RHP

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Flirting... IRL

April 22 2013

Just wondering after a few recent experiences... Guys, if you're out with a girl (say at a bar, or dinner or a party) and someone(male) you know comes over and starts talking with you (like hey! Haven't seen you for ages, how are you) then obviously flirts with the girl you're there with... How do you feel about it? Are you offended, is it a slight? Or... Is it a compliment, the girl is attractive and you're flattered your friend approves? Does your perception change according to the status of your friend (he's rich or famous or conversely is not)? Girls do you see this happening much, what do you think about it?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I did feel the girl had a cheek, but at that time I was very young and probably not confident enough in myself. Now it would depend on how overt the person was and how I felt about the man I was with.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Starts flirting with my date, then they're not a friend of mine and therefore, as I have impeccable taste in friends, not someone my date would like either. Plus I'd ask him for his Man Licence, I seem to be losing mine regularly so it would be nice to have a spare.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    But I'm confident with who I am . My Date is out with Me . I wouldn't take it as a threat , more as a compliment . If my "friend" was blatantly disrespecting me or my Date , I'd simply tell him to Fuck Off ... I've always operated on the Golden Rule : don't even think about coming on to your Friend's partners . I assumed it was an unspoken rule but some people have proved me wrong . Needless to say , they aren't my Friends any more . I won't even fuck a Friend's Ex . Enduring Friendships are more important to me than a quick fuck and a Friendship ruined . GG♒- Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    Theres flirting.... and then, theres shameless flirting.So I utilise the Emotional Mirroring principle... again.IE.... How would I react if the tables were turned?!If Im with a woman and another guy seeks to butt-in..... I know I usually have the inside running with that woman and can deflect his attempts to intrude. Usually all it takes is a raise of the eyebrows and a sly corner of the mouth smile towards the woman, as if his attempts to seduce her are destined to fail.... like a secret joke between me and her.... and she knows, that I know whats going on.It usually ends pretty quick after that because she shuts him down and he moves on.If another woman comes to me and seeks to flirt with me while I am in company, simply introducing the two ladies together usually sorts out any potential issues.DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I stay out of conversations that don't concern me. I trust that my date will in fact correct the situation if it goes beyond what my friend would deem to be acceptable as I'm secure enough in myself to know that flirting is fun, but doesn't necessarily mean she will go home with the third party. If she does, what does that say about our future prospects?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Because when this happened with me as the woman in the story, that's exactly what happened, including amused smile and lifted eyebrow! How funny! My guy was not in the least perplexed and his nonchalance (well of course he was flirting with you...) was the opposite of what I witnessed another time at my local where the bloke got all indignant, not anything he said but body language and told the girl off later for engaging.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Ask if they are interested in a threesome?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Ask if they are interested in a threesome? hahah a similar thought went through my mind....

  • FunTimeLords

    FunTimeLords

    12 years ago

    But I know we will be going home together.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Lmfao - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Mischeviouslad

    Mischeviouslad

    12 years ago

    Why do you think I introduced them?LOL DG

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Slow on the uptake! Lol! Meeka, I need a perva meter so that I can be alerted to those nearby perverts. Lol think he was just flirting out of habit though.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Maybe I should tell you where I'm taking a date? Let the games begin!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Don't you have a stable of girls? You should host your own meet and greet. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Think he did that Meeka, that's why he's in so much trouble! Lol!

  • Gypsy_Girl

    Gypsy_Girl

    12 years ago

    I'm with you girls, if you think she'll go for it why not ask. I was on a date last year when he introduced me to his mate, they asked, I came home with both of them! Had a great time :-)- Posted from rhpmobile