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Flirts without viewing

May 28 2017

Hello fellow RHPers I'm chatting to a woman who sent me a flirt. The thing is, she isn't on my viewed me list. Is this possible? Also, when I do a search for women, she comes up as "no photo". Not private or restricted. However, when I look at her profile she has photos. I haven't seen this before, though I am a recent joiner. Anything to worry about? Thanks Simon - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You can change your settings so that when you view a profile the viewee isn't notified. A lot of women do this because it cuts the contacts from guys who think that if a woman looks at their profile it must mean she wants him bad Not sure about the photo thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' You can change your settings so that when you view a profile the viewee isn't notified. A lot of women do this because it cuts the contacts from guys who think that if a woman looks at their profile it must mean she wants him bad Not sure about the photo thing. I will go on 'stealth'' mode occasionally for just this reason. Sometimes I like to go looking without drawing attention to myself. Others I don't. However, if I do send a message/flirt I will always allow myself to be 'seen' looking. For me it's part of the flirting process. Other times I will 'flirt' by checking out the profile a few times then wait and see if I get a contact back.... a little like flirting across a room IRL. Depends on my mood and what I see in a profile...I've had a similar thing happen with photos on a search occasionally - maybe it's a glitch? Then I will check out the profile to be sure. Maybe I will look for a pattern in future and check with the moderators....Anyway OP - enjoy the flirt and see where it goes...KH

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thanks LD and KH. I have since explored my settings and found the option, I wasn't aware it was available. I can understand women using it, I'm sure us guys can be presumptuous and annoying 😂 I was wondering how someone could want to meet me without viewing my profile and knowing what I looked like. Now I understand Simon - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You've sorted it out with the replies you have so far. Sounds like you've clicked with someone already. That's great to see and a nice change from the lists we often see about people not getting replies to messages. 😃

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Some profiles, if viewed using the phone app, come up with restricted photos. If you view the same profile by logging on to the mobile rhp site on your phone browser, those restricted photos are visible. These are for pictures that aren't exactly out there in terms of explicitness, such as bra-covered breasts. So there is clearly some photo weirdness going on. - Posted from rhpmobile