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  boxestotick

  5 years ago

  Nope, never googled how to give oral. Hopefully I’m doing it right??? Not into choking, etc. I personally think it’s degrading and I wouldn’t feel comfortable doing it to a woman. But, each to their own I guess. I am however, interested to know your reasoning for asking.

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  countrytouch82

  5 years ago

  1. Yes I looked up that, and many other things, down to how to give massages etc, from different sources including online and in books, both from male and female viewpoints. I think it helped, although I did seem to get by reasonably well in general when it first came to actual practice :p 2. Not all that is necessary to bring a man to climax, and I would never want someone to feel they have to show any such over the top enthusiasm :P Just the essentials is fine.

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  non_such

  5 years ago

  1. Yes. The best advice i found was to 'eat it like a juicy peach' with your whole mouth, tongue and lips. Don't just lick with your tongue out like a kitten lapping milk. 2. Yes. Not specifically the things you mention but enthusiastic actions, noises and eye contact are a big turn on.

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  Chillymofo

  5 years ago

  1- Absolutely have. I guess when you love something you study the crap out of it and want to be the best you can be 2 - oral for guys is really easy - they ALL love the exact same thing - ENTHUSIASMSo if you love gagging on it and spitting etc, then go for itIf you prefer to go slower and more refined, then go for itAs long as it looks like you are loving it, then the guy will also love it

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Since Im bi Im going to answer this. Your never too old or too experienced to learn something new. I can say that my oral skills improved after putting to practice some the techniques from Nina Hartley on how to give oral.🤪

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  non_such

  5 years ago

  Moana...it was Nina Hartley that said 'eat her like a juicy peach. '

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  1. I’ve looked it up out of interest but that would have been after I’d been told I was pretty alright. When women say to just respond to the woman’s movements, that’s true. But it’s also something that requires really being in the moment and knowing what movements mean what. And what breaths mean what. So, practice more than anything. The video/s I watched did help to confirm some stuff but the self confidence is good too. 2. It doesn’t turn me on in theory (I won’t watch it in porn). But I was once seeing a girl that almost wanted to do that ONLY. Being worshipped like that and to that degree is outstanding in the moment. But it feels a bit violent out of the moment tbh

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Nonsuch Dont remember that part but thank goodness I put the rest to into practice.

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  SpicyKale

  5 years ago

  I've listened to some awesome interviews with Nina Hartley, she's an absolute scream. There's a couple of good ones on "sex nerd sandra" and "the rialto report". Allison Moon is another worth looking for, her book "girl sex 101" is a great read. I was lucky to have have a couple of girlfriends in my early twenties that had quite a bit of experience and weren't afraid to ask for exactly what they wanted! It's exactly what inexperienced young stupid me needed. One thing I'll say about the lifestyle is that you need to check your ego in at the door. When you've been with the same partner for a long time you know exactly what they need to get off. Then you'll come across someone new on here that nothing works for... just ask, no shame in that! A good lover is someone that takes cues from their partners, reads their body language and isn't afraid to bloody well ask. The rough oral you see in porn is an absolute turn off here! Breath play in a bdsm sense is hot as fuck though... wouldn't trust a stranger with it for quids but😐

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  RHP User

  5 years ago

  Education; I haven't but given what I've just read I will now, thanks peeps, the thing about teaching old dogs is you have to repeat the lesson over and over and over. The gagging throat fucking thing does nothing for me, but I can be obedient for a reward. Just on the juicy peach technique, try the opposite, no body contact at all, anywhere, by any parts of the body except the tip of your tongue moving over her clit, not straight up, perhaps after eating the peach, not everyone likes it but it can be very intense for some. Your Welcome.

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