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Feeling used...
March 03 2013
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
I hear you Crackup...I used to be like that! If men didn't call me after a great sex session I always thought it was ME! After the thinking "I'm not good enough"....It then turned to anger "He was a useless piece of using shit"! NOW? I have learnt to love myself and accept myself therefore not needing the validation from anyone other than myself that I AM GOOD ENOUGH! There is a great book that has been around for years called "You Can Heal Your Life" By Louise L Hay! Once you learn to love and accept yourself you will stop allowing yourself to feel used and you will attract the kind of man you are after in life as all the negative magneted people will leave your life or not come into it at all! You might still meet one or two along the way...but that is because they want to feed off the "great vibe" you give out to life! . Remember not all men are like this...treat each person how you would want to be treated and if they do disappear that is their problem with intimacy and not yours! You feel used because you allow that emotion! It's never too late to heal your life and change your thought patterns! Good luck! xo xFunlovingx
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CrackUp
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I hear you Crackup...I used to be like that! If men didn't call me after a great sex session I always thought it was ME! After the thinking "I'm not good enough"....It then turned to anger "He was a useless piece of using shit"! NOW? I have learnt to love myself and accept myself therefore not needing the validation from anyone other than myself that I AM GOOD ENOUGH! There is a great book that has been around for years called "You Can Heal Your Life" By Louise L Hay! Once you learn to love and accept yourself you will stop allowing yourself to feel used and you will attract the kind of man you are after in life as all the negative magneted people will leave your life or not come into it at all! You might still meet one or two along the way...but that is because they want to feed off the "great vibe" you give out to life! . Remember not all men are like this...treat each person how you would want to be treated and if they do disappear that is their problem with intimacy and not yours! You feel used because you allow that emotion! It's never too late to heal your life and change your thought patterns! Good luck! xo xFunlovingx Hi Fun...and thank you for replying. I am not sure it's so much I need to be 'affirmed' or maybe it is.. as you say, all I know is, it feels very empty, in the aftermath, to be ignored
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
When you are feeling "used and ignored" just sit down quietly and try to find out why you are feeling this way! Are you attracting the same type of guy? Do they say all the right things to get you into bed without revealing too much about themselves? Are you straight out with them and tell them what you are seeking? Ok not sure that is a good question as any guy will say he is not after a one nighter to just get you for one night! Just remember, these guys that are sowing their wild oats (so to speak) will have a use by date and by that time noone will want them anyway! All you can do is not give up and the right guy will come along...don't stop putting yourself out there...Just maybe fine tune your filtering process! And keep being fabulous! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
to fuck 'em and walk away. I have no issues at all in casual sex. It is just sex and not making love. There is no emotional attachment at all so I dont beat myself up about it. If they dont call me then I can and will call them. If they want a repeat performance all well and good but if they dont.... NEXT!!!! I look upon it as mutual satisfaction adn occassionally I am the one doing the using...not them!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Crack up are you going into these nights expecting more? Are you thinking that these men are after a long term relationship and that is subconsciously what you are seeking? You need to develop a thicker skin if you want to play the field. You need to ask yourself what it is you are expecting from them first and find out what it is they are expecting of you. If all they are after is a one or two nights roll in the hay and you are after long term friendship then it is doomed to hurt, confuse the heck out of you. A little soul searching and honesty with yourself is a good start.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is as xfunlving says,all about re-framing your thinking.Women are conditioned regarding intimacy and if we have amazing orgasms that reinforces an attachment.But sometimes sex is just sex,wonderful mind and body boggling sex. For me it is all about enjoying the here and now,not having expectations that there will be more,and if there is so be it. What we often do is project onto the other our hopes .We hear what we want to hear,see what we want to see.If a man says he is looking for nsa but if something else happens yadda,forget about the last bit,believe the first bit. I think sometimes the worst thing we can have in these situations is hope.What we should have, is enjoyment in the now,and don't hope for more than that.More than that requires a whole lot more that many people don't have the inclination or ability to give.
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CrackUp
12 years ago
Quoting 'Handmaiden' Crack up are you going into these nights expecting more? Are you thinking that these men are after a long term relationship and that is subconsciously what you are seeking? You need to develop a thicker skin if you want to play the field. You need to ask yourself what it is you are expecting from them first and find out what it is they are expecting of you. If all they are after is a one or two nights roll in the hay and you are after long term friendship then it is doomed to hurt, confuse the heck out of you. A little soul searching and honesty with yourself is a good start.That's the problem Handmaiden. I don't have a thick skin.. and I"m not quite sure how to develop one regarding this matter. I don't necessarily want to play the field.. and yes, if I am honest, I would prefer to have a 'relationship' but.. as I stated, this seems to be anathema to most these days. I recognize that desire in myself and don't think I am blind as to my romantic nature. I guess what upsets me, is .. it's out of pace with worldly attitudes. Does this mean I am doomed to never being happy? I just wondered if others encountered this same head space and moved on from that.. successfully dating, having sex, etc.. in this landscape.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I found I really wasn't comfortable with the idea of even chatting with two men when on RHP with the man. I like familiarity and not only liked to take a bit of time getting to know a man before we met but also liked to have more than one meet to get to know each other more intimately. I guess I'm not think skinned either. I'm sorry I don't have more to offer CrackUp and wish you the best working this out to your satisfaction. All the very best to you. Peachy xXx
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inspirit
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' You might still meet one or two along the way...but that is because they want to feed off the "great vibe" you give out to life! . xFunlovingx BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. One or two... BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' You might still meet one or two along the way...but that is because they want to feed off the "great vibe" you give out to life! . xFunlovingx BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. One or two... BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA I did this book years and years ago and within a month met my partner....Sooooooo your point being?
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Playful2looking
12 years ago
Ok this may not help but it happens to bi guys and gay guys as well. You have geat sex with a man a few days later your horny again and want some more but you dont get a phone. II ring them up not to sound desperate but if the sex was good and you had a good time. I usually say to them was that fun did you enjoy it how about a repeat sometime. If that doesnt work cross them off your to do list quickly and move on. I am not trying to compare situations but just let you know with some guys its just like that. some are married some are just full of themselves. Some are just after a quicky and never go back for seconds. But dont take it personal cause you are better then them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We all have those feelings as humans...It's what you we with them counts, It's about controlling them...for me that's the key.Some people I meet and can go ...what ever and others go WOW!It can be tricky at times dealing with those emotions and feeling vulnerable..I totally agree with FunLoving in her very first post.. "Love yourself first!"It's true NOT all men are like the ones you describe..Best of LuckFOXY
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
12 years ago
Oh I remember feeling like that when I started on here, you will either met the man of your dreams.. Leave RHP ... Or get use to it... And then take control of your sex life thoughts and friends.. As I have ... Been in controlling relationships it's nice now to be the one in control. Keep us posted on your journey as the women on here are a tower of strength when you need support... Hugs- Posted from rhpmobile
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CrackUp
12 years ago
Fingers crossed for me ladies. Thank you for sharing your insights and giving me the sense that maybe I can cross this mental barrier at some stage in the future.
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inspirit
12 years ago
Nothing to do with the book. Just the statement and those ones do it at your expense crack up
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RHP User
12 years ago
Interesting... I to have the feelings of being used after seeing a lady for a year.... In the end commitment and misleading actions have seen us part ways... Anyways.. reading the stream and responces have hopefully give me some path to self healing and a way to deal with the used feeling.. thanks- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
nothing to do with the topic but i read all louise's books at the age of 20 and others like them ! And lots of amazing things happened in my life. Positive affirmations, power of the spoken word, positive thoughts ect. wow so powerfull recommend them to anyone !
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RHP User
12 years ago
I say to men, your the hound I am the hare I never ever contact a guy after sex, because they grow wild on rhp and if you keep em free range some come back some do not but my needs are only for sex as I am married so thats the difference. I do not need any emotional attachment but I do have a friendship and somenice pillow talk with a few regulars. some i may see once every two weeks others once in six others months apart. I think its very hard for single women with men here or anywhere else you meet them Many like to hit and run, they give good sex because they practice and practice on lots of women. there are men on rhp that get more than their share cause they know how to say and do things to get a woman wet and wanting them, its the game what I hate is the guy that says what he wants and is a smooth tallker gets you into bed, and is done and dusted in ten munites and gets up to go...so far only had one of those and he was not a youg guy either. just be yourself, and take each guy as an individual and never expect them to come back to you no matter how much they bullshit hands over a bullshit raincoat you use these when you milk cows, same principal so you dont get shit on yourself while your getting the good stuff
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree. I also don't understand if the sex was that great why not repeat it? But alas sometimes they are just not that into me, or they are addicted to the chase and are running off to catch the next girl and don't give me a second thought. Or for them the sex wasn't that great. Or a lot of men don't believe that women can have sex without getting attached so they do a runner early in the piece. Who knows and I admit, I don't worry about it really. If they are not keen well it really is their loss. If you haven't heard from them the next day then they are not that keen. I have no problems with sending a man a text to say I had a good time & maybe we can catch up sometime for a repeat performance. I don't mention specifics although the text message itself is always raunchy. If they don't reply that day. Sorry that is a NEXT! The way I view it. We are using each other. To be honest I don't really feel an intimate connection to someone until I know them quite well. Sex and my emotions are separate. I think I may be unusual in this respect. Well so my girlfriends tell me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Never compromise. If you are after more than a quick role in the hay you state that upfront. I don't know if this is becoming a common attitude but so what. Everyone is different if you do not want to adopt this "attitude" then don't. Why should you!! The trick is to weed out all the players. There are men out there who would also like ongoing friendships or a relationships.Personally I think casual hook ups with people are not that great usually. My rule is, If I can take it or leave it. Well I leave it. I would rather have no sex than ordinary sex which unfortunately means I don't get much sex.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Never compromise. If you are after more than a quick role in the hay you state that upfront. I don't know if this is becoming a common attitude but so what. Everyone is different if you do not want to adopt this "attitude" then don't. Why should you!! The trick is to weed out all the players. There are men out there who would also like ongoing friendships or a relationships.Personally I think casual hook ups with people are not that great usually. My rule is, If I can take it or leave it. Well I leave it. I would rather have no sex than ordinary sex which unfortunately means I don't get much sex. Thank you Meeka for you honest response. It's really difficult isn't it.. having that sentiment.. of not being overly keen on casual hook ups - you want to enjoy all the richness life has to offer but.. not feel cheapened by it either. Do we want it all.. ? I guess we do..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'tuscanred' I say to men, your the hound I am the hare I never ever contact a guy after sex, because they grow wild on rhp and if you keep em free range some come back some do not but my needs are only for sex as I am married so thats the difference. I do not need any emotional attachment but I do have a friendship and somenice pillow talk with a few regulars. some i may see once every two weeks others once in six others months apart. I think its very hard for single women with men here or anywhere else you meet them Many like to hit and run, they give good sex because they practice and practice on lots of women. there are men on rhp that get more than their share cause they know how to say and do things to get a woman wet and wanting them, its the game what I hate is the guy that says what he wants and is a smooth tallker gets you into bed, and is done and dusted in ten munites and gets up to go...so far only had one of those and he was not a youg guy either. just be yourself, and take each guy as an individual and never expect them to come back to you no matter how much they bullshit hands over a bullshit raincoat you use these when you milk cows, same principal so you dont get shit on yourself while your getting the good stuff
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RHP User
12 years ago
I personally am not too keen on the one off hookups, but I have learnt in my time on here that if I want it, it's easy enough to find. My emotions aren't tied in with sex most of the time, but there's that occasional one that gets stuck in my mind whether it be mind blowing sex or stimulating conversations. They're the ones that will make me feel like I've been used if I don't hear back from them. Thankfully that doesn't happen to often! I've started just saying outright that I'm fine with a one nighter or ongoing and just ask them which they'd prefer upfront. That way if they are only after a once off wam bam thank you mam type night then I know before sleeping with them, and can make the decision if I feel like using them for the night or not! Bring the power back into your control and you'll never have to feel used again! - Posted from rhpmobile
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
I found this on FB and thought of some of the women in here! . The double standards of some men: If she argues with him, she's looking for a fight; but if she's quiet, he'll say she doesn't care. If she calls him, she's too clingy; but if he calls her, she should drop what she's doing and be happy he called at all. If she doesn't love him, he'll try to win her; but when she does love him, he'll take her for granted. If she doesn't sleep with him in the first few dates, she's a tease; but if she does, she's a slut. If she tells him her problems, he'll tell her to stop bitching about everything; but if she doesn't, he'll say she doesn't trust him. If she offers him advice, she's a nag or a know-it-all; but if he offers her advice, it's because he cares. If she breaks a promise, he'll never trust her again; but if he breaks one, it's because he had no choice and she needs to be more understanding. If she cheats, it's over; but if he cheats, it was just a mistake and she has to give him another chance - Charles J Orlando
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I found this on FB and thought of some of the women in here! . The double standards of some men: If she argues with him, she's looking for a fight; but if she's quiet, he'll say she doesn't care. If she calls him, she's too clingy; but if he calls her, she should drop what she's doing and be happy he called at all. If she doesn't love him, he'll try to win her; but when she does love him, he'll take her for granted. If she doesn't sleep with him in the first few dates, she's a tease; but if she does, she's a slut. If she tells him her problems, he'll tell her to stop bitching about everything; but if she doesn't, he'll say she doesn't trust him. If she offers him advice, she's a nag or a know-it-all; but if he offers her advice, it's because he cares. If she breaks a promise, he'll never trust her again; but if he breaks one, it's because he had no choice and she needs to be more understanding. If she cheats, it's over; but if he cheats, it was just a mistake and she has to give him another chance - Charles J Orlando This is so true!Excellent and very kind of you to put upWould you mind if I used this in a Forum I'd like to post up...regarding how men and women don't understand each other.I would put your name to it..I have been thinking for a while to put up a forum about that..Foxy
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CrackUp
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I found this on FB and thought of some of the women in here! . The double standards of some men: If she argues with him, she's looking for a fight; but if she's quiet, he'll say she doesn't care. If she calls him, she's too clingy; but if he calls her, she should drop what she's doing and be happy he called at all. If she doesn't love him, he'll try to win her; but when she does love him, he'll take her for granted. If she doesn't sleep with him in the first few dates, she's a tease; but if she does, she's a slut. If she tells him her problems, he'll tell her to stop bitching about everything; but if she doesn't, he'll say she doesn't trust him. If she offers him advice, she's a nag or a know-it-all; but if he offers her advice, it's because he cares. If she breaks a promise, he'll never trust her again; but if he breaks one, it's because he had no choice and she needs to be more understanding. If she cheats, it's over; but if he cheats, it was just a mistake and she has to give him another chance - Charles J OrlandoThat is so sage and so sad. How did we come to be so far apart in our understanding.. sigh.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Crackup. hi well yes it is a funny feeling and i have the same thing only in reverse ( uoi know) and it leaves you rather empty. not sure about being used but maybe he is having a good think about who and what you are before he makes a descision.... hope this helps ..jacktar15 Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I hear you Crackup...I used to be like that! If men didn't call me after a great sex session I always thought it was ME! After the thinking "I'm not good enough"....It then turned to anger "He was a useless piece of using shit"! NOW? I have learnt to love myself and accept myself therefore not needing the validation from anyone other than myself that I AM GOOD ENOUGH! There is a great book that has been around for years called "You Can Heal Your Life" By Louise L Hay! Once you learn to love and accept yourself you will stop allowing yourself to feel used and you will attract the kind of man you are after in life as all the negative magneted people will leave your life or not come into it at all! You might still meet one or two along the way...but that is because they want to feed off the "great vibe" you give out to life! . Remember not all men are like this...treat each person how you would want to be treated and if they do disappear that is their problem with intimacy and not yours! You feel used because you allow that emotion! It's never too late to heal your life and change your thought patterns! Good luck! xo xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's very simply double standards regardless of the gender. People don't understand each other, simple. Let's face it, a lot of us don't understand ourselves.Peachy
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFox' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I found this on FB and thought of some of the women in here! . The double standards of some men: If she argues with him, she's looking for a fight; but if she's quiet, he'll say she doesn't care. If she calls him, she's too clingy; but if he calls her, she should drop what she's doing and be happy he called at all. If she doesn't love him, he'll try to win her; but when she does love him, he'll take her for granted. If she doesn't sleep with him in the first few dates, she's a tease; but if she does, she's a slut. If she tells him her problems, he'll tell her to stop bitching about everything; but if she doesn't, he'll say she doesn't trust him. If she offers him advice, she's a nag or a know-it-all; but if he offers her advice, it's because he cares. If she breaks a promise, he'll never trust her again; but if he breaks one, it's because he had no choice and she needs to be more understanding. If she cheats, it's over; but if he cheats, it was just a mistake and she has to give him another chance - Charles J Orlando This is so true!Excellent and very kind of you to put upWould you mind if I used this in a Forum I'd like to post up...regarding how men and women don't understand each other.I would put your name to it..I have been thinking for a while to put up a forum about that..Foxy No need to give me credit for cutting and pasting Charles' words lol! He has a page on FB that is called "The problem with women...is men"! He gives great advice and I love his page! Quite hilarious at times! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'SuperFox' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' No need to give me credit for cutting and pasting Charles' words lol! He has a page on FB that is called "The problem with women...is men"! He gives great advice and I love his page! Quite hilarious at times! xFunlovingxThank you Funloving....LOL Found it on FB...great page :)I have just posted a Forum and waiting for approval..Maybe can post it in there??Foxy
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xFunlovingx
12 years ago
To those who are treated poorly in relationships: To change the pattern, you have to value YOU. You want them to value and respect you... but by putting up with poor treatment, you are showing them that you don’t even respect yourself. Get serious on how others are *allowed* to treat you. Dig deep... I guarantee you are stronger than you think - Charles J Orlando!
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RHP User
12 years ago
When women have a conversation, they're communicating on five levels. They follow the conversation that they're actually having, the conversation that is specifically being avoided, the tone being applied to the overt conversation, the buried conversation that is being covered only in subtext, and finally the other person's body language. People with a Y chromosome have a conversation, singular. If a lady tells them something perfectly obvious, and he comes away from it utterly clueless? I know it's tempting to thing to yourself, 'The man can't possibly be that stupid!' But yes. Yes, he can. So, if you want something, say it. Don't hint. imply, suggest or whatever else you think might help get the message across. Just come up and say it. It helps with communication. If you want a relationship or a one night stand or whatever else you want, just come right out and say it. If you want him to call you, come right out and say it. I just don't understand women.
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RHP User
12 years ago
They don't want a woman to get attached to them. Even the desire a woman has to talk the next day, have some kind of acknowledgment about what was shared, hints attachment to the man. Yes, not all women, not all men - but commonly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Basically it is quite sordid. It encourages this type of behaviour from a lot of people, both male and female. Yet, we are still here. I too dislike the feeling of being used from quick animal like couplings. Sex is an extremely intimate act. We show our vulnerability and open ourselves up to others, but so often are left wanting. And I confess, I have been guilty of said same behaviour when the sex has left me s dissatisfied.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Find em....Fuck em....and Forget em!!!
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Genius_Ironman
12 years ago
A one night stand with a local who you meet here just means that one or both parties were not impressed enough the first time to want to try a second. Hardly a success.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hello well crackup you want to try been a man it seams to be impossible to get woman to answer a simple hello and chat request and by some miraculous feet of god they do start to chat and find you are not what they are after they just stop and don't even give you the decenty of a sorry not interrested thankyou so ..........
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Coops27M
11 years ago
I had the same feeling after a short relationship with a woman recently and its been difficult to overcome. You can't let it defeat you though as if you keep trying eventually you will find what your looking for. As for all these generalisations about men going around they are really frustrating, not only because those that they don't apply to have to wear but that they are true for alot of men and i don't appreciate them ruining it for nice guys like me. It doesn't help that you ladies generally can't help but be attracted on a primal level to the shallow bad boys that are more likely to behave in such ways and the nice ones left behind soon consider following suit because it gets results. Many of my friends that are more popular with women always tell me their motto is 'treat em mean, keep em keen'. Fortunately i respect women too much for that and it's just not me. If that means i'm less likely to pick up women then so be it.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I wouldn't be sure it means what you think it does .. at least in many cases. As a man in the modern era - particularly when dealing with the confident, outgoing creatures of RHP - it is hard to intuit the 'right' way forward. I'll bet many of the guys you're referring to wanted to call / txt but were anxious about appearing needy or attachment prone ? The fact is that in this environment women hold the balance of power and consequently the responsibilities that come with it - I would suggest you try shooting off the initial first short follow up when so inclined and then form your opinion based on the response or lack thereof ?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Those feelings... Rejection, nobody is built to bury those feelings. You just need to grieve, take a good look at yourself and know and believe you are a valuable commodity and deserving of somebody that wants you and enjoys you - we all deserve that. Maybe you just need to be more selective and be up front about your intentions if not wanting one offs, before you allow the next man the gift of your essence ;).
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RHP User
11 years ago
I venture to say that a line in your profile may give a clue why you feel the way you do:"... my parents raised me to be a good girl..."They raised you well, and their ideals are forever embedded in your psyche. These likely include the concepts of honour, consideration and manners, and you will always expect these from others. Though your "inner slut" is asserting itself, which on the surface may contravene the principles you were raised with, I put to you that there is nothing "bad" about non-monogamy if it is practiced honourably and with consideration for your partners. What you have encountered is a selfish, ill-mannered person (maybe quite a few of them), and your feeling used does not have to do with your activities, but rather who you choose to do them with. It's just plain good manners to acknowledge someone who has given so much of themselves. Choose wisely.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'IndefatigableMe' I wouldn't be sure it means what you think it does .. at least in many cases. As a man in the modern era - particularly when dealing with the confident, outgoing creatures of RHP - it is hard to intuit the 'right' way forward. I'll bet many of the guys you're referring to wanted to call / txt but were anxious about appearing needy or attachment prone ? The fact is that in this environment women hold the balance of power and consequently the responsibilities that come with it - I would suggest you try shooting off the initial first short follow up when so inclined and then form your opinion based on the response or lack thereof ? Reason is, if a guy wants you again he will soon let you knowReason is, that men grow wild on hereReason is, i am married so my emotional needs are met but there is also a pocket of heart that I guard well as there are one or two that could easy get in there if I am not careful.Single women are really in a bind on RHP, the root rats are out there by the truck load. We dont pick mr nice average guy ,do we ladies? we dont think about going on a date, if you extend the time from meeting to fucking you may just stand a chance of getting an emotional connectionthe minute they hit your cunt, all bets are off.this is not a love story here, for any woman or any man.sex as a commodity is cheap now, the power of the pussy no longer holds its strength anymore, you cant sit on that gold mine its all tapped out.there are to many gold mines in the mix, the price of gold goes down, just ask any working girl that has to compete with all the free internet sex that the boys can get from sites like RHPyou cannot play this game if you get attached, its fraught with danger.its like American football, wear your emotional padding.men come back to me, only because I am married and my indifference turns them on.trust me honey there is plenty of good sex out there, they are the hound you are the hareif they dont chase then just move on down the road.I dont know how you can protect your heart, try not having one, there is a great big black hole where mine used to be
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RHP User
11 years ago
Hear! Hear! Handmaiden. Well said. That's my attitude now, as I was like yourself xFunlovingx
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RHP User
11 years ago
Well if she did it for me too I reckon she is gunna be hearing from me, probably be knocking on her door pouncing when it opens hanging off her leg like a fox terrier....but maybe thats just me..if you were a dudd then sorry busy working
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On_Safari
11 years ago
But I'm feeling used too!! My hand used me 3 times today and not once said thanks for the mind blowing orgasms!!! I am now considering using someone else's hand and see if that doesn't make my hand feel interchangeable?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'I_N_D_A_G_I_N_E'But I'm feeling used too!! My hand used me 3 times today and not once said thanks for the mind blowing orgasms!!! I am now considering using someone else's hand and see if that doesn't make my hand feel interchangeable? If only I could fly , my hands are your to do with what you want , use them abuse them , I don't mind , when your finished kickem to the curb , am sure they will come back home at sometime to be abused again and again Maybe if you added some coconut oil you could drift off into a dream on an Island Paradise
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On_Safari
11 years ago
Errr i'm all of a sudden soft....thanks for that
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RHP User
11 years ago
OP if you did not try to contact him you are a fool. Your fault as he may be there with the same thought.Txt him, call him, don't give up until you hear from him. If he does not want you he will say so. If he does not reply then eventually you will get bored and stop trying.Till that person says no you have the right to try, and only fools don't try.I have no shame in contacting, yet to be told not to. With out reply you can not know that the message is received.And shame on those that ignore messages. they are the ones that are wrong.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Honour, consideration and manners I venture to say that a line in your profile may give a clue why you feel the way you do:"... my parents raised me to be a good girl..."They raised you well, and their ideals are forever embedded in your psyche. These likely include the concepts of honour, consideration and manners, and you will always expect these from others. Though your "inner slut" is asserting itself, which on the surface may contravene the principles you were raised with, I put to you that there is nothing "bad" about non-monogamy if it is practiced honourably and with consideration for your partners. What you have encountered is a selfish, ill-mannered person (maybe quite a few of them), and your feeling used does not have to do with your activities, but rather who you choose to do them with. It's just plain good manners to acknowledge someone who has given so much of themselves. Choose wisely. The trick is knowing how to choose wisely. How does one filter out the one night standers and users?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Works BOTH ways too.. I was 15 going on 20 when i met up with the soul man he was quite a lover of the cards and of the dice and he had whores and he had ladies he made love and he made babies he could tell some damn good stories and give some good advise you gotta learn how ta pick em son learn how ta lick em son learn how to stick em son between the thighs and you got to try not to beat em too much try not to teach em too much try not to feed em to much bull shit and lies He sat down and poured some whisky and he mixed it up with water heres a picture of my daughter he would say and he would sigh and he would drink and laugh a little as he picked up that old fiddle that same ol riddle i never did know why you gotta learn how ta pick em son learn how ta lick em son learn how to stick em son between the thighs and you got to try not to beat em too much try not to teach em too much try not to feed em to much bull shit and lies now the years ive seen him burried his daughter and me married i was sure he raised her right an taught her how ta fuck when i asked her what he told her shed said he'd never skold her he would always hold her but he never told her much well he told her men were plain and simple told her love was like a pimple once you squeez the juices out it just goes away he taught her how ta hold on tighter and her taught her not to let men fight her and then there was this poem he taught her on his dyin days you got to learn how ta suck em daughter learn how ta fuck em daughter learn how ta take their money and learn how ta cry you got to try not to hold em too much try not to scold em too much try not to feed em too much bull shit and lies you gotta learn how ta pick em son learn how ta lick em son learn how to stick em son between the thighs and you got to try not to beat em too much try not to teach em too much try not to feed em to much bull shit and lies Read more: David Allan Coe - Pick Em, Lick Em' Stick Em Lyrics | MetroLyrics
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