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Finding a partner on RHP
October 31 2015
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RHP User
9 years ago
Id be more than happy if I met someone off here and formed a relationship. its not what Im looking for right now, but Ive clicked with a few guys on the site, the honesty and openess is very refreshing. And I know three couples who met on here, in 2 cases one has moved across the country to be with their partner. The biggest issue for me would be trust? RHP is almost an addiction? I dont even know myself if I could be monogamous now, Id love to be with the right person, but an open relationship has a new appeal for me.
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zoe69r
9 years ago
I couldn't agree with you more , yes I would form a relationship with anyone off RHP, trust would be a issue but when you break it all down everyone is on here for the same reasons. I would love to have a relationship with à bi woman and we could have fun with others without being dishonest with each other but only time will tell I suppose
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precious142
9 years ago
Not sure if I would call him that atm but.........I have been seeing a guy from here for over 2 months now and we are both quite happy with each other's company. We have discussed the fact that we both have things to tick off the fuckit list,while they arent a priority atm if and when the opportunity arises, then we will go for it. Its nice to be off the RHP Merry go round for a while and its great to get to know a person a lot more better both in and out of the bedroom. Cant say that either of us are looking for a relationship right now, we just going withthe flow and see what happens in the future.
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nattyocean
9 years ago
I have recently updated my profile to indicate that I am open to meeting someone again and I have had a mixture of responses ranging from those who clearly only looked at my pictures and didn't see the no casual statement, those who potentially a fwb situation could arise, and those like myself wanting to meet someone for something serious. In saying this I am also on a number of other sites advertising myself (lol best way I could describe it) and also just doing it the old fashioned way and being open to experiences and people in everyday life. I guess I'm hedging my bets, simply because finding someone in all honesty isn't hard, but finding the right one now that is dedication and a refusal to compromise which those who know me, know that's no something I am willing to do now. So I think it's individual and also not being ok with those who see this place as just somewhere to get an easy chick in bed temporarily if you are wanting more and being clear about that. And in as far as trust goes, ironically I trust those I meet through here and Fet far more than some of the more conventional dating sites cause personally I am into open, honest, raw personalities than someone who is in my experiences more worried about what the joneses think than themselves. Harsh maybe... Well Just my own experience. NattyO xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I've seen other members mention it: They wouldn't want anything serious with people they meet here because they're too promiscuous, easy or whatever the term du jour is to be relationship material. Those who say they are on RHP for people to just have sex and on vanilla sites to find a significant other: You're here too, are you saying you're not to be taken seriously as a partner? Good to know. I agree with Freya, I see the same men on different sites all the time, often coming across as very different people. I wonder who they're trying to fool, in the end only themselves I think. I'd actually love to meet my partner here, and if I felt I couldn't trust them or their morals just because they're on this site I'd be an utter hypocrite.
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PatchworkGirl
9 years ago
I'm here, and I consider myself a reliable, trustworthy person who'd be fantastic to be in a relationship with. I've met a great many people who also fit that category (one in particular ... ). So I always find it a bit strange when people comment that they wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone they meet on here. Do they believe that they are unworthy of being considered a relationship prospect purely because they signed up for RHP? It's like meeting people anywhere - sometimes you'll come across people who are worth your trust, and you'll also find those who you should steer very clear from. It's about judging the person based on their interactions with you, rather than their web history. Otherwise, we'd all be screwed!
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would have no problem meeting a guy on here for a relationship. If fact it would be a pleasure to be in a relationship with someone I have met on here. Trust is only in issue if you allow. I'm very upfront when I meet anyone about having a FWB and there has been a few comments in messaging about the amount of guys I see........if only they knew it is less.......way less......than they think. If they don't trust me then I don't want to be with them anyway. So I talk to many, meet very few. And I agree with Freya, there are men and women on other sites who are sneaky with their sex life. At least most of us are honest and upfront.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I met my last long term partner on a site like this. We were both seeing others casually when we met. We stayed together for 8 yrs. But we were monogamous and didnt play with others as we both didnt want to.
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RHP User
9 years ago
When I joined the online dating world , I will have trust issues no matter where or if I meet my next partner. My eyes were opened and you can shut the gate when the horse is bolted but it's bolte. Saying all of that , sexually I've opened up and I've found on here some very genuine people , some who matched my needs. So out of clubs , vanilla sites and here , I think I'd choose here to meet my next partner
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RHP User
9 years ago
Freya I think that has to be one of the most ridiculous things I have read for a while. Here, any other site and the outside world they are all the same. Full of honest or dishonest. Good or not so good. And trustworthy or untrustworthy. I can see how some may make that comment because of past experience as I have heard some fairly sad tales but that aside I know some even worse ones in the real world.
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Choose anyone from RHP for my next committed serious long term relationship because: 1) I am into monogamy. Even now that I'm here seeking non-committed companionship, I still can only take and will want one partner only, not multiples. I do not want to share him or myself with anyone else. So, when I'm in a serious relationship, I expect exclusive commitment for me from my partner as that's what I will give him. 2) I am not into any extreme or painful kinks and majority of men on here seem to like kinks so much......at least that's what I come across in those men's profiles that I have crossed path with anyway. 3) Most men on here don't seem to want to limit to just having one partner only and I am not sure if any of them would be willing to give up their current sexual lifestyle for me, even if I was worth it. 4) If I ever meet someone from a dating site and we form a relationship in the end, I will definitely leave the scene for good. But I don't think that is what the majority of men on a site like RHP want or seek ultimately. Well, in my own experiences anyway. As for the trust issue, I don't see any difference in trusting a person I meet online or in the real world. If I feel I can't trust him then I just can't him, if I think I can then I can. It's all in the head and mindset. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
In the Real World I chat openly with females and males on any topics: sex, sexuality, morality, ethicality, bodily functions, any topics at all. Much as we seem to do here.Some people lie, cheat and are just as devious in the Real World as they are on RHP...how is that any different? The persona that is Koolgrey here is exactly the same as I am in the Real World...the same morals, the same words, the same pictures, no fanciful photos of penis's squashed against camera lenses adorn my home...though you'll just have to take my word for all that. I just have a real name outside here.Or am I just sneaky and devious like the "majority" of men here...trying to lure you poor, witless women away from the light? Honestly, I think it's ridiculous to think a person is untrustworthy just because they are a member of an adult dating site. For that matter, am I even more untrustworthy because I'm a paying member...have I sold even more of my soul to the devil than an innocent, wandering guest..perhaps dipping their toe in the waters of hedonism to see how hot they are? Anyway. I get a bit carried away when I butt heads with ridiculous concepts...
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QLDtwo4fun
9 years ago
Here is as good a place as any. Let's face it if your on here looking for a partner at least you know anyone you meet is open to sexual adventure. Better than trying to convert a muggle.
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Single_Guy4U
9 years ago
looking for a partner on RHP (if there were one in my area, or reasonable distance away. However, since I can't even get to meet someone for a coffee, think it unlikely (just the wrong area). I understand how women may be sceptical given the number of men just looking for sex, and a lot not as honest as they should be, but from what I have read I believe there are a lot of women who are genuine. (men also, just that the numbers add up to more men treating it as a sex site)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Everyone has a right to choose how much or how many people they sleep with. Just remember all have been in a relationships of some type previously. So being trust worthy and exclusive with just one person is totally doable. Its just you have to meet the right person who makes you want to do that. I have been on RHP 3yrs now and single but before I was married and faithful for over 15 yrs. What would make people think that I was not capable of that again. You have to give trust, sure you can be wary but too much and you could ruin any potential relationship in the future.
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Insomnian
9 years ago
See this site any different to any other dating site. Sure people are a lot more open as to what they want, but they're much the same on most of the other sites I've seen as well, just a little more candid with their wording. If I happened to find someone I clicked with, I'd not give two shits if they were from here or from a '' vanilla site''. I have stated in my profile I'm not after 1 night stands or FWB arrangements, but by the same means, I'm not at a place in my life where I have the time to actively settle down. Looking after a very sick parent, studying and working full time leaves me very little time, but I believe, and shoot me for saying so, but if it's meant to be, it will. Just my 2 cents.Take it, leave it, do with it what you want.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I would only choose a partner from here, i won't even hook up with people if they aren't first flat out horny and put that before life stuff, meaning i don't want to know about their children, grandchildren etc too early in the peace, has to be about sex first, then i'd look at the rest including the connection and possibility of a relationship, but will never get to know someone traditionally first without the sexual heat being first there. And monogamy, never, not for me so trust issues will never be a problem. This way or the highway - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have trust issues, its something I need to shake off, I know a lot of the guys on here would be 100% trustworthy but I still have my guards up. So it wasnt a slight on the guys, just how I am myself right now.
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RHP User
9 years ago
after a recent experience from a different dating site that RHP seems the better choice to use as the vehicle for a relationship.... At least you have a better chance of knowing what it is exactly that you're signing up for. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
take a partner from RHP - if I were lucky enough to find someone.. As Stirry said "you have a better chance of knowing what it is exactly that you're signing up for"
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RHP User
9 years ago
I have no problems finding a partner on this site. Better to be up front and honest about your sexual drive/fantasies than become involved with someone and find out later that part of the relationship doesn't work after the first flush of love/lust is gone. Been there, done that...twice!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Looking for love/LTR here too. But I'm not going to refuse anything else in the meantime, or stop actively seeking fantasies. From my meagre experience I don't seem to fall for someone until we are fully part of each other's lives, and she is expressing such interest in myself. So I'm certainly capable and happy enough with more casual arrangements, but that doesn't mean I will stop looking for that special person, or that I won't be disappointed if I lose any casual contact. In any case, I figure the more people I meet or communicate with, in any scenario, singles or couples, the more I learn about sex, relationships, life, making connections/communication, negotiations/compromising/finding middle ground (everything really), that I am better prepared to engage with and make something work with someone special. I did have some recent interest on RSVP. Some very lovely and tempting people there (and on similar sites), and where I met my girlfriend and other dates, but now I'd rather have some idea of sexual interests and compatibility before initiating contact, so this site (and similar) is obviously better suited for that.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hmm. Bring it on I say! - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
At least we are out there with what we like. As mentioned, the hypocrites who are on several sites as well as this but discount those from here. I'm committed to here now. Easier to explain my new tatt. No need to explain " so......who is this Annie?
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