RHP

RHP User

M54

Finding a new group

November 07 2018

I used to be part of a very fun collective of 3 guys and 2 regular girls that would get together at least semi annually for many years and now everyone has sort of drifted apart and moved on. It was always fun and enjoyable and i find myself longing for that again. Am I being unrealistic? That original group did have a central person and we were all loosely collected around him so it was quite organic. Intereseted to hear your opinions and own experiences.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Maybe you need to consider being the central person this time around. Given you’ve been in a situation where the central person was someone else - step up and see if you can be it this time. Throw out some messages to some contacts you’ve made and see if you can get the ball rolling. If it’s something you desire you’ll instigate the experience instead of waiting for someone else to be the driving force.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    Build your own .... 👍🏻

  • SxcMissM

    SxcMissM

    6 years ago

    If you build it they will cum

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    If they cum, then you built it..! .... now please build it and let me know.

  • OkeyDoke45

    OkeyDoke45

    6 years ago

    I have found friends that have come and gone over the years - some are with you for the rest of your life and you will keep in regular contact, but most will drop off your radar and you theirs after a while. Currently I have a group of good friends (all work colleagues but that's okay when it works), they are fun to socialize with and we are all quite honest with each other. In five years though, most of them (and maybe myself) will have moved away and we will communicate only via Facebook. In the meantime I will have met different people and formed new friendships. This has been my life, and as much as I have many fond memories I kind of like meeting new people as well. It's a bugger when a group is based around one person though, usually a magnetic-type that drives the conversation - and also really really loves being the centre of attention. If you liked the others, give them a ring and see if they would like to catch up without the magnetic one - you'd be surprised how interesting you find each other. Otherwise, get out into life and you will meet others.