Fluctuating libido.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Probably because I have been sick with the flu in the last week. Still not fully recovered yet 😔 I've also been a little overwhelmed in landing my dream job - excited but at the same time, daunting. There's a lot of reading to do and training happening. So for me, the less free time I have to play or think about sex, the less I want to have it. But, of course, once he gets his tongue to work on my pussy, everything gets switched back on 😛 - Posted from rhpmobile

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  DynamicCouple36

  7 years ago

  The sunlight , and the resulting melatonin levels can impact on ones libido - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Haleakala

  7 years ago

  Sometimes I find when I'm getting lots of sex my libido is high, I'm wanting to experiment, and would have sex at any opportunity. However long spells out of the saddle can result in a low libido and lack of effort. It's analogous to fitness, I find when I'm got I want to be out riding my bike all the time, if I have a long period not riding then it's hard to get motivated. However once that first ride after a spell off happens the motivation and desire returns. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  and less body fat is key, less stodgy food/more exercise, along with a myriad of other factors which can affect men and women differently. The other key thing, as temp said, is how much we're having sex. If you don't use it, you lose it. Fortunately for us, it can be reinstated so won't be lost forever lol But I need to be turned on by my own body, to feel horny to share with others, I check my abdomen every time I wake up, touch it, hips and thighs too, I like to be hollowish in the abdomen, the knock on effect is that I leave the house, if possible after a play, feeling sexy, ready for a good ole flirt 😀😇 Hormones do play a big part for women, and work stress or lack of personal time for men and women can play havoc with it. Menopause, I won't even start on that, though will say leading up to it was the horniest I've ever been in my life, no words to describe it, has now levelled off but my dirty mind has picked up the slack 😊

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  swingalingson

  7 years ago

  Can make a woman go apeshit. I had an ex who lacked the combination of both vitamin and minerals She had low lebido and was acting extremely batty. After blood tests and prescriptions in a few days she was good again. Food and sunlight do play a bug part in our lives.

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  OkeyDoke45

  7 years ago

  I think between your level of fitness and libido. If you're overtired, overworked, stressed or mentally exhausted you are not going to feel very ''virile'' or whatever. I find regular exercise of any description makes you sleep better, handle stress better and makes you more desirous of pretty much everything. I really cannot recommend it enough. I long ago ceased thinking of exercise as a chore, I now crave it and miss it when on holidays or whatever.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  If you meet that person who pushes all your buttons then your libido will be raging, no matter what your age. My libido has been strongest since I hit my 50s.

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  RHP User

  7 years ago

  Male Testosterone levels decrease over time and according to my specialist 50% of men over 40 suffer from some level of low Testosterone. Unfortunately last year at 35 I had to deal with a patuitory gland failing and my body stopping producing testosterone it was a massive change to sexual drive and motivation in general. Know I have it fixed my drive is like I'm 18 again. I highly recommend any man over 40 with low sex drive to get checked

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  Mischeviouslad

  7 years ago

  Well OP, at your age.... you can't expect much 😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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