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Finding a playdate for couples

April 22 2013

My partner and I are new on the swinging scene, we have noticed that there are plenty of other couples about but we were hoping to just meet a nice lady in our area, we hoped other successful couples could share advice on how to enter the scene and meet that right person like what kind of events to attend or what sites might be good to look at for a couple like us?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    your profile a bit lacking in info no single is going to go for that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well you have come to the right place, but you could also check out Adult Friend Finder or Adult Match Maker...just google them for their websites. As to places you can visit, do a search here under the Events Section for parties and other events in your state. Good luck and have fun. Mrs Bi- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I am not looking for couples but I think if you read similar topics written on this subject it will help you. Firstly I am not sure if you are still working on your profile but there are only a very small number of women looking for couples so they can pick and choose. So they will want pictures of both of you and a hell of a lot more information than you have provided in your profile. I suggest you look at other couple profiles to get an idea. And please don't just post pictures of the Mrs. Mister must be included too. Unfortunately it is unlikely you will get any interest with the way your profile stands now right now. Hope you get some good advice from some unicorns. That is what we all fondly call single girls looking to meet couples. Very very rare and precious. Otherwise it will may be difficult to find what you are after in your area. Do you ever travel to Sydney or Melbourne? Do you want an ongoing thing or a one off?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yeah I could be wrong but I don't think that comment will go down well with a lot of chicks. I would consider changing it but again have a look at similar topics to see why.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    yep, that sounds icky. Follow Meekas advice. Work on your profile. I just searched for couples in your area .... 5 pages of them! Most looking for the unicorn as well. On the up side, there are 2 pages of women looking for couples. I wouldn't message them though until you have some pics up and some more info in your profile.Good luck!

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    Seeking a woman.....but offering her "little left over"s could be made to sound more enticing. DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    As in tightening his hoses? Or a grease and oil change? Check out the thread, The definitive guide for average guys on RHP, it's written from a guys perspective but could help answer some questions. Make sure you tell us all about the ensuing shenanigans. Good luck and welcome. Any

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Like everyone else has told you, your profile wouldn't even rate on a single lady's radar. Even another couple would probably just hit "next" on your profile. In fact, it looks fake with no photo and all those damn "ask me's". Read around the forums here, they have some great advice for profile writing. Remember, you are vying with thousands of others for only a relatively few women. She's definitely not going to want to "service" anyone, or get the "little bit left over". That doesn't sound very fun at all. If you want to be serviced, call a hooker. Think about what kind of experience you can offer her and present that instead.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've offered tis exact same advice on another thread tonight........   Firstly i suggest you check out the "Findiing Single Bi Woman" thread - there are a few of us unicorns who have offered feedback in that thread that may be useful.       I'm outside your required age range but i will offer a few comments that are probably still relevant in any age range. I think you need to do some work on your profile before you can expect much success. No photos visible is a straight up no from me. Your profile is far too brief for me to make any assessment to be interested in you.   The wording in your profile is a complete turn off......service my BF?....too many "ask me's"   Here's my post from that forum.       Here's some ideas why couples might find it difficult to find that elusive unicorn.     1. Most Unicorns - or single Bi Ladies - don't want to be someone else's "experience" 2. We are spoilt for choice - i probably get on average, between 10/12 messages from couples a week, often that many in a day or two. 3. Many unicorns don't want to play with attached couples - they just see it as being fraught with problems, jealousy issues etc. We are quiet capable of getting a couple of friends together and organising our own fun 4. Unicorns may not want to play with first timers, if the female partner isn't Bi, then this can just be uncomfortable if she discovers she actually isn't getting turned on by it.     Best of luck guys, hope you find what you are looking for.