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Foobs v Fake Boobs

September 18 2017

Have a question for you all, please think before commenting & be honest. Don't attack someone for their honesty, this is a forum. Majority of women who have had a mastectomy (or double), get implants, but foobs aren't like your average breast implants; in the way that the result isn't a soft, natural looking & feeling boob. Some women don't even have a nipple. So my question is..... Do you believe that a woman should be up front & tell her meet about her foobs or let it just play out during the course of events and thus be a "suprise/shock" to the other person? Would you be able to include the foobs in play, even though they may feel like soft rocks & not have the natural look? If knowing straight up would you say yes to the met? Not having nipples, will that bother you enough, because you love to suck & nibble on them? Seeing a scar or scars across the breast/s how will that play on your mind? Google what they look like before you answer & be honest, it's a real issue for women in our society & I'm certain women on RHP.

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Livingandloving2

7 years ago

Is that I would not answer a topic such as this for fear of potentially adding to the anxiety of a woman who has gone through such a traumatic event Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

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noeleena

7 years ago

Hi , In answer in 1959 my Mother had her left breast and lung taken out 9 months for that and recovery after of cause that was it no reconstruction so quess how a woman would feel and the Mental and Emotional detail going on , So nothing at all like to day or a few years ago. I,v had BA , Breast augumention , and i,m more than happy i know nothing of the new foobs and to think nothing could have been done for women in the 1950,s , My self having been under the knife with a few surgreys i will say for us yes is very importaint and how we feel about our selfs so i,m all for it and hope its great for you. ...noeleena...

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lovman8

7 years ago

So if the attraction or chemistry was there it would make no difference. As to when the matter was raised I think that should be entirely up to the woman to reveal all when she is comfortable enough to do so, but ideally I would prefer to have a heads up before actually discovering for myself. My opinions may be coloured by the fact that I am presently going through I prostate cancer saga myself, but I would like to think it would make no difference to me anyway. And it raises an interesting issue for me because at the moment I am totally impotent and very reluctant to engage with women at all ( even my partner) because of my self perceived lack on#f masculinity

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AnnieWhichway

7 years ago

Would not make any difference in wanting g to meet. Would prefer to be told before hand so an awkward moment doesn't dampen the playtime. Also that way, there would be no questioning her desire to keep her bra on until such time as she is comfortable with each other, whether that meet or further down the track. Breasts do not make a person

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RHP User

7 years ago

I'm sure you have been told, but with time all down stairs will come together. Don't put pressure on yourself to "preform". Just enjoy the cuddly moments with yr partner. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Exactly my thoughts. Such a sensitive topic. My heart goes out to all women who have or have had breast cancer

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RHP User

7 years ago

But wouldnt you think that if a woman is on RHP then she is ready to "reenter" the world and isn't so sensitive to this question? - Posted from rhpmobile

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SugarSugar69

7 years ago

Recently I had the pleasure of playing with a couple. When we were undressing each other she stopped me and said had had a double mastectomy. I had a girlfriend who had battled breast cancer so I've seen it before and it didn't bother me. If anything I found her to be more beautiful. She had Foobs, no nipples, I was gentle but she enjoyed me playing with her new breasts and we had a great night. Yes this is a sensitive topic but maybe it will help someone to be that little bit more confident in knowing it's ok to be a little different and we still find you very attractive. Makes absolutely no difference to me. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Yeah I just think who am I to be giving them advice. They kind of trump me. Life/living and the hell they've been through, it would be a cruel person who rejected them based on whether they have boobs or not. One thing I will tentatively say, again with respect to those women, is that many of my sexual encounters have been in the car, I love sex in a car 😄 and I love the partially clothed thing, not uncommon for the bikini top to still be on at the end of an encounter. But that turns me on, it's kind of like the urgency takes over, the passion and heat, and I'm big on oral. The naval area for me, his and mine, is more important for me personally and the general attraction/chemistry/heat takes over. As far as when they reveal that to their partners, I agree with lovman, entirely up to them and hopefully wouldn't put a guy off. Some guys are boob men (and women), we all have our fetishes, and that's fine, wouldn't get to the meet stage anyway if that were a priority for them. It would be nice to hear from those affected but given the sensitive natute of this, unlikely we will hear from them. You are all amazing though and like I said, you trump us 😘

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Sawadee

7 years ago

I'm one who believes if nature has been unkind whatever it is , get up and do something about it. If a woman is going to feel better by having the boobs as she wants instead of putting the fear of what others describe as ' fake ' push them aside and just do it. I'd readily accept a woman who had enough guts to put herself through tough times to get what every woman wants.. Just as a man would like a bigger dick , women like bigger boobs.. Any woman who criticises another woman with the word 'fake' is insensitive and uses it as nothing more than a put down. I'd challenge these women who use the fake word , not use makeup from here on in.. How long would that last.. ?

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boobsandbusted

7 years ago

and no way way would it stop me moving forward on a women who had them,as long as she was ok with them within herself ,i'd only like to know early so i don't suffer my regular foot in mouth problem with blah blah blah wow blah blah blah, when i'm surprised by something i wasn't exspecting , more power to the women who have won the battle ,you rock ,nothing shall keep you down mr b , - Posted from rhpmobile

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Livingandloving2

7 years ago

I wouldn't presume to know why anybody is on here. A woman who has had a mastectomy may simply be here to begin to explore her sexuality after treatments/ hormones etc and I would hate to think anything that I said may inadvertently cause distress. My absolute respect for those amongst us who are travelling the journey of life altering illness xx Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

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bonefide

7 years ago

It the least stand proud and tall her with no matter what. Many types of people make the world go round as the old saying go's.

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RHP User

7 years ago

I'd like to think by the time I get to see any scars or lack of nipple we would have connected well enough to not matter. So don't tell me. You should be no more concerned by the baby tattoos (stretch marks) mole removal scars, burn marks or that weird scar from when you fell off your bike as a kid. It is all you., and part of what makes unwrapping a new lover unique. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

I’ve had a right nipple sparing mastectomy and implant reconstruction for breast cancer. Under my clothes you wouldn’t know the difference. My partners haven’t complained If it comes up during a conversation, I have nothing to hide or be ashamed of. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

for your comments. - Posted from rhpmobile

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