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First bi experience... Thoughts, tips, advice & stories :)

August 17 2015

I'm fortunate enough to have a fun couple as regular playmates. We've played sporadically for years & had a great time. The scenario has always been mfm, with all the attention on the lovely female half of the couple. In the last week, they've asked whether I'd be interested in being a little more hands on with the hubby. At first, my thoughts were to keep things as they are as I've always considered myself straight. I was also a little surprised as I thought he was straight too. The more I think about it though, the more I'm inclined to jump in the deep end and grab the bull by the proverbial horns... after all, you never really know until you give it a try :) Worst case, I simply don't do it again. I'd like to know how others found their first bi experience. Was it awkward, giggly, ridiculously fun, did you run to the hills at the sight of the other guy's penis? Whether it's funny or serious, i'd love to hear what other people's thoughts are & what their experiences have been like...

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RHP User

9 years ago

If youve played with this couple for years, thats a great way to try something new with people who obviously know and respect you. And Im sure they will not push you past any of your limits/boundaries.It could be something new for the husband as well. If you dont like whats happening, you can tell them at any time. So dont over think it beforehand. Just go with the flow and enjoy it with 2 people who you obviously feel comfortable with already. Personally I have played with women but I dont consider myself bi at all. Mainly because I have no desire to be with a female 1 on 1. But if I am in a situation where I am with a couple or small group, I am very hands and mouth on. Haha. I would call myself pansexual because I have enjoyed different sexual experiences in a variety of situations. So if you are curious and not doing it because someone else wants you to do it, get in amongst it and have some fun. 😝

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Lovinit28andKC72

9 years ago

I think what better way to explore this experience, but with 2 people you are comfortable with, know intimately and like...... Discuss it with them, ask your questions, be open and honest with them... Sex is about pleasure, your and theirs and as you said, if you don't like it, you don't have to do it again..... Enjoy the journey and have fun with it.....💋 I also dont identify as bi, but I do say I'm heteroflexible.....

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RHP User

9 years ago

And start playing space invaders 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile

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teeznpleezn

9 years ago

Perfect lead in for you mate as it all comes down to the people you're playing with and you already have that going nicely by the sound of it & given they have gone out on a limb so to speak to include you in their experimenting then they obviously have a lot of trust in you - I think you're in for the time of your life my friend! Enjoy it! teezn

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madotara69

9 years ago

He is a cool bloke, great for how we like to enjoy having threesomes and at one point I told Tara I liked what she was doing, she gave me the sexiest look and showed me both of her hands. We had a giggle and I gave our playmate a pat on his nuts and told him it felt nice what he was doing. It meant a lot to him and he told us he had come to understand he was bi sexual wishing to pursue his nature and thanked us for his chance with feeling comfortable with us. I say I am straight because I don't have feelings of being sexually attracted to men, I have in the past but I was a boy he was a man and it was for all the wrong reasons, but as an adult with other adults I have no issues if they are bi sexual and to be honest, I think it means more to the bi sexual person being accepted, rather than engaged in a physical act and can still enjoy the feelings of self while in the moments, if he enjoys being with me as well as Tara, then we hope he carries some good memories for it all. We know he does. We both miss him and often reflect of the time we shared for the experience, he left the site and mentioned he had a hard time from others when expressing his nature. That sucks. He also was happy for us to include him with things such as this, because he knew we participated in the forums. So there is no talking out of school, just meanings. Mado Mado Tara xx

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ynot246181

9 years ago

Just go for it hope I get the same chance as you have one day in joy the moment ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile

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Mr_MrsAraps

9 years ago

well that sucks, him leaving and getting a hard time from others expressing who he is sexually :-( - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

9 years ago

hun ,,,good sex is good sex ,,regardless if its a guy or a girl ,,,,it doesnt make you gay or even bi to have same gender sex ,,,,its more about if youd have a loving and serious relationship with the same sex that makes you gay or bi ,,,,,,id suggest you have a few drinks or even a few cones if your into that ,,,,n start slowly ,,mutual masterbation ,,touching ,,nipple play etc ,,,,,relax go with the flow and enjoy ,,,,your a very lucky guy to be asked to take part in a 3 way bi situation ,,its some thing i miss dearly n would love to meet a regular bisexual cpl to be the third wheel in there relationship ,,,,all the best and enjoy hun ,,,,,,.,.,you never know if you havent given it a go ,,,,,xxxxxxxxxcatherine

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Dimeshreds

9 years ago

I found it very nerve racking at first, it was like can I do this should I do that, I think it is best to have a proper discussion first to clear what your boundary's are first. Sucking a dick is hard to do and to be good at, start with a little rub and tug maybe. I thought kissing a guy was a certain no no for me but it was ok in the end and anal hurts big cocks are horrible!. It all depends on the guy for me, I found I am more picky with the guy than the girl in some instances. I love pleasing a woman in a threesome with couples but it is a heck of a lot more fun if all three of you can play with each other, I actually prefer it now. I certainly still consider myself straight though.

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RHP User

9 years ago

I totally agree HunniB. How is your search in the valley?

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RHP User

9 years ago

My first bi experience was a bust, not into the other guy. A few years later at a party had a connection with a guy and it was an amazing experience. Just go with the flow and enjoy yourself

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