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Filthy fetish house party! Advice, suggestions?

April 22 2014

Hello darlings! After many months of planning, hard work and construction (read: me ordering men around in various states of undress) my long term loverboy and I have managed to create a pretty damn amazing dungeon filled with the most glorious apparatus and a great kinky atmosphere. We are throwing around the idea of holding a swinging houseparty, focusing specifically on elements of BDSM/Kink/Fetish whilst still preserving the spirit of liberated sexuality, experimentation and exploration. Whilst we are both indoctrinated in the Melbourne fetish scene, frequent swingers clubs and the like, we have never organised something at home and therefore need some tips and sage advice from all of you devious things as to how to make this fuck-fest one smooth and satisfying ride. Of course we have freaky friends that will be in attendance, but how does one go about extending invitations to interested parties online? What is the etiquette, expectations and experiences ya'll have had in this regard? Anything to watch out for? Is it downright horrible and closed minded to impose age/gender restrictions, in the interest of a good diverse mix of people? Also, is it customary to supply lube/condoms? Anyone know where you can buy these necessities in bulk? Spanks! -Kallysta x

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I can't offer any advice I'm sorry but I just wanted to say that sounds awesome! In my opinion I think you'd have to impose the dreaded age/gender restrictions otherwise you won't get the best ratios. It really is for their own benefit that you would be imposing that anyway. Best of luck! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Set up as invite only.. People will request to attend and you can simply select those you want to attend... Ask there most kinkish fetish? See if any dom/sub exhibitionist maybe do a performance, maybe even hire a dom for that professional touch... Everyone brings owns paddles, fetish gear, but talk to them, ask them what clubs they like, and what they are into, swap fetish shots... Build the dungeon well, but select the prey and hunters well and a plethora of fun to be had.. Soooo jealous.... Have fun!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Tell them to bring there own lube and condoms and fetish gear hardware but as good host I suggest women's health clinics they always have a bowl of condoms on the counter.. And look on line for a bulk option for things or say you work in the industry usually gets you at least 10% discount...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Yes it is customary to supply lube and condoms and most likely the best and easiest place to buy in bulk would be online I would think? Or maybe someone knows of an adult factory outlet? Putting restrictions in place does mean you can control the party a little better and make it more fun for you and your friends. Lots of house parties I have seen have an age limit for example. If I were you I would post an event on sites like RHP, then email people who have expressed an interest that you would like to attend. Get a new mobile you can use for your parties and get them to call you first so that you can speak to them, and then based on the conversation you can then email/text them the party details and location. That way hopefully you can weed out anyone who sounds a bit dodgy and importantly the timewasters (90% of people who express an interest never attend). Have fun gorgeous!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Hiya, prepaid phone pre-interview is a must, charge enough for attendance for security or have a few big mates around to monitor behaviour; have some different areas of the home set up; organise the basics - lube, condoms, waster receptacles; throwaway cups; water - think like a normal party but don't get too stressed. Remember the aftermath as well, washing, clean etc. Give us a yell if you want a hand, G

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    And I'm sure it will be......bulk condoms and lube as cheap as chips online, age restrictions isn't a problem and a lot of private house parties have them......good luck, have fun and play safe......💋