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Flirts (i love your profile)
January 20 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why thanks dude, that's very illuminating. I never reply to my flirts so I guess you and I have an accord.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Perfect rant. Loved it x (P.S. this is just a compliment. It doesn't mean I want to fuck you!) :)
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
Lol!
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RHP User
12 years ago
To those flirts, just saying thank you for the compliment. If the person wants to keep the conversation going, that's cool but if they don't, I'm fine with that too. I've made a few interstate friends that way and am enjoying their friendships.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hands up, how many people have sent him the flirt. "I would just like to say I like your profile"
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RHP User
12 years ago
this is your biggest whinge on RHP so far......????....mmmmm Wait till someone replies to you with the flirt - the short answer is NO - the long answer is NOoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo me thinks you wont like that one either...
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RHP User
12 years ago
... their reply flirts are just a means of acknowledging your flirt and saying "thanks"??? Worse things could happen op. :-) KK xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
answer it with the flirt nooooooo because your not asking anything..my point is.... theres a difference between being polite(person who sends it) and an arse depending on the reply
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RHP User
12 years ago
answer it with the flirt nooooooo because your not asking anything..my point is.... theres a difference between being polite(person who sends it) and an arse depending on the reply
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RHP User
12 years ago
I will always graciously accept a compliment. I don't reply to flirts. Send me a message and I will reply. Simple. C'mon peeps, we said we would play nice in the sand pit with newcummers. I will gladly spank the botty of forum brats xxx ( smiley face). If not, I'll show my boobies AGAIN!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
dude you get replies to flirts,gee most men complain of the opposite.Maybe send messages instead,they cant mistake a charmingly worded message....''I like ya profile,dont wanna fuck ya'' that should do it
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RHP User
12 years ago
haha good one freya
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RHP User
12 years ago
a man with a sense of humour beauzza,that will get you far...and er I dont wanna .. you know..
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RHP User
12 years ago
the only way to live life! when you fuck up or make a fool of yourself, all you can do is laugh and find the funny side of things
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Vintagetatu
12 years ago
Is that why I'm not getting laid? Sending the wrong flirts out...*chuckles*
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Mr_MrsAraps
12 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Wait till someone replies to you with the flirt - the short answer is NO - the long answer is NOoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo LOL Shina
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RHP User
12 years ago
Isn't it lovely that we have our very own profile inspector that will send us a flirt just to let us know we are on the right track with our profiles??? OP seeing that you haven't really I asked a question, I'd like to politely say get fucked....but I can't as there wasn't a flirt for that :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi! Beauzza22. I always acknowledge the flirts I receive. Unfortunately the Pathetic selection we have to choose from doesn't really say what we want to convey.. If a Guy says to me I Love your Profile.I generally reply Thanks flattery will get you everywhere a tongue in cheek reply .. not let's do it! What I'd Like to say is thankyou I really appreciate your feedback.. They haven't added that 1 as yet so we're Limited.. Just appreciate the fact you're receiving replies from the Women you send them too .. Cheers Lu :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's not playing nicely. Now bend over while I spank your botty. (hang on - i'll do it on Saturday night, I'm buying a new leather paddle)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think the reply flirts available just don't express the general feeling well. They need one extra one that just says simply "Thanks for the flirt." Just a simple acknowledgement of the compliment.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear' We have... UNDER Oh God Yes - thanks for the compliment, flattery will get you everywhere (which it won't)orUNDER Sorry Sweetie - Sorry I don't see our planets colliding but good luck with your search. But you're saying you don't want a reply? I'd just like to say thanks for the compliment!!! The Choice given in response to flirts are limited...and somewhat DisharmonizedWe continue to pray to the RHP Gods...and have even entertained the idea of a pixel sacrifice if that's what it takes to have them updated
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RHP User
12 years ago
So...let me get this straight....we women cop shit for not replying to flirts, and now we cop shit for replying to them. Guess what OP, we're not all mind readers, some people might be sending that 'love your profile' one expecting some sort of response. Personally I don't usually respond to them but if someone does, that's no reason to lose your shit. Or...I wonder....is it that the responses you are getting are not what you want to hear and you're justifying it by pretending that you weren't actually interested in them in the first place...?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' dude you get replies to flirts,gee most men complain of the opposite.Maybe send messages instead,they cant mistake a charmingly worded message....''I like ya profile,dont wanna fuck ya'' that should do it lol Freya!! Create a template reply using the above...I've sent very few flirts, and it's only been that one... I am very glad I got messages back as I wouldn't have made some friends, and some very special ones... :)Would your view change if the person you sent the flirt to was absolutely stunning I wonder???
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm reading Stephen Covey's '7 Habits of Highly Effective People' ...if you like I can send to to you when I'm done?It's a bit boring...I thought there might be a chapter about really twisted nuns, even they don't send flirts without hoping for something...albeit often get none.*tosses the book on the table* Not even any slightly interesting pictures...how very awkward, now I'm done.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ok I'm pretty sure I got a flirt like that! Hmm now I'm disappointed!! Haha!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Flirts are there for a reason. We do it everyday in one way or another. It gives the other person or persons to give back a knock back,nicely! Some people don't bother as they don't want to hurt others. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Zsuza69
12 years ago
Quoting 'paintme'That's not playing nicely. Now bend over while I spank your botty. (hang on - i'll do it on Saturday night, I'm buying a new leather paddle) MMMmmm that sound familiar
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RHP User
12 years ago
I did not get one of those flirts and mine would be my god I will do you till we both get a nose bleed any howwwwwwwwww we cant send a flirt that says, thanks mate nice of you to say so the closest I send is your mighty fine but I am just perving at the moment there is no flirt back with a gee thanks so be patient honey lamb and the only thing that will be stuck up if you simmer down will be you, and by that I mean stuck up in someone right up to your balls may the force be with you ,young and hot tempered lil fella
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RHP User
12 years ago
LOL...this is funny stuff. You people have a great sense of humor.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Otori' I think the reply flirts available just don't express the general feeling well. They need one extra one that just says simply "Thanks for the flirt." Just a simple acknowledgement of the compliment.
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RHP User
12 years ago
but maybe i should elaborate.. there a quite a few people/couples etc that reply with messages saying "cant you fucking read!!!" bla bla bla... in otherwords, didnt i read the fucking age limit... that is where this OP comes into play.. im more than ok with the flirt "thanks, flattery will get you anywhere" because its the closest thing to a decent
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RHP User
12 years ago
What about "sorry I'm not real. Just send me money lol"- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Absolutely no one is going to behave now! Every time we're naughty the puppies go on display! Priceless ... ;-) KK xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have received a few flirts & I reply with a standard flirt ("flattery will get you everywhere"). The Flirter hasn't really engaged me in conversation & so , I won't be the one to initiate . I know it's hard to break the ice. I acknowledge all flirts tho'. Not impressed with the Template Flirting system . I'd prefer it if people spoke their minds with me.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Replying to the "Just letting you know i love your profile" flirt can seem at the very least reasonable and at best courteous - you've contacted someone, they are replying.On the other hand, there is nothing more unreasonable and a bit special than receiving "Damn! You're hot, what do you think of me?" from profiles with no photos. I can never decide if these flirts come from an army of people with either astonishingly low IQs or with unachievably high expectations of my clairvoyance ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Sadey' Replying to the "Just letting you know i love your profile" flirt can seem at the very least reasonable and at best courteous - you've contacted someone, they are replying.On the other hand, there is nothing more unreasonable and a bit special than receiving "Damn! You're hot, what do you think of me?" from profiles with no photos. I can never decide if these flirts come from an army of people with either astonishingly low IQs or with unachievably high expectations of my clairvoyance ;) they saw your photo in the "Hot or What", and rated you a 6....I understand that automatically sends out the "I think you're hot" flirt..
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RHP User
12 years ago
we receive these quite frequently....and always imagined they were compliments....... no biggie.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thats the idea! Naughty is funner! ( o )( o ) Zsuzas - I looked on eBay for that paddle with the heart shape cut-outs but no luck :-( ON TOPIC though ... I agree, the flirts are snooze worthy. What about something like "I'm glad you like my profile, but my full frontal shots are better" sorry that was stupid ... back under my rock ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are those whom reply thier interested but only guest. Then when you become a member, don't reply. Or after you go to the trouble to reply with an email. They say thanks but no thanks. It is like WTF! Rather honesty right from the start. Lmao! As for the chick who threatened showing her tits. I do anyway lol!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Pay to become a member and send messages
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playful4u
12 years ago
Quoting 'Otori'I think the reply flirts available just don't express the general feeling well. They need one extra one that just says simply "Thanks for the flirt." Just a simple acknowledgement of the compliment.
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playful4u
12 years ago
What do you say to this flirt, "Just letting you know i love your profile" I always get stuck and think okay they are just sending a compliment, but there is no adequate flirt to reply with and we have no interest in encouraging a sometimes unwanted flirt by sending a message. Perhaps it is just a complement that needs no reply as the OP says, that is how we will view them in future... unless you are hot
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why the hell would we want a compliment or to even hear from someone we're clearly not interested in. The fact that you are getting that response should make it clear to you that your contact is not welcome. It's not cool. No one cares about your opinion or compliment. In fact red hot pie notifies you that you do not fit a profile's criteria but you press on because of your egocentric belief must be that your compliment is needed or that's it's okay to say what you have to say. The reason that you're getting responses that are so negative is because even after people make it expressly clear in their profiles that you aren't welcome, you ignore their requests/criteria and COMPLETELY DISRESPECT that person and what they have written. We shouldn't say "can't you read" but "can't you understand". Here it is again: IF YOU'RE NOT IN OUR CRITERIA, THEN WE DON'T WANT TO HEAR FROM YOU AT ALL! Don't flirt, don't message just go away.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Luckdragon nailed it. We do reply then we're stuck up, if we don't we are ' up ourselves '! I have appreciated but not responded, then got msg asking wh I didnt! Fuck! Why don't blokes end a simple ' message' saying what they actually mean! send a flirt- expect nothing- I'm far too busy to answer the hundreds i get. Lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can't say I agree with this rant, I reply to all flirts because I think its the right thing to do, Im not a mind reader so someone saying they love my profile could just b a compliment or it could b them sussing me out, either way I like to b upfront and honest so i reply accordingly. Here's an idea, if u dont like getting a response, dont send the fuc@ing flirt!! Personally I hate getting that flirt because like i said, not a mind reader, and to b completely honest, i dont give a fuc@ if u like my profile or not! I think its a useless flirt and rhp need to review them - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Couldn't agree more bloke. It's a compliment from me if they have a hot photo, a no bullshit profile, or something along those lines. It's good to see people who take the time and effort to create their profile, and the flirt is exactly that... A compliment and nothing more- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Typical of someone so young and without life experience I suppose!! Hopefully one day you will both grow up (and at least understand the point being presented)!! (so the bloke is supposed to be a mind reader BEFORE he sends his message..........really.......grow a brain!!).
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RHP User
12 years ago
To all those bi single girls out there, we'd love to get flirts from you, no complaining here :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love the last 3 comments here, from nine69 on. Combined, they come up with a good response to the OP, I reckon :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'nine69' Why the hell would we want a compliment or to even hear from someone we're clearly not interested in. The fact that you are getting that response should make it clear to you that your contact is not welcome. It's not cool. No one cares about your opinion or compliment. That sounds rather jaded. Why be nasty to someone who is just being nice? It sounds like you assume anyone sending you a flirt wants something from you. Personally I appreciate all compliments! A flirt reply saying "Thank you for the compliment, all the best in your search" would be great.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nicely said lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
has hit the nail on the head! exactly my point!its sad that people on here cant take a simple compliment and the photos or effort put into writing their blurb!like i said earlier! it doesnt necessarily mean i want to talk to you or even fuck you
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RHP User
12 years ago
bro, who cares if they reply, they dont reply its just a huge lesson on there personality they really have.you liked there profile and they seem from it(there profile) decent, but truth be, it was just really the person they want to believe they are.half the women on here want to be something there not cus in real life they cant be. the other half, a quarler are lovely and decent people and other quarter are all bloody dirty minded and under sexed people just wanting to get laid.does that help.P.s if i offended anyone i apologies but some times the truth from a bloody ozzy hurts .xxx
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ForeverLovers
12 years ago
Flirts on RHP can definitely be a source of major frustration to both parties. I'm not sure about the overtly agressive responses here, I mean sheesh, it's not like a binding contract or something that can actually hurt you! If you receive a flirt that was unwanted then just delete it. We became paid members so we had more control over who we contacted and how we interacted. I'd highly recommend that to anyone frustrated with flirts. RHP - please, please look at updating the flirts. Couples make up such a large percentage of users on this site and yet we are completely ignored in the area of flirts. It always feels kind of sleazy for us to send something which says "I really like your profile, what do you think about me"? When in fact it's "We really like your profile, what do you think about us". Flirts can be a great way of determining interest, but most of the current flirts are either way over the top or not applicable for us. :-( Mrs FL xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
I get that flirt all the time....I always respond with a quick 'thank you'......it doesn't hurt to be polite ;-).... I have sent the flirt a few times but neither expect nor want a reply.... Danny x
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RHP User
12 years ago
very harsh nine69, do you think you are something special do you. Might look good but there are many more things that put many more people above you on RHP.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont get a great deal of those flirts but when i do on the whole i try to reply with 'thankyou flattery will get you everywhere'.... if someone has taken 2 secs to send it, whats wrong with being polite and saying thanks??? Take it as a nod, praise, someone admiring your profile..... i mean unless you have mountains of dudes banging down your door..then okay ...but really? I get what you're saying OP... the very last line says it- you're getting actual messages back saying 'cant you read?' etc but i think you've worded it badly... the majority are assuming you're a poor done by dude who is getting shit 'no thanks' flirts or complete ingnorance... and you're having a sook about it. I have to agree with those saying the reponse flirts to flirts... are SHIT! (So MUST agree with other who have said RHP take notice....) Why create a flirt asking a question... then have no response it? Whats the point? Those that are crucifying the young guy for having a rant - read it again ....and seriously when was it a bad thing to pay a person a compliment... sheesh! Some people need to get over themselves...
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RHP User
12 years ago
well said beauzza22 you've brought a smile to my face with your....statement :)I must say though...I try to have a look at the profile of the sender and like when people have made the effort to write about themselves - not use the lines offered by RHP. It's ok to use them - but prefer some input by the person.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Agree 100 percent Madam Dragonfly, I just sent that very reply, it was the closest thing to saying thanks for the compliment, as for Beauzza why bother complimenting someone if you don't expect an acknowledgement of some sort
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am a member, I respond to flirts with flirts. Showing a interest is healthy and knowledgement is also healthy and important. Even if you have no interest. Respect in the fact it took the time for that person to send it. Also I. Saying that, if the person has no respect or the tolerance and or time to send a response. Move on, as that person didn't have the kind of matching personality you did or were looking for :))- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Manly_McHardon' Quoting 'Sadey' Replying to the "Just letting you know i love your profile" flirt can seem at the very least reasonable and at best courteous - you've contacted someone, they are replying.On the other hand, there is nothing more unreasonable and a bit special than receiving "Damn! You're hot, what do you think of me?" from profiles with no photos. I can never decide if these flirts come from an army of people with either astonishingly low IQs or with unachievably high expectations of my clairvoyance ;) they saw your photo in the "Hot or What", and rated you a 6....I understand that automatically sends out the "I think you're hot" flirt.. ????! Please explain this to me, as I have no idea what you're talking about...? I don't have any of my pics posted anywhere but on my profile as far as I know (and that would be extremely uncool if rhp was doing so without my permission, it's just not my cup of tea)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Looks like the spinsters are spitting their bile early this year ! (Leunig)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm still laughing about the cartoon with the australian army knife...just a bottle opener! god...thats 30 years old now i think!
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