Flirting and online chatting

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  Hi Are you really sure you want to do this? Because that's not how I'm reading your words, at least not in your profile. Have a read of your first sentence here, that is how you should word it in your profile IMHO making it clear from the first sentence. "As a fairly new couple we're really into exploring the fantasy side of this first and really enjoy taking about....." That is how I think you should start your profile, and follow with specifics, meaning being very clear about how you want that to play out, so as not to waste time. You kind of say it in your profile but I think the start is misleading, fine whatever you want to get from this or how you want to evolve as you go, just be clear that's all, and I don't mean this to sound negative. You look like a hot couple. Hope it goes well for you

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  You make that clear to the people you communicate with. Otherwise it could be seen as time wasting. Online chat/messaging is not my thing but I'm sure there will be some who only want that. Good luck

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  That seek to go from intro to play usually within 2 weeks of the initial message.... Otherwise their adhd gets the better of them and the new shiny thing won't look as shiny..... :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Livingandloving2

  8 years ago

  Anyone who would label you as wasting their time isn't on the same page as you and I would doubt you would feel comfortable with taking things further with them. When we joined this site we were very clear about what stage we were at in our exploration. Some people we have chatted to at the beginning said they were fine with just chat- but turned really really nasty within a week or so. Those people just make it onto your blocked list :) Others we have been chatting to every now and again- touching base to see how far we have progressed. Unfortunately for us- I've just gotten to the point ( after 12 months) of wanting to start meeting others... And have just found out I need an operation and will be out of action till Christmas. Those who we continue to chat with have been lovely and happy to take at our pace. Those are the people you will find and click with. Everything is at your pace and if another party doesn't like that then they aren't for you. Good luck with your adventure xx Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  8 years ago

  I like to chat with people but erotic chat I tend not to engage in as i find some only want that which is not what i want but seems to be where you guys are at at the moment... which is totally fine but be a good idea to make that clear to the people you are speaking with or even put it in your profile that you are looking at eventually moving to play.

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  Missb4u

  8 years ago

  The same things everyone else had just make it clear up front. Personal experience I have found it really frustrating when that isn't made clear and guy keeps coming and going and running hot and cold. Took me a little while to work out what the deal was. Be clear so people can make informed decisions about interacting with you. Welcome and best of luck

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  rupamohan

  8 years ago

  Our belief is casual dating is for specific purpose and has its focus and people don't want to invest same time as they will in LTR. The more items you add to your focus the difficult it gets but it is your choice how you see it. There are more member for are just chat oriented or action oriented and I guess fewer who are in to both. If you like both you can still chat with members who like to chat and have action with others. Who is stopping you to divide your interest? In short there are all kinds here...however the more ticks you need more difficult it will get but can be more satisfying. You need to find out your compromise. There is nothing like 100% match. Have fun

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  spunkynhunky

  8 years ago

  Mrs passion here, i have to say i much prefer to chat a bit, build rapport, build tension. We want some connection when we meet with someone and want to be able to meet someone that we can meet regularly and chat to in between! Life gets busy and living in the country it is hard to find people to catch up with and chatting enables us to keep the momentum going. - Posted from rhpmobile

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