First Encounter

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  Fun_playfull_cpl

  11 years ago

  When we meet for our first couple we made sure it was somewhere public for meet and greet that way if someone don't like or doesn't feel it they can go we might give it a miss and don't have to worry about people showing up on your door at random.( you never know) We also made sure everyone was comfortable and knew the rules eg like no means no and everyone stops no just the two involved!. Unless used like "no don't stop" Being our first time we wanted to take things slow and go from there.

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  madotara69

  11 years ago

  Not much In bed On the bed Go with the flow Expect the best and hope for the worst Mado Tara xx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  You dont want to fiddle with clpis or buttons and kill the passion ..lol ... so wear something thats nice yet simple. Go with a open mind and no great expectation . I found some of my pre meditated rules were broken because something happened to change it. Just make sure if you dont like something to let them know. We all do things in the moment we didnt count on , but thats called thinking of others . If it works at the time , go for it. If not, its up to you.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Watch the movie "something about Mary". Lol ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Have options. If you have a Plan B, a night that does not progress to what you hoped for can turn into something more than a disappointing loss of your time. If you focus on the social side of the meet, chances are you will have less nerves/expectations which can facilitate a good time, which in turn will make things a lot more free flowing if you decide to play. If not, you've had a good night wining/dining/whatever you choose. I imagine everybody's got their own style & I guess my suggestion is to take the pressure off the meet.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  A nice pub to meet up with our first couple. It was a sweet night which consisted of playing pool, dancing, chatting one on one, flirting with each other.. You just get the "vibe" if you're connected and want more from each other. We moved on to a room we had booked and enjoyed a nice group foreplay session to break the ice, and then onto the full swap play.. Your first MnG can be a little daunting, relax, be yourselves and enjoy the night out even if you don't end up playing.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Be yourselves, dress like you normally do. As there's no need to be someone other than who you are, it's sexier.. Have fun!

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  JohnAnn2227

  11 years ago

  Hi, Wear something you are comfortable in and that you know makes you look sensational! Dress or skirt is a must! Knickers are not! Meet somewhere fun like Hardrock for dinner and drinks and then move on to another bar. Have a hotel room booked nearby that you can then go back to (either with your new friends hopefully or with your hubby if it hasn't clicked for you all. Good luck!Ann

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