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First Time threesome

November 06 2008

We are a married couple who are keen for our first time threesome with a M or F and we are thinking meet for drinks and perhaps back to a hotel room etc.. what does anyone else think, any other suggestions on how it is best done?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hiya lands... Hmm few ways to go about it :) You could post a n event saying that you are looking for a single guy or girl to have a 3 some with but meet n greet drinks first then back to hotel room to play depending on how things pan out.... you could go to one of the swingers clubs around perth and meet someone there, save the cost of the hotel room ;) or you can search thru profiles trying to find single men or woman looking for a couple.... You might have more luck if yas put a pic up, unless for whatever reasons yous cant :) Hope the above helps... might see yas at burswood on friday night heheheh Tiges :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sound good to me, just dropp a line and i am in if you like. By Nerkia

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    16 years ago

    we go profile....msn chat....phone call...meet at home..by then we have a pretty good idea of compatibility and we all know what we there for... P&n

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    why dont the four of us meet and up a dinner or a drink and see where it goes?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We go pretty much the same as 'thoughts', however we never meet at home as we have been caught out doing that. We find it much more comfortable to meet on neutral ground. Good luck in your search

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey guys, i rekon that way could work, meeting over drinks would help relax everyone!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If you guys are keen to meet up let me no i am interested!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We always meet at a adult club of some type. That way we know it is safe, if we think that person/s ( we only ever meet gals or couples ) is not for us we can move on having not wasted a night. Yes we have met people who were lovely but not for us sexually. On the same night meeting a kickin single lady!yummmmm! In Sydney we like the lotus lounge ,because only couples and single girls can get in Stops all those sad little men pretending to be couples or single girls wasting our time. Have fun doing your thing!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Looking2try3,love that last bit you added in,So funny n real.lol. But with some of the other posts,how does 1 take others to their house? Do some have no boundaries what so ever??????????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Some guys find our way tiresome but it works for us and weeds out the time wasters and those that don't suit. Email first, chat on msn then talk on the phone. We then meet for a coffee/drink with no intention of play on the day and go home and discuss between ourselves. If all is well a play meet is arranged and never at our home. Doing it this way avoids any nasty face to face confrontations when the answer is a no.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    The best n safest ,way to go about it is meet a couple or a single lady at the famous..LOTUS LOUNGE

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    why lotus/ and lotus that is on toorak road?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Guys, following our first threesomes, our wives wanted to go to the next level. Take things slow and choose the right M or F......have some nice moments, life is too short...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    try it with an escort 1st time....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Our first 3some was with an escort of my choosing. I have to say it was an excellent introduction to the whole experience and then slowly kick started us onto bigger and better things. Like others here, we would do the chat, then phone thing and then invite said person to our home - strictly with the understanding it was a meet, and if there was no chemistry it would still be a nice get together over wine and some nibblies. Because we always did our homework thoroughly, a play session eventuated every time. There are plenty of ways of doing this - discuss things with your partner and do what feels right. Enjoy!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    thank you to everyone who replied..your information has helped very much! so thank you again.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    well guys i hear what you are saying i think like most comments email/msn chat is a good way to go then follow with phone conversation im in the same boat as you looking for my first time i am a single male and it is hard to find the right ppl that are willing to do the right thing meeting at home i think is a bad idea a hotel/motel is prob the best way the thing is to take your time and find the right ppl

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hey Lands thx for that we are thinking bout the same thing and were not sure where too start looking>> So thx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hey guys in our opinion couples clubs can be a great way to start no pressure to play which is great if you dont feel the connection etc your after and its a smorgosboard of people to choose from rather than just one to choose from. good luck guys and enjoy yourselves m&s

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hey there, our 1st time we met another couple off a dating site and went to their place. we'd chatted online for a little while, and I think you can get a pretty good idea about people from what they type like. We'd advised them nothing was guaranteed and we may do nothing at all other than have a drink and a chat. We went to their place and all went well. Our 1st mmf 3some, well ,a mate came around home and we ate and drank too much and it all just happened. (all very good too) I say, you don't need a plan of attack so much, more an open mind and a readiness to back out of you're not comfy. good luck everyone who's considering it.