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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Firstly...most women do not like the term 'girls'....Would men like to be labelled as 'boys' * friendly greeting and introduce yrself. *Honest, brief compliment of profile or pic *We hat yr intention on site is... *Avoid frank sexual talk...It puts me off.."wanna fuck?" is not cool... *End,..Hope to hear from u soon... As a woman, this is what I personally prefer for an initial message....Just short, sweet, honest and friendly... Ohhh...and consider changing yr profile wording, its v generic... Best of luck..xxx - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  And say something about it. Not only does it show that you actually read her profile (there are many that don't) but something stood out enough for you to comment or want to know more about it. I agree with changing the wording on your profile. Every time I read in a profile that the person thinks he's a sexual animal I tend to not read any further. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Mischeviouslad

  10 years ago

  ALWAYS use overly familiar language and start your message referring to her as babe, baby, hottie or darlin. This creates an instant connection. Then if you want to stir her animal lust, introduce yourself as her wet dream waiting for a night to happen, and be sure to inform her of your unwavering desire to please her orally.... chicks dig reading that because noone ever does it. Then, make sure you have a few "flexing in the bathroom with your dick out" type photos handy at all times.And finally, remember to remind her... that in choosing to have you fuck her, that she wont regret it... followed thereafter by "hehe" to add that flavour of debonaire charm.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' ALWAYS use overly familiar language and start your message referring to her as babe, baby, hottie or darlin. This creates an instant connection. Then if you want to stir her animal lust, introduce yourself as her wet dream waiting for a night to happen, and be sure to inform her of your unwavering desire to please her orally.... chicks dig reading that because noone ever does it. Then, make sure you have a few "flexing in the bathroom with your dick out" type photos handy at all times.And finally, remember to remind her... that in choosing to have you fuck her, that she wont regret it... followed thereafter by "hehe" to add that flavour of debonaire charm. ...go wrong with that stylish approach

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' ALWAYS use overly familiar language and start your message referring to her as babe, baby, hottie or darlin. This creates an instant connection. Then if you want to stir her animal lust, introduce yourself as her wet dream waiting for a night to happen, and be sure to inform her of your unwavering desire to please her orally.... chicks dig reading that because noone ever does it. Then, make sure you have a few "flexing in the bathroom with your dick out" type photos handy at all times.And finally, remember to remind her... that in choosing to have you fuck her, that she wont regret it... followed thereafter by "hehe" to add that flavour of debonaire charm. Any woman loves to be called hun, by a guy who will lick her juicy pussy for hours until her eyes roll back in her head and she squirts again and again. OP, do my sure you use the word "lol" a lot, to convey you are a mature guy. Also.. Like the others have said, read the profile and comment on it. Briefly describe what you are looking for and ask what she is after. I get a lot messages without a single question in them, so I end up thinking "Well, that was nice. And? Before sending check your spelling and create a nice message title. "Hi" just doesn't do it for me. Of course even a great message is useless if your profile isn't up to scratch. Good luck!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  I have a Script message... reads.."Holy Fckn Shit Bitch.. I would suck your shit to a point, and stab myself to death with it.. just tell me WHEN" I THOUGHT it was a good original message... AND therefore could NOT work out why I was reported so often!!!

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  Seachange

  10 years ago

  Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' ALWAYS use overly familiar language and start your message referring to her as babe, baby, hottie or darlin. This creates an instant connection. Then if you want to stir her animal lust, introduce yourself as her wet dream waiting for a night to happen, and be sure to inform her of your unwavering desire to please her orally.... chicks dig reading that because noone ever does it. Then, make sure you have a few "flexing in the bathroom with your dick out" type photos handy at all times.And finally, remember to remind her... that in choosing to have you fuck her, that she wont regret it... followed thereafter by "hehe" to add that flavour of debonaire charm. About to head to a serious meeting and this put a smile on my face.... a chuckle to lighten up the mood, for me. Haha. thanks.

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Some extremes on here ,I must be old school,what happened to wine and dine! Seems to have gone the same way as pubic hair and dinosaurs both extinct! Perhaps I should take some notes,pen poised!!

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  And what they NEED to hear are two totally different things.... Your individuality is what they want AND need..... The happy medium :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  10 years ago

  Why ask what they want to hear? Might I suggest thinking about what you would say to them if you were to meet away from the anonimity of the interwebz...think if it like being in a public place. If you were to approach them there, what would you say to them? How would you introduce yourself? Of course, simply "Hi, I'm so-and-so" probably wouldn't cut it in a message...add a bit more to get the conversation flowing....but treat this place no different to anywhere else. - Posted from rhpmobile

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