Flirts and messages

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Are you messaging women whose criteria you fit ? cause if your not, could be one of the many many reasons why your not receiving a reply...make sure you READ a profile and respect it accordingly....but you know...theres nothing to say we have to reply either way (I always reply to messages but I dont respond to flirts and its written in my profile) and your rite...if you cant be bothered, then why should we..works both ways.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Your a pretty cute guy,and the smart thing you did was write on the forum. Best way to advertise the goodies good luck I also try to message back and if I have any spare messages I will messag a flirt .I try to be polite I do not reply to flirts from the east anymore, unless its a thank you if they say they like my profile.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Then send a message, if I dont fit the criteria the least I will do is sent a flirt that says I like thier profile, But I always respect what people write in their profiles, and only send messages accordingly. And its noot that I never get replies with a positive response ( I do) it's just that for the effort of typing out a full message I would appreciate just a simple reply so I'm not chasing shadows. Also I just want to add that I type out all messages, I only have one template and that is with my email, msn and skype addresses and that is only if I am asked for them.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I don't always get the "I don't respond to flirts" bit. Firstly most of want you want to say should be in your profile so wh not read it in there rather than an email. Secondly it gives the receiver of flirts an opportunity to quickly respond either way. Having said all that I don't get hundreds of them and don't get that feeling it's just a numbers game and the blokes are just being lazy sentiment. Some days I wish I was a chic and get all the attention but then I think of the time of month and the child birth thingy and I thank frig I am a bloke :)

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  wannabyummymummy

  13 years ago

  It cant be all bad i notice you have a healthy looking friends list and a couple of nice validations so obviously some reply.Like SLK said are you reading the profile right through and making sure you fit what they are looking for??Also are you writing an interesting message, noting aspects of the ladies profile that you feel you fit/bits you like etc?The other thing i noticed is that you dont really say too much about yourself or what you are looking for in the 'in your own words section' maybe you could expand on that a little and give people a bit more of a reason to respond.I agree it is rude to not reply (another forum topic which has been done many times if you care to browse through them, maybe one of the other more clever ladies will post you the links i am not great with that) and i do always reply to messages even if it takes a while but having said that i give the one line messages a one line reply "sorry you don't match what i am looking for" and if i have said no thanks once before i am not going to reply to a second request, if i change my mind then i will let him know no need to keep asking it just sounds desperate!!Anyway good luck,WBYM

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  i am interested ;) ruslanaloveszit at h-o-t-m-a-i-l .com

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hi Dreamy, I always reply.... I like to have flirts....yeah....send em on down. cheekychicka ...I dont seem to be getting ANY responses. Do we ALL have to post pics of our boobs and pussys? I am not about to post pics. Boobs wouldn't fit in the photo!! Hey, I'm here looking for a good time just like everyone else- looking for some action.... just not about to post pics of my doin it here.Flirt on down ...........Yep! I WILL reply... promise!

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