M43

First Impressions

June 11 2013

If you had asked me when I was a teenager, do you ever think you would kiss another man passionately, I would definitely have said no. If you had asked me, do you think you would ever have sex with a man and a woman at the same time, I would have said the same thing. Hence, First impressions...In the last two weekends, I have broken all of my personal expectations; I have learnt more about myself physically and emotionally in 4 days than I have in 18 months. A week ago, I attended my first orgy. It wasn’t at all like the teenage dreams I had...this was a bi-orgy. My sexually preferences have begun to change since I was married. I have become more open to experimenting, and learning about sex, and to have the opportunity to attend an orgy, let alone a bi-orgy, was something I had to jump at. I will admit, at first I was nervous, but it was an excited nervous, like jumping out of a plane, or getting away with something that could otherwise had gotten you into a lot of trouble. I had two wonderful ladies who reassured me during our drive to the event. They suggested that maybe I could sit back once things began, and get a feel for the night, and said that I could control what happened, and to not feel pressured. Somehow, I managed to completely forget everything they said, as soon as my clothes came off. I was immediately over come with the urge to meet and play with someone, anyone, and everyone. I don’t remember how, but within a matter of minutes, I found myself as the centre of attention to four wonderful people. I was being caressed by a man and a woman (one of female friends) standing behind me, while another man and my other female friend were on their knees in front of me, with the man sucking my cock. I remember turning my head to the left, to look the man behind me in the eyes, and before I knew it, I was kissing him passionately. I could feel his cock pressing against the inside of my thigh. I remember grasping it in my hand, and guiding it towards my ass. Until the orgy I had only ever engaged in anal play with female partners, I have a strong desire to be dominated by a woman, and in particular, to be flogged and fucked by a strap-on. To offer myself to another man, in such a public display was one of the most taboo (?) things that I could think of, and it excited me. I remember him putting on a condom, and the excitement in the eyes of the two women watching, as he began to fuck me. The feeling of being fucked and blown by two men at the same time was amazing, overwhelming and all encompassing. The looks of astonishment from my two female friends made it all the more exciting. I do not remember cumming, but i do remember an overwhelming sense of satisfaction as the guy fucking me withdrew, and kissed me again. The evil smile on his lips, and the gleam in his eyes. My knees were weak, and I remember needing to sit down and catch my breath. All this in the first 10 minutes. For the rest of the night, I continued to be amazed at the people I was spending my time with; I enjoyed the opportunity to flog a gorgeous friend, as well as being paddled and flogged myself. On another occasion during the night, I walked into a room with one of my female friends. We could not see what was happening on the bed, as there was a large crowd of men. My friend climbed up onto the set of drawers, and told me to stand on the chair in the corner of the room, so that I could get a better view. As soon as I climbed up onto the chair, a handsome young man took my cock in his mouth, and proceeded to give me an amazing blow job. A second slightly older gentleman began to lick and suck my balls, and share my cock. All I could do was lean into the corner of the room, and reach out to hold my female friends hand for support, as my knees began to buckle from the experience. As I was about to cum, a third man grabbed my cock from someone’s mouth and sprayed my cum across all three men. The act of covering three men in my cum was something that I never thought I’d do, or get so excited by, but that image still has me grinning. It was amazing. Last weekend, I got to dress up. I wore black leggings, a black vest and black feather wings. My date for the night wore the sexiest black and red boots and matching corset. Her wings were red and matched my own. We went to Angels and Demons night at the couples club with two other couples. This was another first for me. I have always heard and have been interested in the dynamic of the swingers scene. I think that the devotion and commitment in an open relationship is amazing. I love the fact that two people can exist in a loving, committed relationship, without jealousy. I also love the idea of having friends that you can play with and experience the joys of sex in a fun and safe environment. On Friday night, being surrounded by so many naked, horny people, it became very apparent to me, that I like the exhibition of group sex. I get a lot of satisfaction from watching people have sex, of being surrounded by naked people, indulging in frantic, un-inhibited sex. And I love having people watch me. I meet some gorgeous couples during the night, who invited me to play with them together, as well as separately. I watched three women share each other (another first) and indulged myself in going down on some beautiful women, including my date, who tasted exquisite. I admit that I am hooked. That the experiences of the last two weekends have completely changed the way that I perceive sex, as well as fuelling more fantasies (I still haven’t had the oppoutunity to fulfill the DP fantasy, been personally spit roasted (Originally I wanted to be spit roasted by two strap on wielding women, but am now open to suggestions), or had anal sex ( at least were I was the giver and not the receiver, as no partner has ever liked the idea) . Don’t get me wrong. I still have the same desire for passionate, intimate one on one sex with the woman I love, should I ever have that opportunity again, but I have also found a keen want to be involved in group sex again, and hopefully, on a regular basis, even if only as a voyeur, as the excitement of all the opportunities, of watching and being involved in other peoples sexual satisfaction is amazing. I only hope that I get to introduce people, in a similar why that my two friends introduced me. I’d love to hear of other people’s first impressions/ experiences in similar situations

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RHP User

12 years ago

You are a naughty boy. By the way, once you have crossed to the dark side and liked it. There is no going back, we should have warned you. 😘

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RHP User

12 years ago

Don't think I have a story to rival that one. Will have to think about it and get back to you. :p

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RHP User

12 years ago

Now that is Nirvana. I still get goosebumps thinking of the times Ive spent with a pansexual couple. The most erotic intencee and passionate feelings Ive evr had. Glad to hear your experience was mazing for you. xx

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RHP User

12 years ago

I want what he's having !Anythingrightnow, sounds like you got anything and everything ! Thanks for the story and beautifully told I might add.I have had similar revelations about my sexuality with a mmf experience but it pales compared to yours ! Thanks for the honesty and personal depth you have added I can't help but feel a twinge of envy and a twinge of horniness having read it.Thankyou.

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Bubbaj

12 years ago

bragger! loldamn you and your confidence and your sexy self :Pexperiences are always scary at first and tend to go down the more times i go especially when there are familiar faces. first impressions of people in general, always go with the gut as it seems to do no wrong :)

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RHP User

12 years ago

But they say you never forget your first strap-on experience.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Wow wow wow I wanna go there. I am slowly exploring different levels of my sexuality too but not on such a grand scale. Good on you op!! Gypsy- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

might go have a cold shower now....thanks op

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subgal_gc

12 years ago

That you have been enjoying yourself so much of late and are happy and willing to share. And so well written too, can almost picture it...

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RHP User

12 years ago

Woooooooow!

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RHP User

12 years ago

How your perception of sex has changed based on your recent experiences? I also love the idea of being in a poly relationship or open relationship. Well ARN you will have to fall in love with a woman who is into group sex then won't you. :D And may I add you will never just be a voyeur by the way... You are too gorgeous to leave on the side lines. Look what happened when you tried to stand in the corner on a chair. PMSL.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Glad to hear of another stepping outside the hetro norm. We still have a way to go for general public acceptance of bi men. Enjoy and indulge and hope to hear from you again in five years. Hope you don't get caught in the same old same old. I am still surprised at the diversity of experiences open minded sexuality can provide, will you find a limit?Welcome to the adventure and enjoy the journey.

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RHP User

12 years ago

mwaa.

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RHP User

12 years ago

You looked too cute to be so naughty ...

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RHP User

12 years ago

My very first sex party was two years ago. Stalky picked me up on his motorbike... First date and all. ⊂(◉‿◉)つ They did a little intro at the beginning where everyone stated their name& their sexual likes and dislikes. There was a woman there who must have been in her 70s & she introduced herself as Kinky Granny. Now as a newbie I found it jaw dropping that Kinky Granny, and I quote, " if any men would like me to suck their cock, you will have to approach me first because I am old fashioned" I stuck to Stalky pretty much the whole night... LOL.

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RHP User

12 years ago

First time I went to Angels and Demons I found it overwhelming. I sat in the large orgy room and watched maybe 50 people having sex without even one pussy twinge. I have been back many times since then but I generally only have sex with people that I have gone to the club with. Although I think I need to talk to people more.... I can't just bonk people without a bit of a chat to see if there is any sexual chemistry. Okay... that is my mission for the next A&D talk to people!The first bi-orgy I went to with two other forum ladies and a male friend. It was held in a small house and it was literally wall to wall cocks. The theme is always naked so everyone was naked that night. I was surrounded by men all touching me as soon as we took our clothes off. Not for me. Told them all to back off and I pretty much observed the rest of the night with the occasional skiing mishap. It was fun... but to be honest if I knew it was going to be like that I would never have gone. I have been back three times since then and have enjoyed it more each time. Again most likely because my lover goes with me (he wasn't there the first time I went) and the parties themselves have been less crowded and the men more respectful and I know the regulars a little which makes me feel more comfortable. The last one was an absolute blast. Had loads of fun....... thanks ARN. hehe The first time I went to Aarows I loved it. I went with my lover and we would chat to gorgeous men at the bar and then take them upstairs to private rooms. So yep, Aarows is pretty sleazy but because of the privacy (sort of) that you can have and the fact that you can control who is in a room with you meant that I loved it. The suckatorium is interesting. LOL. Unfortunately he forgot to tell me to wear thongs the first time I went. The whole place is painted black and it is fairly dark in their too.... .CSI would have a field day in there I reckon. I am sure the whole place would light up with all the semen stains. Funniest thing I ever saw? Well Stalky and I took EBliss to Aarows when she was in Sydney and her and I where running around with our strapons. Boy did we attract a crowd... but I laughed when she put her strapon dick though a glory hole and had a guy sucking it for all he was worth.

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RHP User

12 years ago

my first and only experience at a club was fairly recent and extremely depressing and distressing.......one of the least erotic sexual experiences of my life.

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On_Safari

11 years ago

still blushing furiously here....hmmmm I need to broaden my horizons......Any I'm so glad you had the time of your life and yes very well relayed back to the rest of us. I'm all goosebumpy...... Thanks Meeks for sending me the thread, ummmmm I don't know what else to say. From the very few people/couples I have encountered here who seem to be "IN" the scene I haven't reallty wanted to go there with them, from thier galleries to thier overall "superior than thou" view. All I have to say right now.....be gentle with me.

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RHP User

11 years ago

No need to worry with us my dear ... we're really just big softies who just wanna make people happy! (Except for Any, he's a big hardy!!!!)I haven't been naughty for a while ... having withdrawls .... I went to a Chef's Toolbox party yesterday (a bit like tupperware) - drove me nuts. I definitely felt an affinity with the pressure cooker being demonstrated .... BRING ON OCTOBER NBO! Any, I've just reread your OP and I got a hard on. x

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RHP User

11 years ago

I also go to the NBO's with Meeka. Don't worry Ma Cherie I will look after you. ;-)

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On_Safari

11 years ago

Sorry but I think Bruno got dibs on the newbie!! And Paintme, so long as you're holding my hand.

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On_Safari

11 years ago

Sorry but I think Bruno got dibs on the newbie!! And Paintme, so long as you're holding my hand.

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