normal thing anymore, I need kinky, dirty and rough. I've had "vanilla" sex and just doesn't even get me hard now. A few months ago I went on a date like that went to hers and I weren't down on her and when it came to my turn I was just bored. No dirty talk, no banter, no decent conversation. If I meet someone who's looking for the white picket fence house with 2 kids and 9-5 job and go away as a family I run. I need spontaneity, I need someone who will slap my ass in the morning and tell me were going for a run or get home from a shitty day at work and I open the door and she's on the couch fist deep watching porn and the lounge is a mess!" Yes, that right there is what I need, on my knees waiting for him to come through the door 😛 I also couldn't do the boring vanilla thing, need kinky also 👍

  • MrPlayful

    MrPlayful

    7 years ago

    Used to enjoy sex without condoms... still do at home... but in this lifestyle they’re a necessity. CT, agree with you entirely.

  • Dirtyandfriendly

    Dirtyandfriendly

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' "Sex wise I just can't do the normal thing anymore, I need kinky, dirty and rough. I've had "vanilla" sex and just doesn't even get me hard now. A few months ago I went on a date like that went to hers and I weren't down on her and when it came to my turn I was just bored. No dirty talk, no banter, no decent conversation. If I meet someone who's looking for the white picket fence house with 2 kids and 9-5 job and go away as a family I run. I need spontaneity, I need someone who will slap my ass in the morning and tell me were going for a run or get home from a shitty day at work and I open the door and she's on the couch fist deep watching porn and the lounge is a mess!" Yes, that right there is what I need, on my knees waiting for him to come through the door 😛 I also couldn't do the boring vanilla thing, need kinky also 👍 If I came home to that I'd get on one knee. Or come home and find her fucking a guy that would also be acceptable