First timer looking for a companion

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  swingalingson

  7 years ago

  Do not wait for someone else for an opportunity to go to any swinging event. Many couples look for single guys. So try your luck that way at least you can say and experienced a swinging location. Waiting for someone else you may Neva Eva go my friend. If you really want to go try getting an escort. It is very common for Sydney guys to do that. That way you are in. 2 people make a couple. But if the escort leaves a venue then you might have to leave also.

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  On couples nights, single men are not allowed and are kept out for a reason. So you want to use, any female (one you don’t know ) to get you into the club as a couple ? And then once through the door you can become single again? Why don’t you rather go to a swingers cub on a night that they allow single males in? That way you are not deceiving anyone, nor getting into the club under false pretences. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  How on earth do you know that it is common for Sydney men to take escorts to a swingers club? It is pretty o obvious and I have only seen it two or three times and those men where probably around 60+.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  You’re a married guy trying to find a companion to go to a swingers club, I think you may find it quite hard. Most chicks are not into the married thing. CD

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  ruby_blossum

  7 years ago

  Your profile says you are married. Take your wife.

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  Violetincredible

  7 years ago

  Hi Raj,If you are single you should not be at a couple's swingers night (unless you are there with your REAL partner). Especially NOT with a prostitute. Why don't you go to a night when single guys are invited? I think it is good to be honest with everyone in those situations- there is enough drama and politics in those clubs without adding to it by faking couples and bringing prostitutes in.xxviolet

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  what was so difficult about the OP's post....Personally... He didn't ask to be judged.. he didn't suggest he was going to get a prostitute..he was asking for information on how he might find someone so they could go as a couple.. Pretty straight forward I reckon..I know people who "Hook up" and go to Swingers clubs as a couple.. an they get along ok. I even have a friend who has regularly suggested her and I go as a couple..(AND she has a husband who she is cheating on...)Swinger clubs are Not really my thing, but I might just take her up on it one day.. Stop being so fucking Judgemental for fuck sakes..Answer the fucking post or fuck off elsewhere with your crap Just my point of opinion..

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  ruby_blossum

  7 years ago

  Maybe if Raj used the word Married instead of Single throughout his post ?

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  I agree, he refers to himself as a single guy, which he isnt. I get that married men have their reasons for being on RHP but this post shows no respect for his wife at all.

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  Violetincredible

  7 years ago

  Hi :)I was replying fairly after having worked in a club for a long time and dealing with the arguments and problems couples have in there. My comment was said in a non-judgemental way. I feel that you should not have a right to tell anyone that they shouldn't post in a public forum.xxviolet

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Hi Raj go on a single guys night and then there will be no issues!

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  What’s a “real” couple? Every time a couple rolls up to a club does one question how they came to be a couple ? Whether they are married, defacto, friends that get together for what ever reason , fb, fwb situation or a paid arrangement when did that becomes anyone’s business but the two involved? If they present as a couple and play as a couple (as Im sure they would ) what does it matter how their coupledom came about ? I’ve seen more dramas from so-called real couples who have yet to sort out their “rules” before embarking on the experience of a Swingers event and bringing their issues in to the night So again I ask what does it matter ? What if a same sex, bi couple turned up , do you exclude them as well ? As for the OP being married , again none of our business , he asked a question and received a few answers. At least he owns his marital status, which is more I can say for many guys on here that have made contact with myself only to eventually reveal that the word single means they are single one night a week !

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