M56

Flirts!

March 28 2012

Hiya all, I'm pretty new to this site, and like all on here have searched the site for a partner, browsing through profile after profile offering a flirt here or there to break the ice. But why are some people blatantly arrogant about recieving messages , With a profile along the lines of " don't bother flirting I'm only a guest so message only or I won't bother" or similar. I understand some can't afford the fee for full site privileges, but really, at least put up a pic so we can see who we message! Does anyone feel this about some profiles or is it just my Englishness liking a bit of politeness??

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RHP User

13 years ago

I understand as to why some will put this on their proflie..if they are a guest member and receive numerous flirts from other guests..then that is as far as it can go...no messaging until one becomes a paid member...I have just had a few days of reverting back to guest member status and have enjoyed not receiving the flirt "your exactly what I'm looking for please message me" from profiles with no pics As far as the pics on profiles go...do an advanced seach and limit your search to members with photos if it is an issue for you...but don't forget that some members like to keep their pics in their private gallery...and you will not be ble to view pics unless you message them and they give you access to their private gallery...

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RHP User

13 years ago

...the ladies receive something like a postbox at Christmas time's worth of flirts and messages daily. Some of them, heaven forfend, may feel so overwhelmed that they are disinclined to respond! Don't take it personally, the odds are stacked against you. 'Persevere, play the numbers, don't be a needy jerk' seems to be the general consensus.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Please take your pants off, see I said please

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RHP User

13 years ago

Unfortunately the flirt responses aren't that great. The No NO NO NO NOOOOO one is just too rude but fits best for a No answer to any of the question flirts. "I love your profile", Um, thanks. But the only thank you response is "Thanks, flattery will get you anywhere".As a guest, if another guest is bombarding with "You're hot", "I wanna be your Santa", "You're top of my to-do list" blah blah what's the point in replying to all of them? All it becomes is flirt ping pong and that's dull. Although, I'm more likely to respond to a flirt from a guest where it's a negative response than from a paid member, because half the time guys don't read the flirt response and are so happy to have had any kind of response they just email anyway. It's better to just ignore them.

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RHP User

13 years ago

Quoting 'tuscanred' Please take your pants off, see I said please Love your manners Ms TuscanHow could he refuse?Minxy xx

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Ivoodoo

13 years ago

I may get booted for this but oh well ....nthe ACCC took on RHP a while back for fake profiles google it. As a single guy use a different site as let's break it down Australia has 22 300 000 million ppl and RHP had over 3 million profiles and still bosts 2.4 million members some couple... Do you really think that many ppl would join RHP from the ppl that are over 18 ... Also use tineye website to check if user profile pics are stolen as I can show you 100's that use porn or model pics and they are verified profiles one that stood out was a verified couple using Raven Riely pic and it was verified. So don't waste your time with flirts and choose who you write too ... Use the chat rooms to meet and break the ice.... As RHP is photo free fake profile heaven and you dont want to write to a fat ugly bloke or 14 year old that finds it funny to scam guys that are looking.... Now I'm sure I'll cop some flack again :)

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RogueGeek

13 years ago

to see if this was the case. Opened a solo female profiles with real photos and everything! guess how many hits I get per day? Bugger all!I sometimes wonder if the profiles complaining about getting so many hits, flirts and messages are just talking themselves up...To the OP: Just keep looking - it's all you can do.Cheers,MS Quoting 'neptune_drift' ...the ladies receive something like a postbox at Christmas time's worth of flirts and messages daily. Some of them, heaven forfend, may feel so overwhelmed that they are disinclined to respond! Don't take it personally, the odds are stacked against you. 'Persevere, play the numbers, don't be a needy jerk' seems to be the general consensus.

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RHP User

13 years ago

have been using tineye for a couple of years and have mentioned it in more than one thread on this site...but at the same time do not expect the administrators of the site to check every single pic that is posted on the site through a third party reverse image internet search...that would be up to the member I would think...

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RHP User

13 years ago

Members who want to see your private gallery but don't have a profile pic for you to see first up

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RHP User

13 years ago

Yeah, as mentioned I think it's because women get insane amounts of flirts and messages each day. They've got to sit and go through all those, I imagine it's pretty time consuming and, well, boring :DAs for the idea that girls aren't being honest about the amounts they get... eh, knowing my fellow men, it's entirely plausible they *are* getting that much contact.

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TomatoSauce33

13 years ago

Quoting 'eljuego1985' Yeah, as mentioned I think it's because women get insane amounts of flirts and messages each day. They've got to sit and go through all those, I imagine it's pretty time consuming and, well, boring :DWhen logging in after being away for a few days, i'm always eager to sort through my flirts/msgs, never boring for me... seeing as i probably get only 1 or 2 a week if i'm lucky :P

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