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markgreggson

markgreggson

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April 17 2017

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Hi all forum lovers. I'm seeking feedback and suggestions. I am lucky enough to be in the position to host parties on a small scale to start with in Mooloolaba Qld. As I've attended only a handful in the past I'm not new to the experience but wanting to get ideas for the right atmosphere and situation. Firstly a question to the couples, As couples I understand a lot are looking for couples and singles so what kind of numbers of select singles to couples would be the ideal. (Understand that ideal is a guide only) also I'm guessing that woman singles Preferrred over the men? Now a question for the singles, As singles what attracts you to attend? Is it couples who are already known to you or the interest in finding new couples to meet with? Now onto the venue. Lovely 3 bedroom unit close to bars cafes and beach. Large open plan kitchen and dining area. Two toilets two showers. 3 balconies one large two smaller. In the past I've had parties of around 35 and the space was ample but obviously not the same kind of event. As far as the 3 bedrooms only one has a queen bed. The other two have two singles each. Ideas about bedding?? Any feedback from already formed groups looking at new locations also appreciated. Thanks in advance for your comments and feedback. Mark.

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  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    8 years ago

    Definitely less single women and WAY more single men. But I realise that will be subjective and individual to the couples you're inviting. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Why does it always have to be about couples?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I'm not experienced with parties but I think so long as you communicate with interested attendees, to get a feel for the dynamic they are chasing, then you should end up with a group of people who can potentially gel. As a single, and a cougar, I personally would want young single guys, couples usually prefer other couples or single women, going by what I've read on the forum. There would also be couples who like single men. Either way, I would be very careful which single men I let in the door, so as not to turn people off. But that's just me, communication and maybe tailoring each party to specific groups might work? You place sounds perfect btw 👍

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    'Your' place I meant

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    most parties don't interest me because they are so couple focused. I would only attend a party with a mix, including a good number of single men.

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  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    CandyDelicious Id like to arrange a few different situations singles I find are harder to get all in one place. I myself am a single and in my experience the couples are the attraction for most singles to attend. Definitely happy to fill the space with singles. And totally agree it shouldn't always be about the couples.

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  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    I touch myself. I do understand that communication and strictly vetting the single guys and women and tailoring to the likes and dislikes of all involved. I'd be hoping to start a chat group as to help perhaps work out the connection and attraction beforehand.

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  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    It is a very nice place. Perfect for full weekend getaways not just a raunchy night.

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  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    Hahaha I'd love to fill the party with single women Of course I'd be in attendance 🤣

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  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    Thanks I'll definitely keep that in mind. I also think the singles need to be numbered according to the scenario. I'd be thinking of having themed nights and invite in accordance.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'markgreggson' I myself am a single and in my experience the couples are the attraction for most singles to attend. based on feedback from the singles? And is it the case for both single men and women?

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  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    No not from the feedback. Just in my observation. I can't speak for the single women but currently thinking the woman would rather attend with couples over the single guys. Again only an observation.

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    8 years ago

    Swing Sets can be pretty difficult to put together well enough to please everyone. There's no set rule but honesty, tact and truly knowing your target audience would be a good start. Perhaps you should liaise with some of the regular private party hosts from the Event listings? Maybe they'd help you out.

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  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    Definitely wasn't going to look at 35. Was just using that as an idea as I've had 35/40 in a social situation. Excellent idea about chatting with the regular hosts. And good luck with your Qld meet and greet. Mark x

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'markgreggson' No not from the feedback. Just in my observation. I can't speak for the single women but currently thinking the woman would rather attend with couples over the single guys. Again only an observation. Even though I haven't attended any parties, just from reading the forums over the years I think you might find your assumptions aren't entirely correct. Probably a good idea to do a bit more research and actually ask people for their thoughts, at least you've posted this topic which is a good start.

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  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    I guess this is why I'm looking for feedback. I'm definitely looking for everyone being able to enjoy the experience and will be open to singles weekends as well as couples looking for singles. It would obviously be set out in detail on the events listing as to the particular attendees.

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  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'markgreggson' No not from the feedback. Just in my observation. I can't speak for the single women but currently thinking the woman would rather attend with couples over the single guys. Again only an observation. As a single woman going to these things it's nice to know there's a few single men who you might connect with. I mean, couples are already couples and they have someone to go home with and (in some cases when required) someone they can "download" all the mixed emotion/experience with. Some parties can be VERY full on and you need someone to talk to, compare notes, get comfort/reassurance from or even just laugh with and go WOW did you actually do that!! and get all hot and sweaty with again couples have that "hands down" the successful, well adjusted ones anyway. Just my 2 bobs ~ Indy

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  • markgreggson

    markgreggson

    8 years ago

    Awesome I have taken that onboard Indy and LD I'd be hoping that the weekend getaways would be an extension of already formed connections. With singles and couples being able to send shout outs for the extra numbers required. My thinking was this way more are likely to find what is wanting be it good social company or exciting new but tested connection. Mark.

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