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First time swingers

December 18 2018

Hello, I’m 32 years and my husband is 30 years old. We have been together for 6 years and we have been talking a lot and since a long time about including occasionaly a third person (male and female) or a couple to our sex life! As we have never done this before, we want for the first step to go to a swinger club or party, so we can have the choice to do anything or not if we don’t feel confortable. It would be more embarrassing I think to organise a date with someone or a couple and change our mind. I can find everywhere nice stories about how good it was the first time but I was wondering if anyone had a bad experience to share with me? Whenever because it is not what you expected or because you ended being too jealous? The idea of sharing my husband with another woman excite me a lot but in the same time I’m jealous and I’m scared of this. Is there any woman who feels the same as I do? I would like to add that my husband didn’t have to convince me, I was the one who introduced the idea. Thank you for sharing your experience with me! - Posted from rhpmobile

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sw1ng3rz

6 years ago

We recently dipped our toes as well. To test the green eyed monster I got hubby an erotic massage with a happy ending and he got me a stripper. We both were turned on watching and wanted to join in with the other. We knew jealousy wouldn’t be an issue for a play. Enjoy your adventures

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RHP User

6 years ago

We start every experience with a mutual play and if the vibe isn't there its over we have stopped it once or twice and as long as everyone is honest and on the same page its never a problem biggest thing is enjoy it make sure everyone is involved and respect everyones boundaries

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RHP User

6 years ago

It think in this case you have to worry less as this worry or problem doesn't actually exist. As for me it was more an insecurity over my own body. My husband is crazy about my curvy body, but I get jealous when a girl with a model body flirts with him. It's the body I want to be, but I cant, yet worried what if my husband is enjoying her more than me... which isn't true but..if i were a guy I would do her too kinda insecurities. It's the brains games on how the media/society wanted us to think. So I put it like this, i set aside all the chose within, and maintained eye contact with my husband, he was more excited for my presence and the thrilled along with me for sharing OUR bed with another person. We became a team. That changes the whole mindset. As a team player I want myself be open for him to communicate and understand to allow less chances for jealousy

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RHP User

6 years ago

Thank you for your answers! I think steam team that I also feel the same as you do... I’m skinny but I have small boobs and their is many girls who are also skinny but have fake nice big boobs so I will probably feel less sexy than them...

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