M39
First meet at a swingers club
November 24 2014
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally I would prefer getting to know a partner before going to Couples Club with them. It is expensive to get in and you also need to remember that even if she does agree to accompany you she is under no obligation to have sex with you. Good luck :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Couples Club in Surry Hills allows single men on Thursday and Sunday nights. Have a look at their website for details. I have taken blokes to Swingers clubs as friends so they can see what it's all about - some I root and some I don't. I have also had a first date that was at couples club but I was with 3 other women so I knew that if we didn't hit it off there were other ladies who might like him. I would only do that if there was a group of us going though. I prefer group activities. Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
the question?
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RHP User
10 years ago
It is difficult to get in. Like Meeka said, The Couples Club will allow a few single men on Thursday and Sundays, but you literally have to line up outside and pay 150.- Our Secret Spot allows single men too on certain nights, but from what I understand you'll have to take out a year-long membership first. Worth it? Maybe, depends on your expectations. The fee you pay covers your entry to the club only and guarantees you absolutely nothing. I've met a few angry men who did not quite understand this concept. As for your other question: I would only ever take a man I'm already sleeping with. Good luck!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've actually done this. The one and only time i went to Couples Club - met a guy from a site, such as this, at the pub on the corner. Unfortunately he wasn't what he portrayed himself in his pictures, so I did say I wasn't interested in 'that' side of things with him, but he still wanted to go ahead with the visit, so we just chatted in the spa *shrugs* Think he was hopeful things might get interesting - which it did only from a voyeuristic perspective. Not a bad way of doing things, if neither of you can host - or you don't want to host *laughs at virginqueen*
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'virginqueen' the question? Hahahahahahahahahaha
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RHP User
10 years ago
Possibly young fit men will probably not have too many problems gaining entry. Although sounds a bit humiliating as a staff member goes out at a certain time and picks who they would like to come in. Of course if you go on a slow night you have a greater chance of entry. I have only been once to single male night and I wasn't really a fan. It's better if you go with a lover on a theme night I think. :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
but I've only ever been with a partner I've known and been seeing for a while. I think it would be a bit awkward otherwise. It would be great to find someone with a shared interest of group activities to head to clubs and parties with but haven't been that lucky yet. The search continues :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
You don't 'have' to get membership if you have gone to the club before (and they remember you) or if you are the +1 male with a couple attending on a Sunday, they also restrict it to only 5 extra guys....... At the moment it's just building up, although I have to admit, it would be nice for some single guys to make themselves known, as there seem to be around 6 couples and growing now.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wasn't aware of that at the OSS Bigmamma1. Very happy to make myself known. Be great to go as the +1 of a couple.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have meet for the first time a few women at a swinger place here in Perth. Usually the communication has been sexually charged and if they have never been before its a good way for them to be introduced to the people there. If I do not meet there expectations there are plenty of other opportunities for them. Some have return and enjoyed that environment, others found it not to there liking but have been grateful to experience something that on there own they were reluctant to try. Though if its your first time to a venue I dont know if it would be the best option for a first meeting, and if you are just looking for a way to get through the door, I would consider it rather selfish.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your profile says you are straight but that you are into MMF (bi). Always wonder at men that have that. So if you play with men in a group situation you don't consider that to mean that you are bi-sexual? I have met men who consider themselves straight but will suck and fuck men in group situations.... but because they only do it to perform for women that still makes them straight. It's very interesting!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I highlighted it by mistake Meeka when I was tapping away and then it wouldn't let me change it, may explain why I've been getting some attention from the wrong direction :) thanks for bringing that up hopefully I can change it. Def not into that - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Your profile says you are straight but that you are into MMF (bi). Shhhhhhhh!!! Let's keep those hidden bi guys our secret, shall we?
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RHP User
10 years ago
When you edit your profile you should be able to untick it easily enough.
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