Finding out wife watching porn

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  couplecourious

  4 years ago

  I,d suggest buying a strapon, some flowers, leaving a nice note saying you,d accidently seen her porn tastes, and that your happy to try anything when she's ready. Whatever you do dont make her feel any guilt or shame. Gotta be open to the communication wherever it may lead.

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  LifestyleExplore

  4 years ago

  You need to talk. Openly about your individual needs and desires. My wife and I watched Swing TV together and that was a really good way to get the conversation going and push that conversation into the corners it needed to go.

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  LittleGiant

  4 years ago

  No personal experience with this but you could always suggest doing some online shopping together for toys then click through to the strapon section and ask her if she's curious to try that at all? Only if that's something YOU would want to do as well, of course. Same deal with the bisexual element, only mention it if you're open to it. I wouldn't mention the porn at all because she may take that as you are snooping on her phone and checking up on her. Keep in mind that fantasy doesn't always translate to reality. I like watching gangbang porn sometimes but I know for a fact that I do not want to actually have one. She may enjoy the visual of men together but not actually want to make it a reality.

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  FireJuggler

  4 years ago

  Why don't you try one of those online sex quizzes for couples? You both take turns at answering the questions and then you see at the end the ones that you match on, might make the conversation a bit easier if you both know what you are looking for.

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  badboyhere

  4 years ago

  You sure you didn’t sleep walk and searched some porn on her phone by mistake and then assumed it was her?

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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 years ago

  May I suggest, you talk to her and tell her what you did. You did admit here on line, going through her phone after all. She may have an explanation. You can't just assume just because you saw her internet history. Ms Foxy She may have an explanation rather than assuming this is her wants and wishes.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 years ago

  Also, so what if she watches porn. The world is not going to explode. Maybe you need to step up your game to her. Ms Foxy

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  Mid_nite_blue71

  4 years ago

  Be a little careful with this. In my experience just because I have watched it doesn't mean I necessarily want to do it. When I'm having some "me" time I might watch something that I would never actually do out of curiosity and it gets me off. it can be really random things. I think honesty is always the best policy and communication is key to discussing a new experience.

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  nightingale8

  4 years ago

  Porn is entertainment, it’s not necessarily a reflection of desires. Weirdly I have enjoyed bi or gay porn the most when my drive has been the lowest, and bi/lesbian born when highest. I’ve also rolled my eyes at my partner in the past when I’ve seen his porn choices that (to me) look demeaning or degrading (he’s not like that at all). She might just be seeking visual novelty so whipping out the strap on might be jumping the gun a little. If anything, whip out the domestic skills, the home organisation skills, and a shit lot of attention and focus on her and you may be surprised what she’ll be ready for. Not even kidding

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  Sawadee

  4 years ago

  Here on rhp ' women openly admit to watching porn as no big deal .. However ' in the real world i find very few . In fact i have noticed many women go to great lengths to condem porn and anyone who watches it ? I found it interesting that you found PornHub on your wifes phone. Im not surprised as l always felt women are just as curious as men but do so in secret. Fronting her might make her embarrased ' so l would leave it til a time when you feel safe to broach the subject...

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  FeistyFatty

  4 years ago

  Or how's about you just leave her to her own devices... pun intended. Why do you have to be part of her "fantasy viewing" at all? Because in all honesty, if she wanted you to partake, she likely would have made steps in that direction. I don't know about your wife but I know ny own porn habits and genres are pretty far from what I'd actually enjoy in real life lol.

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  nightingale8

  4 years ago

  Fiesty, that’s puntastic you beat me to it 😂

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  jessica__rabbit

  4 years ago

  Seriously!? I hope she goes through your phone and finds out you're on a sex site looking to hook up behind her back Are you really concerned about her watching porn when you're cheating?? Get your priorities right.

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