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Female Orgasms
August 21 2010
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've only had clitoral, so i can't compare.never vaginal, guys always slam into me excruciatingly hard and/or fast making me numb, so so far penetration is more something to be endured than enjoyed.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey Casava.Have you ever heard of sexual sex, sounds like you have been playing with the wrong boys. Try some long n slow sex with pelvic grinding, or some rhythmic sex. The Pubis bone of you and your partner should come into very close contact, your clitoris is very much near to the pubis bone so is stimulated in a more rhythmic way. Use some music to keep the rhythm I suggest silence by delirium or something similar, work with the music and you will not go numb.No more slam bam thank you mam stuff for you:)
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Oh yes...there is 2 types of orgasms...well 3 if you count anal....well 4 if like me the girl has very very sensitive nipples....well 5 if you count dry humping !! I find all orgasms in all forms are absolutelyfuckingfantastic!!!! Ok off to find my vibe now to see if there is a 6th xFunlovingx
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
There is absoluetly two kinds and vaginal is definitely way more intense ( and harder to achieve) but once u master it WOW the ulitmate of course is to aim for both a vaginal AND clitoral at the same time! Once you get that you will just never look back ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
The subject of which action is best is a worthy point considering casava's experience of being left numb after vigorous sex. With constant talk about the G spot and some ladies doubting if it exists... it suggests there is a wide difference in plumbing and many other circumstances which result in great variances in experience and enjoyment. In one sense it suggests that people should experience sex with as many people as possible to find their ultimate partner. Pity that is fraught with numerous problems and not always practical. On the subject of sex education in school... it's currently restricted to theory... and the quality of which is often debatable. Do wonder in which century practical lessons will become part of the curriculum? Lets face it... the kids today are having sex at an early age... and it's probably like the blind leading the blind. So why should it be kept undercover when knowledge and experience would be better conveyed in the same manner that sex therapists correct compatibility problems... sometimes though direct physical participation. It might sound radical... but it makes a bloody lot of sense when we consider the early native cultures that were crushed by the christian missionaries. It worked for those early cultures then… The better the sexual grounding we'll have, and the better environment we'll have to enjoy every facet of sex at its best.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks, I'll have to remember to cut and paste it for my next partner, however from the sounds of it, it still sounds like a clitoris induced orgasm. And that I generally don't have problems achieving once I jump on top or fish out the trusty battery operated friend.Quoting 'orcaboy' Hey Casava.Have you ever heard of sexual sex, sounds like you have been playing with the wrong boys. Try some long n slow sex with pelvic grinding, or some rhythmic sex. The Pubis bone of you and your partner should come into very close contact, your clitoris is very much near to the pubis bone so is stimulated in a more rhythmic way. Use some music to keep the rhythm I suggest silence by delirium or something similar, work with the music and you will not go numb.No more slam bam thank you mam stuff for you:)
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RHP User
14 years ago
i'm very self sufficient. To compensate for generally uninspiring lovers .
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
YES YES YES!! I can achieve both clitoral and vaginal together...it is AMAZINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG!! Casava...the best way I find to achieve both (and have relayed to some girls who NEVER orgasm vaginally let alone both) is to lay on top of the guy with his legs straight down and your legs straight just on the outside of his legs....this makes his pelvic bone rub on your pelivic bone....(but wait there is more). If you grab his head and bring him up to your breasts for him to suck and lick...as he does this his penis goes in deeper and his pelvic bone rubs moreso on the clit...Also with you fucking this way...you have more control of the movement...if he tries to take control....just ask him to stop and to allow you to take control of the rythme and depth of his hot hard cock!! Hope that makes sense and helps you!! ENJOY xox xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are different types of orgasms, and they don't feel the same. Clitoral orgasm is fantastic, especially when you're having it with a partner. Vaginal is great is a different way, but equally exciting. Like Funloving I have orgasms when the right things are done to my nipples, or orgasms are intensified when nipples are stimulated during intercourse. I have also found in the past couple of years that I can be so aroused from chatting to someone, or having an intense connection with someone that I orgasm after sex, or from chatting (phone or webcam). That feels like a vaginal orgasm, even though there is no penetration, or even touch. Then there are the orgasms where you get so wet...and, for me, are more intense. Mmmm, it's great being a woman!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I agree that vaginal & clitoral orgasms are different and I find I can only have a vaginal orgasm if the guy is long and thick. If I'm on top and he's long and thick then I get the benefit of both vaginal & clitoral - INTENSE. I had a fantastic run-on orgasm last week. Hadn't completely come down from the first one and there was the second... then the third and each was as intense as the first one. That was fantastic and left me breathless! Sweet
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks to all those who replied to this post. iluvtosmile, i like how you mention the feelings toward the partner and am interested in what other women have to say about if emotions rather than physical stimulation have any bearings on their ability / intensity of orgasm. I guess emotions toward a partner can influence orgasm in two ways. 1 relating to inhibitions and comfort / openness. An the other which enhances intimacy / connection.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Casava it sound like you need to take some control of your lovemaking, you should be able to orgasm pretty much whatever position you are in, not just on top.Figure out what works for you, set the tempo for yourself and tell your lover what is working and what is not. Even doggie you can set the standard, instead of him just ramming you, you can be the active tempo setter. try spoons or some other positions that the male finds hard to control then you take the leadI must say one of the great pleasures for me when having sex is seeing the satisfaction of my partner, whether that is by the look on her face or the body language exhibited. its much better sex then.I hope you solve your numbing problem
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Colette
14 years ago
Ms sweetwithdesire, that run-on orgasm was a true multiple orgasm as opposed to several sequential orgasms. With sequential you have a distinct end to it and take time to build up to the next one. As you noticed with the multiple, you actually hadn't come down to earth before you were swept away again. Wonderful isn't it? For me I always have sequential and occasional multiple. There is no making multiples happen either, they cum of their own accord. As for clitoral, vaginal and g-spot orgasms I find the intensity varies and if you add nipple stimulation it's even better. Yes, Mrs sweetiepie, how much fun is it being a woman! Colette.
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
Funlovin's suggestion is on the money however i believe a girl is in charge of her own orgasms and needs to understand how her individual body works in order to best describe it to her partner so my tips are:To find the best way to have a vaginal orgasm (assuming you don't have any trouble with the clitoral variety) get some quality alone time and have a play when you are just about ready to cum via clitoral stimulation insert two fingers inside you and feel the muscles that contract as you come. these are the ones you need to learn to focus on to achieve a vaginal orgasm too.Then you work on finding your Gspot (which has been described in other posts) but basically it is easier to find when you are aroused and you find it on your front wall inside (it will feel like a spongy patch) work on various types of stimulation to see what feels good, if it feels like you are going to make yourself pee you are on the right track Once you have discovered these wonderful locations it is time to train the muscles for JOY!!! with a caring sharing partner during a slow and sensual session, sit on top of him with his legs out straight and as you go practice those pelvic floor exercises we are always being told to do (FYI this is a much more enjoyable way to do them) it actually feels great for the guy too as he can feel you grip him and you can tell when you are clenching the right muscles because you will feel the ones that you felt with your fingers while you were coming before grip his wonderful hard cock. do this in a rhythmic fashion and feel the pleasure grow, relax and then lay as described by funloving and with practice you will get there, the stronger the pelvic floor and the more control you have the easier it gets and the more mind blowing it becomes as you need to concentrate less.It was actually through self exploration and pelvic floor exercises that i discovered that i can bring myself to orgasm without even touching myself!!!As with Sweetiepie i find that i am capable of a variety of orgasm options and it is such a world of discovery with so much fun to be had, best of luck to all and hope this is helpful This has been a community service brought to you by WBYM lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Reading WBYM's community service announcement was almost as good as doing it. So many fond memories of past encounters... pity not everyone has WBYM's wonderful approach to problem solving :)
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
glad you approve of my advice
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RHP User
14 years ago
that does sound great wbym.when i find someone caring and sensual in bed as well as out...i'd definitely like to try it.so far my luck has been pretty bad. I mean, absolutely great guys out of bed, in bed it's like they're mr hyde. like that Lily Allen song 'It's not Fair'. When you make suggestions or even beg them to touch you in a certain way, they have either flat out refused or they go soft or don't want to go on because they're bored! I don't get how such good guys out of bed can be such selfish pigs in bed!My picking radar is massively faulty!
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
How sad for you, i tend to agree with sweetiepie that a great kisser often = great lover but also i have to wonder, do you talk a lot BEFORE getting them to bed to see if you both enjoy the same things?? or are they all just talking it up but not delivering?What is with those silly Melbourne boys???Anyway hope you find that right guy to help you out otherwise perhaps a trip to QLD is in order happy to lend my hubby out and there seems to be some real quality up here from what i have heard and experienced
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RHP User
14 years ago
No, I haven't had any luck there either, one great kisser pretty much tried to bore another hole with his fingers in my vagina because he was convinced he could make me squirt that way. apparently i did squirt, there was wet spots on my sheets, but I didn't feel anything at all...i usually associate squirting with an extremely intense orgasm...and i definitely did not orgasm then.and the other left me bruised split and bleeding for days after because he was so excruciatingly rough and hard. when i said no, no, stop, he thought that was all part of the sex talk and kept going. thankfully he came within 5 mins.
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wannabyummymummy
14 years ago
that is some terrible luck you have there girl, glad you are still here with us by the sounds of it you could have easily thrown in the towel and given up! yikes! my poor pussy is crying just thinking about itOK plan B: go to the local sex shop, get yourself an assortment of toys and do it your bloody self!! (well you know what they say if you want a job done right, do it yourself)
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RHP User
14 years ago
wbym...i have a huge collection of toys...they're spilling out of my bedside drawers....though my favourite has always been the lelo and layaspot, oh and the rabbit as well...lots of great squirting orgasms thanks to that one.i'm an optimist...hence why i'm still here...though taking a break now after the last lover...absolutely gentle as far as penetration is concerned, but a massive starfish. didn't like to kiss, no oral, massive intimacy issues, had issues touching people but loved receiving their touch and would just lay there while I sucked him off till it was his turn to get off. then he'd bend me over and take me from behind only. i felt absolutely emotionally, spiritually shrivelled and sucked dry.man...i don't know how i pick them!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
yes, i do try to get to know people and i'm very open about my likes and dislikes...and they all make the appropriate noises about how they're different...but the reality doesn't quite live up to their claims. absolutely nice guys out of bed, which is what draws me to them...in bed a complete disappointment.though it's not all bad, there's been a couple of exceptions, one I've met here actually who's pretty damn good. but it's just a mindless fuck, absolutely no intimacy or connection, so I don't like to see him that often.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'casava' wbym...i have a huge collection of toys...they're spilling out of my bedside drawers....though my favourite has always been the lelo and layaspot, oh and the rabbit as well...lots of great squirting orgasms thanks to that one.i'm an optimist...hence why i'm still here...though taking a break now after the last lover...absolutely gentle as far as penetration is concerned, but a massive starfish. didn't like to kiss, no oral, massive intimacy issues, had issues touching people but loved receiving their touch and would just lay there while I sucked him off till it was his turn to get off. then he'd bend me over and take me from behind only. i felt absolutely emotionally, spiritually shrivelled and sucked dry.man...i don't know how i pick them!! Oh my god.no kissing...no oral...no touching....3 deadly sins in my book I'm afraid Casava...Tactile rules!!!....Kissing is one of the biggest turn-ons...and as for oral...Good Lordy some guys give the rest of us a bad reputation...but not me ...he heKeep smilin...back in the saddle for you.....pick wisely....lolChill
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Colette'Ms sweetwithdesire, that run-on orgasm was a true multiple orgasm as opposed to several sequential orgasms. With sequential you have a distinct end to it and take time to build up to the next one. As you noticed with the multiple, you actually hadn't come down to earth before you were swept away again. Wonderful isn't it? For me I always have sequential and occasional multiple. There is no making multiples happen either, they cum of their own accord. As for clitoral, vaginal and g-spot orgasms I find the intensity varies and if you add nipple stimulation it's even better. Yes, Mrs sweetiepie, how much fun is it being a woman! Colette. Well spoken...and a little knowledge is a dangerous thing. A lot of knowledge is...delightful. Of the erogenous zones on a woman that are described...the clitoral has the densest concentration of nerve endings of any part of the skin and indirect stimulation is often the best. Another is known as the Skene's gland...or the "U Spot". And within the vagina, is a small area of tissue which similar to the palate, and may involuntarily contract when a woman is sexually aroused. This is the Gräfenberg spot, or "G spot"...and should never be overlooked. At the deepest point on the anterior wall of the vagina, located near the cervix, is the anterior fornix,or "A Spot". Other areas known to be orgasmic for some women include the rectouterine, the perineale, and the uterine zones, which, when stimulated can result in the ultimeate inner uterine climax. I am enjoying exploring the apex of the learning curve. | I think one should never forget that perhaps the most erogenous zone on either the female or the male...is our mind. Our thoughts before, during and even after may trigger any number of responses in our bodies...and some that are yet unexplored. Never say never...try anything twice and more if you like it....and always be prepared to be both a willing student and an evne more willing teacher. | Could be time for a bit of advanced study.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Casava, I recommend getting a lover who can read your responses. I had a partner who only ever had clitoral orgasms, mainly because she never had the right attention. What works best in my experience is having the woman prone, with a few pillows under her hips and her knees slightly apart so her bum is just a little in the air with her lover kneeling behind her. The woman should receive plenty of caressing of her legs, back and bum, and foreplay on her clitoris, BUT NO PENETRATION YET. Only after the woman has become very aroused, her lover should slowly start to penetrate her with a few fingers. This should be gentle, slow, and NOT VERY DEEP. Almost instinctively, when the woman craves a little more contact, she'll push her hips up towards her lover a bit. This feedback is the cue to give her a little more depth. Once full penetration has been reached (and you don't need to try and tickle her tonsils, depth isn't the key) her lover should start to ensure that the penetrative strokes stimulate the wall of her vagina closest to the pillows under her hips (so downward strokes are made). This needs to be gentle, like stroking a kitten. The woman will want the pressure of the strokes to increase, instinctively she will raise her bum so there is more downward pressure. As she raiser her bum higher and higher, her lover should move closer between her legs so that her knees are further apart. This positioning puts gentle tension on her mussels in her groin as she raises her hips higher. Plenty of foreplay, slow penetration with a few fingers, knees apart, bum in the air, gentle downward pressure, will all cause the woman's G-Spot to swell. This will feel like a small knot of mussels and is very subtle. Once the G-spot swells, everything becomes easy. The woman will respond to its stimulation by raising her bum to get more pressure on the G-spot and her lover should comply and focus more strokes on it. This feedback is a self-fore-filling cycle! The lover will feel the woman's vagina convulse when she comes: there's no faking this. Importantly, unlike clitoral orgasms that result in wonderful sensations but also a tender and hyper-sensitive clitoris that the woman may not want to be touched for sometime, G-spot orgasms are (apparently) more intense and the G-Spot can continue to be stimulated after the first wave, so as to bring on more orgasms (I obviously don't have one so I'm going on what I've been told and seen through my own interactions.) I know that this might sound very formulaic, but it is not, so long as things go slow, as this gives the woman the space to communicate her responses so her lover. If she's not pushing her hips and bum up into the air, then don't give her more pressure, but adjust the strokes according to her responses: let her respond and keep the cycle going. This is more important than speed or thrusting, which looks dramatic, but often is just distracting for the woman. Plenty of caressing of the woman's legs, lower back, and bum while she is getting gentle penetration also helps to stimulate her: it is about total stimulation and pampering. The woman needs to know that she is the centre of the universe and that everything will be done to give her satisfaction. It is not easy, but it is worth the effort. It can be confronting for some women to position themselves with their bum in the air and their knees wide apart and their lover kneeling behind them and working on their vagina with their fingers (and mouth) as it all seems just a bit like contrived porn-star positioning. Try it and smile. Matt x. PS: You'll notice that I've used the two terms "the woman" and "her lover". I've done this because this technique is cock-free. A bisexual girlfriend of mine taught me all about this. A woman can be brought to orgasm (or orgasms!) this way by her male or female lover. It just takes a little perception on the part of the lover, and trust on the part of the woman. Good luck, happy to discuss anytime. M x
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RHP User
14 years ago
I give these exercises to some of my clients, they are called kegels , they help both men and woman in obtaining increased control and thus better orgasms, try themThe aim of Kegel exercises is to improve muscle tone by strengthening the pubococcygeus muscles (PC)of the pelvic floor. Kegel is a popular prescribed exercise for pregnant women to prepare the pelvic floor for physiological stresses of the later stages of pregnancy and vaginal childbirth. Kegel exercises also increase sexual gratification Factors such as pregnancy, childbirth, aging, being overweight, and abdominal surgery such as cesarean section, often result in the weakening of the pelvic muscles. This can be assessed by either digital examination of vaginal pressure or using a Kegel perineometer. Kegel exercises are useful in regaining pelvic floor muscle strength in such cases. Kegel exercises —are helpful for women who have persistent problems reaching orgasm. How to do Kegel exercises It takes diligence to identify your pelvic floor muscles and learn how to contract and relax them. Here are some pointers: Find the right muscles. Insert a finger inside your vagina and try to squeeze the surrounding muscles. You should feel your vagina tighten and your pelvic floor move upward. Then relax your muscles and feel your pelvic floor return to the starting position. You can also try to stop the flow of urine when you urinate. If you succeed, you've got the basic move. Don't make a habit of starting and stopping your urine stream, though. Doing Kegel exercises with a full bladder or while emptying your bladder can actually weaken the muscles, as well as lead to incomplete emptying of the bladder — which increases the risk of a urinary tract infection.Perfect your technique. Once you've identified your pelvic floor muscles, empty your bladder and sit or lie down. Contract your pelvic floor muscles, hold the contraction for five seconds, then relax for five seconds. Try it four or five times in a row. Work up to keeping the muscles contracted for 10 seconds at a time, relaxing for 10 seconds between contractions.Maintain your focus. For best results, focus on tightening only your pelvic floor muscles. Be careful not to flex the muscles in your abdomen, thighs or buttocks. Avoid holding your breath. Instead, breathe freely during the exercises.Repeat three times a day. Aim for at least three sets of 10 repetitions a day. You might make a practice of fitting in a set every time you do a routine task, such as checking email, commuting to work, preparing meals or watching TV.
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
My last post on here didn't make it...and this one probably won't either...but I have a right to speak my mind... Casava...don't you have enough respect for your body to force these guys off you if they are hurting you as much as you say? I cannot believe that you allowed a guy to keep "slamming" into you for 5 minutes. No wonder guys believe that "no" or "stop" means nothing and keep going... It horrifies me that women don't speak up when things are uncomfortable or painful (not in a good way). A very disgusted xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
xfunlovingx,no i didn't. it's called being young and completely fucked in the head, when your first introduction to sex was being raped at 16 and the no was definitely ignored, suffice it to say it wasn't exactly a gentle experience. so you get a little older, and you start thinking that's the norm, of course you don't have any respect for yourself...things like that don't happen to good people, i must have done something bad to deserve it, and all stupid self hating shit like that. you wake up one day, you've got two choices, either end things now, or really end things now. i'm still here, so obviously i didn't pick the second option.you don't get over it. you may forgive yourself, you may like yourself and respect yourself now. but the scars are still there. in your head you still associate penetration with pain, even though since your reincarnation all of your partners have been gentle if uninspiring lovers.as for the guy who first started this particular avalanche...he got his just desserts
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just mulling over casava's unfortunate experience. Seems like one step removed from rape if it were to go much further. I can understand someone avoiding a kiss if there is bad breath or rotten teeth... but disassociating affection from the sex act is like using the woman as an object for relief like an unpaid prostitute. Unless its something the woman specifically wants like a gang bang in a sex club. Tend to think greed also applies to sexual needs as much as it does to a desire for wealth. It seems that too often the short term orgasm is more important than a longer term mutual enjoyment.
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RHP User
14 years ago
My sentiments go out to you and congratulate you for not tossing it all in. Life was not meant to be easy (unless you're born with a silver spoon in your mouth) but some times its outright unfair. Do hope you find a support mechanism here as there are many well meaning people on this site (particularly a number of classy ladies) who can offer help and encouragement. Best of luck in he future...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Casava I feel really bad about your bad experiences, I hope you cut that 1st guys balls off..We (guys) are not all like that, and i hope you find the right gentleman for yourself, A guy that cares about both you and himself.. The best sex is when the 2 of you work as one, I hope you find that soonYou can take control of all your relationships, whatever form they are, sexual, friendship, client/customer or family, and make it good for YOU. Take control of everything, and be strong and keep smiling, that lovely smile that you have Orcaboy
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xFunlovingx
14 years ago
Alot of us are in your position...some of us alot younger than you were and alot that it happened later in life. Trust me I know EXACTLY how you feel...mine starting when I was just a child ... but anyway I don't want to go off topic here. If you read the posts in SWB you will see that you are not alone in this and that there really are alot of women out there to help. If you read my forum post in there...you will see what help there is out there and also that there are alot who will listen and help! I got upset at your posts and what you wrote as I am a rape/abuse survivor...it is time to take control! Come over to SWB and you will get all the help you need...not in here for all to see. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
xfunlovingx,thank you for your kind offer. i understand where you're coming from and I'd have the same reaction as well if i read what I wrote previously and didn't get the full background. and i have posted in swb, but many years ago, and it did help with my recovery. rhp has been a catharsis to me over the years in more ways than one, especially the forums.it's what keeps me coming back here.orcaboy, that guy did as good as get his balls cut off. :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
haven't got time to read them now, but i am telling you all now, that yes there is two types of orgasm, and that's coming from a bloke. the second orgasm you are refering can also be called female ejaculation, or more commonly, squirting. and YES , every woman does have a g spot i believe it's the most sensual thing you can achieve with a partner. if anyone is interested in knowing more, femplay australia have a dvd called The G-spot & female ejaculation. it will tell you just about everything you need to know on the subject
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RHP User
14 years ago
Whilst visiting my old man for Fathers Day he wheels out the "I was watching this porno the other day and the woman squirted all over the place".. I've never heard of that before (oh dear, no wonder Mum's gone off him after all this time). Then he went on to say how he had to ask his Dr what it was all about. I might order that DVD and get it sent to him. Not that it'll do the poor bugger any good on the blood pressure meds he's on. (Damn I should have nicked his viagra script)
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captainkaos
14 years ago
Is there something you are not telling us?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Well *I* don't need it but really... would love a day or two of solid fucking, and if that helps me get that, even better.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I know excactly what you mean...and agree entirely. They probably watch too much porn....
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
Quoting 'casava'When you make suggestions or even beg them to touch you in a certain way, they have either flat out refused or they go soft or don't want to go on because they're bored! Casava, that is absolutely disgusting of ANY guy (or gal) not to want to take direction from their lover on how they (he or she) likes to be pleasured. Not everyone is the same and learning from others is the best way to expand your "reportoir" of techniques. ET
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi All, Very interesting array and disturbing topics have come out in this forum, and I feel compelled to add my 50 cents worth. 1) Yes there is at least 3 types of orgasms for women (lucky us!). 2) I think it is really sad that humans are not educated and are so out of touch with their bodies ( and emotions and minds) and most do not even know the location of the elusive "G spot". 3) Clitoral orgasms in my opinion and experience are much more relative to the location and can be just as intense as vaginal orgasms, there are more nerve endings located around the clitoris than any other location in the body ( includding the head of a mans penis). 4) Vaginal orgasms in my opinion and experience can make your uterus contract for days if you are lucky enough...mmm.., and can give rise to multiple orgasms. 5) Some women can orgasm and ejaculate similar to a man. 6) Some woman can orgasm with just nipple stimulation , or without any touch at all. 7) Some women can have "wet dreams" like some men experience. 8) I think it is personal preference of the individual woman as to which one they like best...personally I like them all !! 9) There is also many different types of sex. Sex, love making or fucking depending on our moods at any given point in time, good communication between the parties will indicate which type is appropriate at the time, and a great lover can read this in their partner/s and give rise to fantastic sex, love making or fucking. 10) I would like to comment on Time4Me2Know techniques and knowledge , his techniques is loving and caring and sexy and you would have to be dead not to get wet and stimulated by his techniques.... the pillow technique under the womans hips certainly help achieve the vaginal orgasm because the penis is stimulating the "G Spot" which is however... THE LOCATION OF THE INFAMOUS grafenberg or "G Spot" is inside the FRONT wall of the vagina aproxamatly halfway between the back of the pubic bone and to the front of the cervix, along the course of the urethra and the bladder where it connects with the urethra. This information is freely available on the www, including pictures... I checked!! The perfect penis to help you ladies achieve the vaginal orgasm is the one that bends back towards a males body when it is erect. 11) Back to the mind...In my opinion a great fuck starts well before any ones clothes are off, thats why alot of women prefer men that can communicate, both verbally with their minds and then their bodies. 12) No means no. That WAS rape. Casava it made me very sad to read your comments. If a woman says no at any point during sex a man can be and will be charged for rape. If the man was a decent man, (which obvisiously he wasnt - selfish and ONLY interested in his own gratification ) He would have stopped. 13) Unfortunatly back to education. I am all for more in depth sex education which should start in the home and not left for strangers to teach our kids at school. Lets all make a greater effort to sit down and really talk to our kids about the nitty grittys so they dont have to get their education in forums such as this at age 29+ (age of youngest that commented to this topic). That they know and respect themselves and their partners and their bodies and dont live half their lives such as some in the sexual dark. Wouldnt you like to gift to your kids a healthy respect filled fulfilled sex life? Happy Healthy sex lives, CumAgainForFun xx
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