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First 3some, to hire a pro?

January 18 2020

Hi all, My wife and I have talked about having a 3 some for a while and although we thought we where ready, life got in the way. We are now starting to have those discussions again and i was wondering, when you have kids and limited time, is it better just to hire a professional to join us and make sure our first time is relaxing and fun (and expensive) or should we at out and go to different clubs and bars to find someone? Has anyone else down the hire a girl for there first FFM? CheersJA

Comments

  • teamaj2

    teamaj2

    5 years ago

    I understand your being time poor and not wanting to waste precious alone time . It’s all very personal . For us there has to be some connection and interaction prior play . My husband and I need to feel comfortable and connected prior play . For us the escort situation wouldn’t work . RHP takes patience and time . We feel the wait is worth it to find the right people . You seek a woman which we find is easier than finding the right single man . It is just my opinion , I’d try a party /event or have faith in RHP and be patient . Good luck in whatever you decide .

  • sheandhe

    sheandhe

    5 years ago

    We did exactly this and it was a very positive experience. Each to their own of course yet similarly we were time poor and we're keen to add some certainty to our experience.

  • 86Jasindy

    86Jasindy

    5 years ago

    I have a friend who used to be a working girl and many of her clients were couples just like your wife and yourself. She really looked forward to clients like yourself as they were usually a lot of fun! In terms of going out to find someone, as ex partner and I often did just that, we were in our 20's and I believe it was much easier then than it is now. Now, we are in the same positron as yourself, kids, limited time etc. On rhp with a couples profile, nice photos, a good description of what you are after you will get noticed by other couples, however many will want a full swap. Others will be happy for the girls to play, and occasionally you may find someone interested in watching you be with his wife and him not touch yours (I believe the term is cuckholding? Not sure if that is correct as I'm new to this). We have been to a singer's party, and again found a couple that was happy for us girls to play. Good luck with your quest, perhaps change your profile to a couples one (provided your wife is on board), add some photos of your wife and yourself, verify your profile and you might find your luck changes. Otherwise, yes, perhaps paying may be an option?

  • sweetnsensual

    sweetnsensual

    5 years ago

    You could or maybe start out trying to attend a social meet and greet first as a couple. There are some gorgeous women on RHP looking for a couple to have an enjoyable experience with. If you are going to use RHP to meet people you may want to change your profile to a couples and put some work into it. Some nice tasteful pictures of you both and go from there. Not sure of the professionals in the Area you are in but Brisbane would have Lots of expensive options!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Seems like a good idea to me, it’ll allow you to concentrate on what you want to explore and leave all the hassle of meeting the right person and hoping they’ll turn up out of it. Win win. Ms Phoenix.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    Thanks for all the replies. I would love to go to a meet and greet when we have the opportunity. And we will be creating a couple's profile at some stage in the near future.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    5 years ago

    its how we got started with experimenting .... it had its pro and cons but we have no regrets in going in that direction

  • 69tattoorob

    69tattoorob

    5 years ago

    Think the first time sharing should be met with questions exactly what we are looking to experience weather it be a MMF ENCOUNTER OR A FFM weather the other partner is also allowed to play/or just watch. Finding the person you's are both comfortable with Male or Female can be found on different web sites and free the only cost is usually booking a room for the activities. Then its getting over the nerves been naked in front of others/ total strangers most important is communication dont get controlled by the guest leaving your partner wandering what has gone wrong if HE / SHE should stop yous even as they watch you enjoy the stranger allowing them to do things beyond imagination and it does happen so please keep talking to each other so there is no mistakes or jealousy between yous and every thing will work out best of luck on the journey and hope to read how it all goes and happy for you's to contact me and my wife can swap our stories how we started

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    5 years ago

    Takes away the hassle of trying to meet with another couple or single first up ? Plus there's no great expectations and you can learn as you go... Great way to dip your toe in and find out if you want more or not ? Go for it....