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First contact

January 20 2013

Ok, I've seen many posts about the first meet and one recently about kissing someone when you first introduce yourselves, but what about when it comes to saying goodbye. Imagine this scenario, you've decided to meet for the first time, things have gone well (you think), Lots of laughing and great conversation. The understanding is that you are going to meet first, play later possibly. You walk her to the car to say goodbye, then you stand around awkwardly wondering whether you should just lean in and kiss her, do you kiss her on the lips? A friendly kiss On the cheek? Full french kiss? Shake hands? A manly slap on the back? Haha just curious whether anyone else gets the after date jitters.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Not very often tho....it's an awesome feeling. Just a peck on cheek for me and hug is good and a Thank you for you time.. Anything more and it's a lets go parking ;-)- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

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RHP User

12 years ago

After youve just had a first good meet - then a kiss on the cheek is for your Mum Full French kiss is still a litte too presumptuous Shake hands.... (seriously ?) Back slap.... ah that one is one I truely dont understand even between blokes !!! Kiss on the lips..if there is promise there, ..... then linger...

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RHP User

12 years ago

I like to leave it at that no matter what naughty thoughts are going through my head at the time or how hot the kiss is.. The anticipation makes it all the more exciting for the next time ;) me too love2flirt!

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RHP User

12 years ago

C'mon, what girl wouldn't want a back slap and a seeya mate!!! :P

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RHP User

12 years ago

Then I will kiss his lips, if he doesn't like it that's his problem.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Oh msmarvelous! I like your style! What about that old chestnut the "high 5" Lol :P- Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

If a guy has not kissed me by the time we get to the car, he is just not dominant enough for me.

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RHP User

12 years ago

If it was polite chit chat, warm and friendly - well I would kiss on the cheek.If there was soul piercing f**k me eyes and heat radiating between you both, then I would expect him to grab me and pull me down on his lap for an intense passionate kiss.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Moving into a ladies personal space for the first time. But since get on the forums I've learnt to Man Up. Still, it takes me a while to warm up enough to kiss for the first time. I had 'first contact' with a lovely lady on Saturday but as we hadn't had a lot of contact prior to this I was reluctant to kiss her as she left. I'll have to remedy that........Where's my bloody phone now?? p.s. I hope you're reading this....woohoo found my phone. xx

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RHP User

12 years ago

I was going for subtle, but if that's what you prefer

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' What happened to hard against the wall with your legs spread wide and hands high over your head?! That's what I'm talking about. A shop window will do as well.

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RHP User

12 years ago

Quoting 'Ms_Devious' If a guy has not kissed me by the time we get to the car, he is just not dominant enough for me. i will go one further. if i havent kissed a woman by the time i get to her car. i wont, not because i am not dominant enough ( i have that in spades) but because i am not into her and will give a courtious peck on the cheek

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RHP User

12 years ago

My post jitters are more like post coital....usually due to the motel not having a maccas for breakfast :p

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RHP User

12 years ago

..if the date has gone well and there is mutual attraction and goodbye 'snog' is almost a required thing in my book..... Danny x

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RHP User

12 years ago

No kiss and a. He's not confident enough for my taste and b. I figure he's just not that interested so why would I bother? I think I like a man who can man up, who knows what he wants and... Wants me. Go for the pash!

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RHP User

12 years ago

...Then come kiss me, sweet and twenty; Youth’s a stuff will not endure.”(William Shakespeare, Twelfth Night, Act 2, Scene 3)If the conversation has unfolded with ease, giving way to a sense of comfort and good humor, and there have been clear signs of interest shown through the time spent together, a goodnight kiss (or indeed a mid-date kiss! ...sometimes impatience on their side can be sexy) confirms the mutual attraction and gives a tantalizing taste of what is yet to come...1/ Being pulled into an assertive and deep kiss is a mind-melting way to break into my inner world and create intimacy with me from the onset. I never forget the first kiss. Those who have made it truly memorable have endeared themselves to me and thus benefited from the passion and bravery they've shown.2/ A quick kiss on closed lips can be perfectly fine if s/he is being overly respectful of my personal space and I'm unintentionally making them a little nervous or unsure. Most likely I've caused this tentativeness to happen given my own intense shyness for these things; it takes either an intuitive or dominant person to see through my demureness and make the first move. At the very least such moment does serve well to understand if they have those desirable qualities in their character.

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