M56

Finding a girl for my female friend.

July 13 2018

I have been tasked by my very sexy female friend to organise her first female/female experience.This is something she has desired and fantasised about for a long time, but she is nervous and of course excited about it, and I feel honoured that she has asked me to help her, although to be honest, I really have no idea where to start.So, ladies, I implore you for some advice and guidance on this issue.She is someone I truly care about, and to be able to play any part in this becoming a reality for her would be incredible.She is not ready for the swinging scene, not yet, but has expressed interest, but for a start, would love to kiss another woman.Where it goes from there is really in the hands of the fates.My role is really just as somebody who can help make this happen.Thoughts?

Comments

The_Antichrist

6 years ago

Are you fucking her or are you platonic?? - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
Hottie1

6 years ago

Sorry, I sense disaster is written all over this. You can go to swinging events (I haven’t checked your profile or where you live) but many venues offer separation of hardcore swinging and more gentile opportunities, say different stories, play versus social areas ... take your friend to one of those places and let things evolve naturally for her. You can’t manufacture attraction, chemistry or desire via an advocate/third person. Your friend may describe perfectly what she’s physically after but and even a person you know well may not be happy with your choice of playmate. I think it’s stacked against you if you message ladies here and say ...’I’m organising for a friend ...’ What would be your role during this meet and pash? Would you be watching? Would you be supporting her? If so and you were successful in finding a playmate for her, and let’s say things progressed, and you all played, would your friend be ok with that? I have too many questions but I’m firmly in the find places where she can make this fantasy happen in a natural way ... her asking you to find that person isn’t something I even understand (it’s not wrong, I just wouldn’t let anyone really do that for me) I think connection, sex appeal and attraction are fluid things and she should have an active role in finding that person, with your help. Mary. X

reply

like
MsJonesy

6 years ago

Mary said. She needs to find the person herself. 😊

reply

like
RHP User

6 years ago

that Hottie has said, but I have to admit I do not get this dilemma I'll be honest in saying that I work part time in a Escort Agency (no I'm not a escort but lets move on) and I do not understand why people do not simply pay for this fantasy ? Sure it costs money, but its not out of reach of many, but if its a fantasy you really wish to indulge in then why not hire a professional to guide you through ? You get to vet the escort, you will see their photos, (yes if it isn't a true photo of them, they'd be out of a job) you can chat to them and they are open to any questions you may have and if one is nervous they will lead the way, initiate procedures and a fun night is had by all. And they will turn up, a bonus it would seem If when the escort arrives at your venue and you are not happy then you have the right to veto their services, no hard feelings and everyone moves on. I've had that happen to one of our escorts once and once only in my time there. People say what about chemistry etc, yes the escort is paid to live out your fantasy so yes they will do their best, but I can tell you I have booked a escort for jobs exactly like this and the couple in question end up extending from 1 hour to 3/4 hours because they are all having a great night and the escort will leave when they say to I've seen so many forums on couples trying to find a third playmate only to exchange stories of fakes, being stood up, too much ping ponging of emails and messages. I do not get why they don't just pay for the experience especially if its for a first time As well, as a potential Unicorn I have in the past been interested in joining a couple, however when I dipped my toe into this area, I found the responses from some couples astounding. It was all about them, and what I wanted/needed in a hook-up was of no consequence so now I'm not interested in going there again. And I have read here how by some, how badly a unicorn has been treated by some couples, so its no longer on my bucket list And there's no fear of STDS or jealous 4th partners, no follow-up hassling, professional, no strings, simple I'm not advocating this is the ultimate solution but I think one should be open to this being the answer to their situation cause there's a forum on this, nearly every week and if you do find someone then more power to you and that's great but Personally, I hire professional people to service all areas of my life, why not someone to help me indulge in a fantasy if I cant find or struggling to find what I'm looking for ?

reply

like
HotNightsGC

6 years ago

Something that she organises herself. If she’s been desiring it as much as you say then she would definitely have some expectations about her future experience and some particular preferences about it all. Sorry but I would definitely stand well clear as the first experience needs to be 100% her own and not anybody else’s. - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
FeistyFatty

6 years ago

Is this the same female friend you write about in your profile stating "she loves to play with males, females and couples"? - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
RHP User

6 years ago

Figuratively speaking, that is. Engage a professional; it's what I did for a girlfriend a while back. I didn't join the play, and it was amazing. My girlfriend loved it and was on that high for weeks afterward. - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
mango69er

6 years ago

No to an escort. Better to hang in there and find someone who wants you for you. Its just not the same. Alot wont allow kissing. And theres got to be kissing when with someone. Also there will be a dam between your mouth and her pussy. Understand why of corse. But its like compearing apples and oranges when paying and not paying - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
BiPlay69

6 years ago

Platonic friend. Shy, inexperienced in these sorts of things, a little nervous and no, not the friend listed on my profile. I agree that this really is something that she needs to pursue herself, but she asked, so I am making an effort. That is what friends do. The call for advice is so I can better explain to her why and how she might better pursue this fantasy. - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
HarleyQandMrO

6 years ago

Hi there If you're her friend and want to help, take her to a gay club and let nature run its course. I guarantee she will kiss a woman by the end of the night, and will make up her own mind from there. The best thing is, she will always remember it was because of you she had her first girl/ girl kiss. - Posted from rhpmobile

reply

like
Mischeviouslad

6 years ago

Not sure why my previous comment failed to make the cut.... but... I’m not going to rip into the OP, because I’ve been where you are (Note though that it will never ‘look’ good asking this in a forum as the obvious vested interest agenda principle will bubble it’s way to the surface.) What did I do? I discussed it separately with two women I knew who had independently expressed interest in other women, and I suggested opening dialogue in a KIK group chat. After the introduction, I stepped out of the chat so that they could take their conversation to wherever they wanted without my presence, without my influence..... and free of any agenda on my part DG

reply

like

Finding a girl for my female friend.

Comments

Tags

Boards

Forum help