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Fast or Slow?

October 11 2019

I know porn shows guys fucking women at 1,000 miles an hour. It's theatrical, and meant to appeal to a male audience, I guess. But I see plenty of similar thrashing in amateur stuff on twitter and other places. Are they playing at the porn angle, or are the ladies enjoying the continuous railing? I ask, as my experience is overwhelmingly... the ladies like it slow and deep, not a rabbit with a jackhammer. Sure we all tend to like it fast and hard over the last couple of minutes... but from the moment of penetration? By the same token, when guys are jacking off on video, they're often beating cock like it owes them money. A teenage rabbit on viagra, having a fit. So I have some questions: 1. Women: do you usually like it fast and hard from the beginning, or is it mainly best at the climax? (literal and figurative :) 2. Men: when doing your own thing, are you smashing the sausage like you're being paid by the stroke?

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RHP User

5 years ago

I like a mix of both throughout

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RHP User

5 years ago

I hardly ever go fast as slow and sensual always does it for me everytime. It is that slow stroke, that nudge every step of the way to a building and lasting orgasm that is what I like and love everytime Same goes for sex there is time for hard and fast but most of the time, building and building to me is the sexiest and being lost in the moment.

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RHP User

5 years ago

A fair question Alex4mango. Personally if you’re going hell for leather with me, it best be because it’s a quickie and either: I don’t wanna get off or I already did before the power tool mode was switched on. I’m goldilocks, not too fast not too slow, and you can speed up before you blo-o-o-ow. Jackhammering for me, unless you’re working with some small equipment - is a sure fire way to hurt my cervix and rule out further projects planned together. I don’t have a penis to beat like it owes anyone money so I’ll leave that one to the experts 😇

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RHP User

5 years ago

Humble apologies on the autocorrect of your profile name there Alex4Margo. X

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compressor

5 years ago

I start off slow and take my time. don't want it to be over too quick. No not smashing it lol

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boxestotick

5 years ago

Some funny shit in your post! Very well written. Mr writing her, but I know Mrs likes it slow and for a guy to take his time. She played with a young guy earlier in the year and he was hard and fast from the start. She said it was the worst she’s had in years. Very inexperienced but I guess it comes with the territory.

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RHP User

5 years ago

All of the above.Variety is the spice etc...And, everyone is different, eyes and ears open, tune in, and be her maestro.

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coxtheparadox

5 years ago

Ha! Interesting... hang on - 'amateur stuff on twitter' ??? Man... I must be looking at the wrong profiles! To answer your question from my blokey perspective... a bit of both. Sooooo if I am just pent up it is sometimes good to 'rub one out'... and depending on the time available that may be a sprint rather than a marathon. However to cast a vote with Mind_Lover I like to spend a bit of 'quality time" on myself and when creating the right space and mood this can have mind-blowing results (along with other things blowing!).

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RHP User

5 years ago

Quoting 'ConstantCravings' Humble apologies on the autocorrect of your profile name there Alex4Margo. X No apology necessary, I think your auto-correct name is better, we'll change to Alex4Mango ;) Hmm... now to figure out if it's possible to have sex with a Mango... I guess once you remove the pit, it will feel much better on ones tender areas... male or female. - Alex.

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SSExplorer

5 years ago

I have done extensive research in this subject 😛 over many years and have found overwhelmingly women prefer measured inputs from their partner and the best big O’s I’ve witnessed and experienced myself have been from very slow and gentle extended play. One thing I like to do every now and then is slide in deep and both then stay quite still with both squeezing pelvic muscles for the tiniest of movements. Staying close and connected these micro movements can lead to explosive results for both. That’s the closest I’ve come to what I guess is a whole body orgasm. I have met quite a few who thought hard and fast was best who have been surprised by the results of slowing it down.

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Sawadee

5 years ago

I hear ya ... good to know we're not the only ones who go quite and squeeze .... taking the time to feel your partners inner parts is the best..

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OkeyDoke45

5 years ago

Generally I have found that women always want you to start slow at the very least, then I let them set the tempo. They are usually quite vocal when they want it faster or slower. I have to say though, I would struggle to recall a woman who didn't like a few ''turbo bursts'' here and there every now and then. When whopping my own chop, definitely no fast business going on there. I think so many young blokes received their sex education from online porn, where of course it's all fast and furious with the woman begging for more.

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LillyandTheFun

5 years ago

Male half here. My wife and I alternate speeds in different positions a bit. You go with the feel mostly. Though lately I've been going real slow with the tip and then long strokes. She loves it. Builds nicely. Personally when its me time a good constent speed works well

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LillyandTheFun

5 years ago

Great profile Constant by the way x

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sweetpussy4u

5 years ago

A hard question to answer it’s really for me a mix of both. Really depends on the mood the cock the person the environment we are in etc. I’m sure most women are the same it really depends on everything else. As for beating the bishop again hubby says the same sometimes it’s like trying to extract a confession others it’s like trying to coerce information

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RHP User

5 years ago

Quoting 'sweetpussy4u' A hard question to answer it’s really for me a mix of both. Really depends on the mood the cock the person the environment we are in etc. I’m sure most women are the same it really depends on everything else. As for beating the bishop again hubby says the same sometimes it’s like trying to extract a confession others it’s like trying to coerce information Haha, extract a confession, that's perfect. So hubby is playing 'Good Cock/Bad Cock' on himself, while trying to 'coerce information' from a suspect ;) Thanks for your response... like pretty much everything in life, fast/slow... it depends. - Alex.

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sugar_vanessa

5 years ago

Deep and slow x

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LittleGiant

5 years ago

Once i've gotten 'used' to it after the initial bit (gotta go slow at first for a bit otherwise it just hurts!) I love a good hard pounding. Slow I find kinda boring tbh and it can never get me there, even with toys... Miss Little xx

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charlie99

5 years ago

Prefer slow with the occasional period of fast. It’s the chaging of pace, rather than the pace itself, which can be incredibly satisfying and exciting.

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