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Female misleading profiles
February 24 2013
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Hanna_ybbn
12 years ago
I am married but have a 'single female' profile.Why?Because my 66 year old husband has NO CLUE I frequent this site and have done so for the past 2 and a bit years now!Why?Because I am not here for a hook up with another couples PLUS my husband - are you kidding me? We don't even have sex together, let alone with another couple.Why?Because I enjoy the chat room and forumsWhy?Because my life is far from 'conventional' and this works for meDo I lie about my situation? NEVER.Is it written in plain English on my profile?ABSOLUTELY!It's times like these that we all need to remember that just because we have our own reason for being here - does not mean that everyone is here for that same reason As for Couple profiles where there are only pics of the woman - I see these as fake and a scam - irrespective if they are or are not.Says so much about a couple when the woman is left hanging out to dry, so to speak.Not my cuppa tea as people I'd like to know better, sorry.Hanna x
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes you do find many single female profiles in which it is actually a couple masquerading as a single. That is misleading, it is annoying as all hell and you can usually just flick straight past them. I've noticed over the years that many of those "single girl" profiles seem to be the woman looking for another woman to please her man. I dunno if that's poor wording on her part, but it's definitely not enticing for the person looking at the profile. Some of the single profiles will be married or attached but in an open relationship where the people can play separately, which may be more what you're looking for. Doesn't hurt to ask the question.As for couples with only the female on display in their galleries. There are a lot of couples who view the profiles as advertising, and what better way than to use the female as the bait. The female appeals to both the female and the male in the hunting couple. The males of other tend to be mostly straight, therefore some people think it's pointless to advertise the male to another straight male. So the male, if his pics are included at all, gets relegated to a single face pic in the private gallery. They obviously forget that there are a great many couples who do not "take one for the team" and really really do want to be able to take a gander at the male half of the couple before deciding whether to send that message or flirt. Which is why we keep a fairly even number of pics of each of us in both public and private galleries, yet my mug is the enticing bait photo for the front of the profile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
My husband and I have a couple profile, happy to play together or singly. We have photos of both of us. To say that the woman appeals to both male and female is NOT accurate in every case. I am straight and couldn't give a fig if the woman is attractive, but I find it disappointing to not see the male.
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Mischeviouslad
12 years ago
Im willing to bet that youve seen some version of this phrase many times... "I have a man who is willing to join in" LOL DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess when some people want to meet couples they seem only interested in the girl side of it, mainly cause the majority don't seem to give a shit about the male and consider him an added obstactle for main thing , of course I totally disagree , if someone wants to meet us they have to be into us both :p . I tend to think it's more open with bisexual couples .
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jummy
12 years ago
Why do thay do it?
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playfulminx
12 years ago
I'm attached but maintain an active single female for various reasons. Firstly, I enjoy participating in the community areas of rhp and prefer to have my own voice/views.In terms of meeting, I am open to meeting other women on my own and sometimes men on my own socially. I make those points very clear however.If you come across single female profiles that should be a couple one, then report them. Sometimes I guess it's hard to work out how to change profiles so you could be doing them a favour.
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RHP User
12 years ago
we are a couple looking for a lady to have fun times with but we change our photo regualry alot of the times its both of us as profile pic but sometimes i will put hubby up or myself if your a genuine couple seeking you will have photos of both of you in your pics :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
The men are butt ugly and too ashamed to show their faces ;-P hehe
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RHP User
12 years ago
People need to state there intensions on there profile and not have a suprise partner waiting in the loom.Im after female companionship and have a single profile and also we have a couple one, but play together with others as a couple while my profile is for me to search for other ladies for me not my partner.Alot of things can get confusing on a site like this :) good luck- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's frustrating for me , as a Single Male , searching for Women too . I'll see an enticing Profile Pic that says Single Woman & then I'll read her Profile . Surprise , Surprise ... Hubby will be present for the first few meets . Present ? What does that mean ? Is he going to film us or do I have to Fuck him too ? Creepy & Disconcerting 😒 I feel like a victim of false advertising & I wish I'd never opened her Profile because now I feel like I've showed I'm interested. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes have the experience myself,Looking for female to play ,when they respond,they speak of WE,half the time its a man,pretending to be a lady.Yes they are couples,hubby lurking behind the scene. I also find that some couples profiles with hot women on their main pic,are guys as well,women is never available to chat.
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RHP User
12 years ago
an individual profile (notice i don't say single) and couple's profile with my open FWB partner....both profiles clearly state our situation ... cause sometimes i wanna play alone and sometimes with him:-D if you contact me on my individual profile then you're interested in playing with me...if on my couples profile then you're interested in both of us ... simple really :-D FFJ
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your profile states single though. Unfortunately there is no "individual" button when choosing ;). I think the easiest way to go about it is to click "ask me". That way if they want to know what your relationship status is, you can be honest and never be considered to be misleading. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've come across these before...One reason that I've heard is that it's the woman in the couple's idea to seek out a girl for her own benefit, and her partner is supportive of her idea. However, she makes the final decision in regard to the matter and what is of paramount importance is her own level of attraction to the girl she's seeking, and she doesn't have to consider her partner's attraction to the same girl.But then these women always want their partners present and involved... Conundrum!
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RHP User
12 years ago
there are more examples of couples using a single profile than single females I think.... but its about expectation really. I am honest about who I am but don't really count or discount anything until I've met people in person. I only ever agree to meet if its both partners in a couple to see if there is any zing... I guess I don't really consider many things to be a "waste of time" so happy to meet a couple even if they pretend to be a single girl in the profile.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For us I think that some of the woman create a single profile as they know they will get more responses than having a couple profile. We have no pics of him on our main pics, generally the people we are interested will ask if they want to see our other pics and most of the requests are from single guys in other states who want wank material.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We have a couple profile 'Triunity' and I have a F profile but clearly state that I am part of a couple and we only play together.I really can't see what anyone achieves by lying. I don't think many fall for it and let's face it, you're going to get found out before anything real happens. That said, in our early days we were courted by an F who turned out to be a M. Did he really think we were going to find his dishonesty charming and fall for his cunning ways?
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's hard to tell if females profiles are for real. Many of them are the same. I started up a chat with a woman recently and her profile photo looked a little too professional. So I asked her if it was her real photo. She confirmed it was but then I found a copy of it on Google and it was part of a porn shoot. She had quite a few male friends but her profile was totally fake. It's been deleted after I reported it.Another peeve of mine is a lot of women ask men to provide face pics but do no show themselves. Or a woman may complain she doesn't like cock pics but their profile is some naked tits or a vagina. Or a profile might specify men who show respect and can have a decent conversation but your message won't get a reply no matter how nice and thoughtful you are. It gets a bit boring really.
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Boy22
12 years ago
Quoting 'Hanna_ybbn'I am married but have a 'single female' profile. Why?Because my 66 year old husband has NO CLUE I frequent this site and have done so for the past 2 and a bit years now!Why?Because I am not here for a hook up with another couples PLUS my husband - are you kidding me? We don't even have sex together, let alone with another couple.Why?Because I enjoy the chat room and forumsWhy?Because my life is far from 'conventional' and this works for meDo I lie about my situation? NEVER.Is it written in plain English on my profile?ABSOLUTELY!It's times like these that we all need to remember that just because we have our own reason for being here - does not mean that everyone is here for that same reason As for Couple profiles where there are only pics of the woman - I see these as fake and a scam - irrespective if they are or are not.Says so much about a couple when the woman is left hanging out to dry, so to speak.Not my cuppa tea as people I'd like to know better, sorry.Hanna x Well done Hanna!!!!
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StookyAndChooky
12 years ago
totally understand your frustaration as we find the same thing as well which means you have really read the profile thoughly and make sure they are really single
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