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April 29 2014
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tamworthguy46
11 years ago
Hi Ralf, I was so going to send you 100 flirts on this post lol I suppose there are 2 different perspectives on flirts ? From a guys point of view they could be a quick and easy indicator on weather the other party is interested, and if so they may even pay for a membership. Maybe from a woman's view, they get so many , it's hard to differentiate between who is is just playing the numbers, and who is genuine ? depending on how many you get, and if you have time to go through everyone's profiles to give a appropriate response. I reply to them with usually a message, But when I am a non paid member probably half the ones I have sent haven't been replied to. xx Tam
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RHP User
11 years ago
NO FLIRTS reason is that I am a guest so what's the point of replying with flirt after flirt for no end? and yet every day , I go look and there are about 20 flirts? Mostly from older guys so I guess they do not have HBF for a set of glasses. I love the flirts from guys that are premium? Just send a message , after all you pay for those suckers. The ones that say , what do you think of me? and there is no picture and jack shit on the profile? mostly I just delete them, and stop reading them all together. LadyT from the convent of the frozen vagina
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sweetgem
11 years ago
To flirts and messages ralf74. Firstly, I only reply to flirts or messages that are received from men who fit within my preferred age group. Anyone outside that will have to learn to respect my preference, because I do specifically state my age preference in my profile! Secondly, I don't reply to flirts like what you have mentioned, plus the ones that say: - "You're exactly what I'm looking for. Please message me I'm keen." Or - "I have some free time, message me if you want to meet (something like that, I can't remember the exact wordings). Well sorry my Lord, I am not keen nor do I want to meet you! There you go..........delete and next! RHP admin team should really look into lighten down the tone of those flirt messages. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Sometimes just reply, thank you, flattery will get you everywhere if I like the other persons profile. Then it's up to them
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'LadyTuscan' NO FLIRTS reason is that I am a guest so what's the point of replying with flirt after flirt for no end? and yet every day , I go look and there are about 20 flirts? Mostly from older guys so I guess they do not have HBF for a set of glasses. I love the flirts from guys that are premium? Just send a message , after all you pay for those suckers. The ones that say , what do you think of me? and there is no picture and jack shit on the profile? mostly I just delete them, and stop reading them all together. LadyT from the convent of the frozen vagina haha, I agree, I get a lot of those!! WTF?? And also agree with the premium one, if you have something to say, say it!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'tamworthguy46' Hi Ralf, I was so going to send you 100 flirts on this post lol I suppose there are 2 different perspectives on flirts ? From a guys point of view they could be a quick and easy indicator on weather the other party is interested, and if so they may even pay for a membership. Maybe from a woman's view, they get so many , it's hard to differentiate between who is is just playing the numbers, and who is genuine ? depending on how many you get, and if you have time to go through everyone's profiles to give a appropriate response. I reply to them with usually a message, But when I am a non paid member probably half the ones I have sent haven't been replied to. xx Tam *batting eyelashes*
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'looking4quality' Sometimes just reply, thank you, flattery will get you everywhere if I like the other persons profile. Then it's up to them but then they think you are interested! I would love to have an option for a personalised flirt. That should be an option for paid members.
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RHP User
11 years ago
They were the attitude of the people in the forums at the time, and probably not too far off the cuurent attitude of a lot in the forums now, I imagine. That is, the flirts are never good enough... and I agree lol. I really don't answer them at all anymore. . http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/The-RHP-Flirt-contest-23616 . http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/FLIRT-CONTEST-WINNERS-23797 . There used to be a flirt that simply said thanks, but I'm not looking or something similar, I miss it. . For me, I mainly get the 'Hot or What?' flirt, it is sent automatically when I am rated hot on that feature... and I am rated hot a lot :-D. So when I get that, "I think you're hot, what do you think of me?" flirt, I take it as a compliment. Don't confuse it with, "Damn you're hot, what do you think of me?", that is a stanbdard flirt.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'looking4quality' Sometimes just reply, thank you, flattery will get you everywhere if I like the other persons profile. Then it's up to them but then they think you are interested! I don't reply to the "I like your profile" flirt for that reason. We've asked RHP many times now to give us a reply that says "Thanks for the compliment, all the best in your search" or something like that. I might bring it up again to the RHP team when we get to talk to them at the Sydney Meet and Greet.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What's a flirt :-) xxQ
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RHP User
11 years ago
Im sure Ive stated this on our profile but we're not being mean or anything, its just hard to keep up thats why we prefer messages and will always respond to those and if we havent its because we've accidentally missed it, sometimes I backtrack through them just in case :) Mrs_AJ
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Missb4u
11 years ago
Some of them are really awful and for some there just isn't a good reply. I'd like to see on that said sorry I don't do married/attached men. Oh and I don't do smokers. And one that says no I don't want to "ask you" just answer the damn questions. AND why do some men send 15 flirts in a row? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Missb72' Some of them are really awful and for some there just isn't a good reply. I'd like to see on that said sorry I don't do married/attached men. Oh and I don't do smokers. And one that says no I don't want to "ask you" just answer the damn questions. AND why do some men send 15 flirts in a row? - Posted from rhpmobile I think that is just impatience, hitting the send button too many times, although I have had almost every available flirt sent to me at the same time by the same person.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'looking4quality' Sometimes just reply, thank you, flattery will get you everywhere if I like the other persons profile. Then it's up to them but then they think you are interested! I don't reply to the "I like your profile" flirt for that reason. We've asked RHP many times now to give us a reply that says "Thanks for the compliment, all the best in your search" or something like that. I might bring it up again to the RHP team when we get to talk to them at the Sydney Meet and Greet. Good idea to bring it up on Saturday. What I meant to say is if I'm interested in them I will reply with the flattery will get you everywhere, and then leave it up to them if they want to get in touch. Ralf, I like your idea about being about to create our own flirt template. Maybe one that says thanks, but you're too young for me, lol.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I don't know why I bother with sending messages in the time I've been on RHP I have sent 112 messages and I have only received 5 replies so I can under stand why a lot of guy send flirts why spend hours reading profile try come up with something witty and funny to introduce yourself only to never get a response.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'allsorts72' I don't know why I bother with sending messages in the time I've been on RHP I have sent 112 messages and I have only received 5 replies so I can under stand why a lot of guy send flirts why spend hours reading profile try come up with something witty and funny to introduce yourself only to never get a response. I have received 2071 emails to date and replied to 1998. I have received 601 flirts and sent 9. You will get my attention with email, not flirts. Flirts are impersonal and I guess I lot of guys would use them to go fishing, cast a wide net and see what they pull in. A lot of people also use flirts because they are guests, maybe some should pay up if they want to get the most of their experience on here.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'ralf74' Quoting 'allsorts72' I don't know why I bother with sending messages in the time I've been on RHP I have sent 112 messages and I have only received 5 replies so I can under stand why a lot of guy send flirts why spend hours reading profile try come up with something witty and funny to introduce yourself only to never get a response. I have received 2071 emails to date and replied to 1998. I have received 601 flirts and sent 9. You will get my attention with email, not flirts. Flirts are impersonal and I guess I lot of guys would use them to go fishing, cast a wide net and see what they pull in. A lot of people also use flirts because they are guests, maybe some should pay up if they want to get the most of their experience on here. LOL A lady just sent me 4 flirts obvious some one felt sorry for me
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