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March 13 2016
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Ashisalwayshorny
9 years ago
Wow I can't believe that!!! After looking at your profile I would have trouble keeping my hands off u. What with that hot sexy body u have!!!. I would be like licking and touching every last bit of your hot sexy body until u were quivering and begging me to fuck u.. Until it is just to much that I can't take it any more then when I fell u about to have another organism I would shoot my hot cum deep into your wet tight pussy that way we can cum together!!! X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Any hole is a goal, not sure why guys like that dont just wank themselves and save us lovely ladies some precious time. Most ladies are supporting ourselves, raising families, enjoying our friends and life, when we put aside our precious time for some hot sex, make a effort. End of rant - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
CeeCee... Happened to me before (though warning is given! Lol)... But one of my favourite things to do is pleasure a woman with my mouth - so I'd be back down there making sure round two is not far off. ;-)
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RHP User
9 years ago
it happens all the time and once it does, many guys are too lazy to please the woman and/or aren't up to waiting a short while and progressing to Round 2.Don't settle for bad sex and lazy lovers - keep searching because there are other men out there who are lovely, who want worthwhile dates and who do wish to please their partners before they cum themselves.
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
If he's that selfish, kick his arse out of the bedroom and let him know he is a selfish prick. Maybe the message will get through if others tell him the same thing. Otherwise he just stays as a serial waste of space. Plenty of guys will finish you off. Swipe left and move on
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RHP User
9 years ago
*chuckles*..maybe your body is just TOO good to play with for inexperienced fellas...Cannot help your plight much.. because I am waaaay out of your age bracket...Hell girl.. wasn't long ago, I would have offered to fly over your side of the world to help out.. but.. some of us blokes DO know their way around a female body.. and DO love to spend time allowing the Woman to be satisfied... Good luck kiddo.. I do hope your next playmate has the right moves ..that bod of yours was MADE to be satisfied....Just saying..
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RHP User
9 years ago
*chuckles*..maybe your body is just TOO good to play with for inexperienced fellas...Cannot help your plight much.. because I am waaaay out of your age bracket...Hell girl.. wasn't long ago, I would have offered to fly over your side of the world to help out.. but.. some of us blokes DO know their way around a female body.. and DO love to spend time allowing the Woman to be satisfied... Good luck kiddo.. I do hope your next playmate has the right moves ..that bod of yours was MADE to be satisfied....Just saying..
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RHP User
9 years ago
There seems a parallel to your question that was posted by greengsxr, Under "sexual stamina" i believe if you care to check out the response posted by yours truly. For if it is not that they are of the ability to recognise the signals within their own bodies to "change tack" (reverting to a sailing term as you may know) before arriving way before you do, then they may simply be out of touch with themselves rather than of the motivation to simply, as crass as it may sound, get one off before you. Again, it's a matter of putting how one operates on hold to be considerate of another. Perhaps there are still many males that merely operate out of ignorance to the joys of delayed gratification in love-making. There are many ways that i choose to distract one's self from orgasm once that certain level is reached and looking to focus more on my partner and ensuring she is at the same level is key. Communication, awareness of self and devotion to ensuring our experience enhances our partner's is so much of the intimacy in sex. Hope that helps ceecee64....from the male perspective Ciao, Nathan
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RHP User
9 years ago
For giving me hope cavey50! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Cheers, n.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Hang in there. You are stunning, they probably get a little excited, heard the bull at a gate expression? lol I think you're frustration with this is perfectly normal and age makes no difference same same at my end of the scale. What you will find though is women aren't very often completely honest about their sexuality, particularly on a public forum, so trying to get honest responses to this age old dilemma, might be a struggle. The implication will be put out that it's your fault for not communicating your needs lol blah blah my experience, and I do communicate my needs ladies, that is when I have time lol, there aren't too many men who have any clue how to get women off, and just as many women who have never 'gotten off' but will never admit it. All you can do is continue on and hopefully stumble across some good ones, lovers that is. I've had about 6 who I'd put in that category, all in their 20's/30's so age and experience has nothing to do with the quality of the lover IMHO enjoy yourself though and throw them to the kerb if they're not doing it for you lol Treat em mean keep em keen 😯
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RHP User
9 years ago
If you were over here, I'd hook you up with the best in the business. Fair warning though, when the bar has been raised, they can be a hard act to follow 😯
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lovman8
9 years ago
would also be sympathetic to your plight and really be disappointed if they didn't make sure you had your share of pleasure too. Although Cavey might be onto something in that you're so hot you cause over excitement. Then again you are so hot a second cumming would be easy to organise. And some one as hot as you deserves orgasms at a rate of at least two to one.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Satisfaciton is not until you BOTH of you have had the highest of highs ! It is not for one it's for both. It is never over until it's over. For me that is never ! Making LOVE is the greatest high you can reach. Charley
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Missb4u
9 years ago
Has happened. In my personal experience it has been younger men. Hence I have an age range im pretty strict with these days. I understand it can happen unexpectedly or quickly the first time with a new partner it's their actions after it happens that speak volumes and determine whether I go there again.
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JohnAnn2227
9 years ago
This happened to me last night. We were at a friend's house who was hosting our group's months party and there was a new couple there who came with some other friends. The guy was gorgeous and I wanted him within 10 minutes of talking with him. We played in the spa for a while and then hopped into bed. We had a 69 and then as he was rolling on his condom he came!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We joked a bit about it and I suggested hopping back in the spa to recuperate and then try again. He told me that he was satisfied and was happy to just get dressed and chill out while he waited for his wife to finish!!! Talk about being left high and dry. At the time (in my semi drunken state) all I could think of was "selfish bastard" but talking it over with John today maybe he was just embarrassed. Didn't help me though!Ann
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RHP User
9 years ago
The old Victa 2 stroke.... Conks out and the pull cord starter to finish mowing the grass won't work lol Put it back in the shed and get an electric one 😉
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social_suicide
9 years ago
Never been less than 2hrs, and have reached the glorious heights of 5 hrs+. Pleasing a gorgeous woman is the only thing that I'm focused on, it thrills me more than you can imagine. I'd die of shame if I was a one minute man.
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Myusernamesucks
9 years ago
As someone who doesn't cum easily I think if the woman I'm with hasn't orgasmed at least 3 times I've pretty much wasted her time - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Nerves get to guys a lot or maybe they're not marathon standard. But he has a tongue and two hands - put them to work! CeeCee there are lots of considerate men out there who get pleasure from giving ladies pleasure - hang in there! And I've noticed you've posted on a few forums - welcome - we have lots of fun in here 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
Who in their right mind wouldnt want to spend maximum time ravishing that body of yours!!
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social_suicide
9 years ago
If cee cee has any sense she will steer clear of the RHP Mafia. By my count they are always involved with deleted comments and threads.
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RHP User
9 years ago
... but it is still not a valid excuse for not having the decency of going the extra mile to please his partner in some other way - an 'afterplay' of sorts. There is nothing more sensual to me than the facial expressions of a climaxing woman. Sometimes I can have a satisfying sex session by just making my partner cum multiple times without necessarily orgasming myself. - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
9 years ago
Will help us become better and wiser at selecting our play partners later on, CeeCee64 :) I, too, had met men like that in the past, so I learned and have become quite selective nowadays when choosing a play date. So it does take time to meet the good and considerate men when you have patience. Therefore, do not let those dry experiences affect your mood and keep fishing 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'JohnAnn2227' This happened to me last night. We were at a friend's house who was hosting our group's months party and there was a new couple there who came with some other friends. The guy was gorgeous and I wanted him within 10 minutes of talking with him. We played in the spa for a while and then hopped into bed. We had a 69 and then as he was rolling on his condom he came!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We joked a bit about it and I suggested hopping back in the spa to recuperate and then try again. He told me that he was satisfied and was happy to just get dressed and chill out while he waited for his wife to finish!!! Talk about being left high and dry. At the time (in my semi drunken state) all I could think of was "selfish bastard" but talking it over with John today maybe he was just embarrassed. Didn't help me though!Ann men cumming while putting on their condoms too and it's disappointing when their satisfaction is all they're concerned about and they leave their partner/s unsatisfied.These men are always the ones who sexually talk themselves up too (sexual deviate/sexual animal etc etc) so better to meet someone who doesn't just focus on sex and sex talk in their profiles and prior to meeting.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Checked out your profile expecting to see an age limit of about 30, it's actually 40, smart, go there.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Quoting 'lovman8' would also be sympathetic to your plight and really be disappointed if they didn't make sure you had your share of pleasure too. Although Cavey might be onto something in that you're so hot you cause over excitement. Then again you are so hot a second cumming would be easy to organise. And some one as hot as you deserves orgasms at a rate of at least two to one. I'll take 2 to 1 as a bare minimum funny, I had a second cumming, or at least my play partner did, a while back, and the second cumming was just as quick as the first doesn't always go to plan
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RHP User
9 years ago
beats me
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SexyDeviants
9 years ago
I learnt to spot those ones early on. I have dropped everything (literally! haha) got dressed and left when I realised that was exactly where it was heading. Fuck them, if they won't even consider your pleasure (or frustration) why would you ever let tem anywhere near your goodies! I love to please, it is the biggest turn on for me... But I'm well aware men cum easier than women and I have a rule with new male FWB that I get pleased first. And I think most men on here would agree that is exactly what they would want too! Same times I like just making the other person cum and getting nothing in return, but I'm sure you communicated that this wasn't one of those times!! Men like this are pigs and are only looking to get themselves off, waste of space and definitely not in any league to be playing with you! Ms D xoxo
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RHP User
9 years ago
Probably just a lack of 'connection' between you or he had an itch and you were there to scratch it and that was all. For many, sex is just a tension release. For others its lack of experience, insensitivity. Try a more mature lover and someone you really connect with. Might be a better experience: 'might' being the operative word. Nothing is guaranteed. Expect nothing and you're less likely to be disappointed.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Personally not for a long time .. and that was in a very lonely , loveless relationship with someone who abused me for 14 years . That's all i can really go by because .. haven't been with alot of guys . Needless to say .. he was a really selfish person .. sexually also :( so i vowed never to put up with that again and the very few iv'e been with since - have pretty much been ok and at least have tryed and .. if they haven't in certain areas .. iv'e been at least vocal about it , with good results . it's only fair since i always give 110 percent as i've always been more of a giver . Are you at least saying something to your sex partner at the time .. dropping hints lol ? Sometimes i find guys just don't give much thought to it and/or don't realize they aren't doing what they should ?
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RHP User
9 years ago
... rule, that is ;) - but I'm generally uncomfortable if my partner hasn't come at least once before I go anywhere near letting myself orgasm. As a guy, it *is* embarrassing if you let yourself get too excited too quickly. Fortunately, the few times I've had that happen to me the girls I've been with were quite cool with me swapping things up and using my mouth, hands, thigh .. and I think the most interesting one was forearm ... to get them to a happy climax (or three). ... and after all, by then round two is usually on the cards :)
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RHP User
9 years ago
those that its not a situational occurrence, would/should already be aware and change their foreplay to bring her up and down by other means, therefore prolonging the outcome..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Not many men I've been with cared if i came or not once they came. They came quickly and it was over, I was left high and not so dry ;) Selfish assholes!
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RHP User
9 years ago
...been there, done that. That was a while ago, and I was sexually a bit selfish back then. A bit naive too and I hadn't exactly been having sex all the time, so I didn't have the experience to realise that it wasn't all about me. I. Just. Didn't. Think. With the big head, that is. And boy, did I cop a blasting from the other half at the time. I didn't make that mistake again and I started practicing a bit of self-control and made sure I satisfied at least some of her needs if I finished up earlier. Like anything, it needs practice. Own up boys...we weren't born Love Gods .
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RHP User
9 years ago
Too_real_74 That's sad how your past was I sent you a pm would love to chat - Posted from rhpmobile
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curvykitty
9 years ago
But I did have one guy who went down on me for a whole 30 seconds before suggesting some doggy style ... which lasted maybe a minute before he came. We sat around for a bit and then when I suggested round two, he pulled the "It's getting late, I'd better go" line. Needless to say, I never returned his messages after that! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
Are you meeting men who just want a ONS? For me that speaks volumes,they are obviously only into their own pleasure,cockcentric. And yes it happens to most women,I suppose men have similar issues with women who just want to be pleasured and give nothing back. We aren't sexually compatible with everyone,unfortunately sometimes that is not always evident .xxFreya
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AnnieWhichway
9 years ago
Quoting 'social_suicide' If cee cee has any sense she will steer clear of the RHP Mafia. By my count they are always involved with deleted comments and threads. Bahahahahahahah. Always the one to go off topic, point the finger at others and tries to wipe all the black stuff off oneself
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RHP User
9 years ago
In this day and age with the interwebs and everything there are still male lovers like this around? - Posted from rhpmobile
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MrMechanic
9 years ago
Clear the breachTake the first load in your mouth (or somewhere) if its all jacked up and ready to blow when he gets it out.Then there is no chance of him shooting too quick during penetration.And while he is reloading you can sit on his face, that forces him to give you longer oral foreplay as it takes some time before he is reloaded and by then he is ready to fuck and you are ready for it too . Just take some control of the situation, no sense in wasting good dick/pussy and end the night feeling let down..
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RHP User
9 years ago
...what has the state of the internet in this day and age got to do with inconsiderate male...or female...lovers? Just wondering...
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RHP User
9 years ago
Now come on ladies be fair! Us poor blokes continually get accused of thinking with our dicks. If we are capable of thinking with our dicks then they must have a mind of their own and it is totally out of our control. Some will be fast, some slow and if we train them right at some point in the future they may even be able to drive us home after the event! Personally, I love the taste of pussy so I have no problem calling a time out if my dick is ready before I am. If you are having trouble picturing this then it may help to imagine my tongue dressed in a little cheer leading outfit coming out to entertain the crowd (that would be the "doing it's little dance between your legs" bit) while the overworked and stressed out coach composes the team. Seriously though, it's all about mutual fun. We should end up in a sweaty, exhausted but extremely satisfied entanglement of body parts before anyone goes home.
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PurePeony
9 years ago
I suppose I should thank my lucky stars for never experiencing this issue before. *knocks on wood!
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RHP User
9 years ago
Information ie what woman want! I was lucky and when I was younger an older lady showed me the finer points of pleasing! Before the interwebs it was books word of mouth etc - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...are you suggesting that with this online encyclopedia available to us, there's no excuse for men being selfish lovers? Nah...I can't believe in that. What man wants to study hard online on his lovemaking skills before going in to sit the exam?Where's the humanity in that?It's meant to be a pleasure...given spontaneously without pressure I thought.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Please don't take my words out of context. I didn't mention porn at all! Simply my point is men have no excuse to be bad lovers anymore! With the information available! Health classes at at school didn't exactly tell us how to get a woman off properly nor did the old father son talk! @@koolguy I didn't mention studying, a little information goes a long way! As when I was younger thinking I'm doing the right thing when obviously I wasn't until taught! Wow forums huh! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...that's like saying there's no excuse for men being bad cooks either, because all the information on how to cook a great meal is available online. I'm pretty sure practice and experience plays a big part in it. Which is why I'm an excellent cook... 😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
This sounds like a pretty horrible experience. I know I have finished way to early once or twice but like most comments have mentioned. All guys have a tongue & hands, that at least keeps the fun going until round 2 is ready to go ;P lol. I am sure you will find a lot of guys happy to help on here. Nice profile by the way :) Whoaa x
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buckfuddy68
9 years ago
Hmmmmm I'm by no means an expert or a stud but that does sound a bit selfish of him,He should have tried to keep the sexual tension going with a sweet apology and a witty comment on how hot you are and the effect you have on him while caressing and kissing you all over as his fingers pleasured you,Then kissing his way down to use his tongue, lips and fingers or a toy(if one handy) till he was ready to play again
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Wildgal4u
9 years ago
I have recently been with a guy (much younger) and experiences the same thing. Over before it began, he made very little effort once it was over for him. I wont be back for round two.....my time is limited and very precious so i want to savour every moment. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
...when she finishes Round One of the main event before I'm there then rolls over, fires up a cigar and calls room service. I'm always glad it's usually the ones who were willing to put the room on their card and actually believed that I would pay them back in cash once I got to an ATM. Plan your work...work your plan.
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RHP User
9 years ago
I used to have this problem as do 50% of the male population and part of the problem is that once a man does ejaculate we have a longer refractory period which can entail tiredness,lethargy and feeling sleepy hence the lack of motivation to play on for alot of men and some women. It seems selfish and is but its more to do with biology than intent, I'm sure there intent was to ravish you all night long, but there body is being shut down with prolactin. The same happens to women but prolactin release is slower unless she has a very big one. I know ive had the knock backs. As I touch myself has mentioned, alot of men and women don't know there potential. For me Ive found training plus eating foods that promote serotonin, have got me to that point where sex can now go for 4-6 hours. Now the reverse happens, can you hurry up and cum already!!! Libido differences has been discussed in the forum before and this is also part of the issue. You obviously have a high one whereas his maybe alot smaller. Libido is a tricky thing to determine on a person. We should all have a rating guide. If only😊😊😊
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RHP User
9 years ago
Of 500 participants in a recent sex study, penis vagina sex lasted from 33 seconds to 44minutes, with an average time of 5.4 minutes of intercourse, and although not said that's until the male cums and stops. Older men were found to cum quicker. Also they found that condom use didn't seem to effect the time Please don't shoot the messenger, and this doesn't reflect, oral, digital, or toy usages as part of a well rounded sex life. Expanding ones knowledge of the sexual arts can only improve these numbers. Being open to learn and be challenged is the key. Anyone experience expanded sexual response where you have so many orgasms that you get high, or as one puts it an altered state of consciousness. Supposedly only 4% of women have achieved this, my thoughts are that all women can achieve it. Just a little learning 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
The literature surrounding female orgasm suggests women take on average 20 mins. So the issues can be seen quite clearly that 5 goes into 20 , 4 times, so men we either better cum multiples, or extend our times😊😊😊 On the other hand if women can learn to cum in 30secs and multiples there after, would that be the better result. This is possible. Or better still extended sessions for men with delayed ejaculation, while allowing her to have multples. Then that fantastic opportunity occurs with you both Cumming at the same time. The experience is worth the training 😉
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RHP User
9 years ago
have come a bit late to this but hope someone has fucked you until completion you poor girl, i dont know what is wrong with us guys, nerves? hahahahahaha i see the problem, they must be boys and havent learnt to fuck yet. Anywho have fun
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RHP User
9 years ago
I normally make sure she cums first, wether it be with my hands or mouth, nothing more unsatisfying than an unsatisfied woman
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'd "punish" him next time by not getting him off at all and make him spend the night pleasuring me to make up for it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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