Sawadee

Sawadee

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Fingered... what's the consensus ?

August 17 2017

Personally a big turn on for me when a woman's getting off asking you not to stop. Reason I ask is my ex didn't like it opting for clit stimulation only. ? This left me feeling I was missing out on something that was a normal part of love making.. So what's the consensus ladies ? A good thing or not ?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    What turns on one women does absolutely nothing for another. The key to being a good lover as a man is to be Chameleonic in your approach to love making and above all else to listen and communicate

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    7 years ago

    Pommiefucker said, all different. A woman l was with can take or leave oral. But get some finger action going and goes off.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    As a squirter, I find many people are searching for the squirt, once I do, they think I've cum and I'm ready and warmed up. That's often far from the truth for me. I do love slow and sensual movement of fingers but few people go slow and sensual, so I avoid it, in fact I often ask people to stop or I'm clear I'm not keen on it :) Mary xx

  • MsSexyDeviants

    MsSexyDeviants

    7 years ago

    Depends who the finger is attached too. I can cum from just a finger if I'm turned on enough. I usually finger myself when I'm alone.

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    7 years ago

    A combo slice of clitoral stimulation with a side of fingering. 😈 But for gawds sake...please don't ram your fingers in and out like a piston. As Mary said, slow and sensual works verrrrrry well 😘 Do the same with the clit please.......for me, the phrase 'flicking the bean' is just that - a phrase. Please don't be bringing those flicking fingers, or those ramming fingers anywhere near my bits.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    ..ramming your fingers in and out like a piston is inconsiderate ... No different to a guy getting a over aggressive hand job. Shifts your mind from pleasure to alert.. In saying that , I have experienced the few when really turned on ask for more. ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    😂😂 totally agree with what you said and literally cracked up at the way you worded it! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Fingers and oral, heaven and multi orgasms 😊

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    7 years ago

    Love your honesty.. Gave me a dickie twinge ... lol... 😜

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Oh my god, your comments are spot on for me too! Seriously, that little pleasure center that's my clit can go from 'heavenly bliss to I'm gong to fuckng kill you if you do that again' ... lol 😂 Mary xx

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    7 years ago

    I gave my ex wife the finger once She went right off 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Fingering, for me, is painful and pointless....... clit stimulation is my preference and I certainly don't appreciate a man finger banging away like he's trying to punch his way through me. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MsJonesy

    MsJonesy

    7 years ago

    See, there is the shining light right there... They asked for more. You didn't assume a piston approach was the appropriate way to start.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I'm more of a penetration than an external clit stimulation gal, so I love a good fingering (IF it's done in the right way as others have mentioned). I won't cum from oral unless there's lots of internal finger action as well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Oral alone is rarely awesome for me, definitely love some good finger action. Again, as the others have said, it needs to be the right finger action 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    So not just my wife.. i am cringey each time we play with a new couple hoping he isnt going to finger her.. plenty of things please her though.. follow your girls signals and if you cant, just ask.. nothing hotter than a hapy girl.. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I used to love it as a teenager, under the table at lunch, when sex was a three letter word. Now it is only if I want the attention in the car ;) in bed though, I could go without it, I'm usually too busy on my knees anyway ;)