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Forgetful Profiles
October 02 2012
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RHP User
12 years ago
a few times,but mainly flirts.The really annoying thing for me, is the person you give your number to who doesn't contact you for weeks and when they finally do,expect you to remember who they are.Do they not realize how many Johns I know?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Though it's a stock standard reply to an introduction message that someone usually sends. Rarely do I/we make a first move so generally if we do, I like to make it a personal individual greeting.We have gotten the same type greeting message from couples singles etc I think its easy to do if they have swung their net far and wide so to speak. Sometimes their profile rings a bell and I check message history to see if indeed we have had contact before.I generally think "mehh" its no biggie its a bit like being introduced to a crowd of people and trying to remember there names..and I'm TERRIBLE at that..lol so I can forgive peeps if they can't remember saying hi to me here either and then forgetting..( sacre' bleu!!!)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hate not knowing if the people/ person is real ...sometimes i think there are profiles here that just gather email addy's..i have had a couple of occassions where i was given an msn ..by the time i answered i was called a time waster andd blocked..this was within seconds..i thought who the fcuk are you ! weird very weird..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Like women don't reply to all the messages they get, I don't send unique messages to all I contact, I have templates that I will personalise to each contact though.On the rare occasion that a unique hand written profile warrants it I will send a unique message.As for getting repeat contacts Hah, I wish !
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RHP User
12 years ago
of forum and chatroom usage, I found on several occasions I would be chatting to someone who's responses would seem a little slow. I asked if he was chatting to others only to receive the reply "no, I'm chatting only to you and no one else". Then a close friend would be up on msn. We both frequented the same chat and forums site and, after some convesation with her, it appeared we were both chatting to the same guy and getting identical messages from him as well. So, we would pretend to be the naive little chatters he wanted us both to be, bombarding him with messages. Then, when I had tired of this, my last message to him would be "I'm logging out now. By the way, the next message you send to Opal, please be a dear and let her know I'll be calling her in ten minutes, as soon as I've made myself a coffee" But, yes, it is very off putting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
freya13 ..a few weeks in nothing..it was 12 months before one person got back to me. she didnt want to sound to eager to meet i guess
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RHP User
12 years ago
I had about 10 flirts sent to me from a couple within 48 hours. I replied with a message to the effect of "hi, thanks for the flirt.... hope you're enjoying the website. What is it you're looking for on here"I received no reply since. I don't think I was offensive. I wonder what that was all about.
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wannabyummymummy
12 years ago
just to clarify though i am not really bothered by the fact it turned out to be a template message what got to me was that i had already had quite a few chats on MSN and some only quite recently.I understand that it is really a numbers game and so of course you would chat to more than one person at a time but it does make you wonder exactly where in the que you fit when they cant remember who they are talking to and who they are not lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
At the beginning I would be swamped with messages, some were not that memorable so I deleted them, the ones I did reply to, there was no response for weeks, then I would get a message from them, by that time I had forgotten who it was or what their interests were, I don't have a good memory at the best of times so if they don't reply back ASAP and take weeks, months then I havae forgotten all about them, some sadly act as if I should remember them even after so long a time after, if only they knew or were in in shoes they would understand one cannot always remember and quite frankly after weeks or months should not be expected to remember with out at least a refresh of conversation
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm not buying it, how could you forget ME !
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
12 years ago
I can usually tell if its a templates usually, had a great one last week i said thanks for the message but it sounds like you have just sent the message to 20 girls.... he replied with another template saying no way ... the adds another template ffs....i had told him my name on my first reply... where he hadnt noticed this ... probably replying to all his replies... then when i asked his name got a little confused that he had to answer a real question... made me think he wasnt good with english and had someone type them up for him... talking to a girlfriend that night yes same flirts same messages and getting rated hot at the same time as each other.... well we did do a bit of repling back yes the same message and at the same time... poor guy what would you do if you did meet someone
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WHY_NOT_LOOK
12 years ago
I remember names i remember faces i remember profile names BUT to match them all up i have no idea so sorry to anyone where i forget a name or join 3 profiles knowing who it is my name is always WHY NOT LOOK... until i change it lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
there have been many occasions where i have experienced this. Its a bit of a turn off for me as it suggests that maybe they are sending a lot of msg's. I don't expect a novel in first contact but if you feel like your part of the production line then its not really sexy is it. Just my oppinion
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MissRoxy' there have been many occasions where i have experienced this. Its a bit of a turn off for me as it suggests that maybe they are sending a lot of msg's. I don't expect a novel in first contact but if you feel like your part of the production line then its not really sexy is it. Just my oppinion no, it is not just your opinion! i feel just the same
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
A couple with multiple profiles who appeared to have forgotten our previous contact when they opened profile 2's pg.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not sure if its just us , but a lot of the time our history may say 1 flirt 3 messages but when we open them up to check what was last said , the page is blank. Happens all the time which is frustrating.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Hebe1'Not sure if its just us , but a lot of the time our history may say 1 flirt 3 messages but when we open them up to check what was last said , the page is blank. Happens all the time which is frustrating. I think RHP automatically deletes contact history older than 6 months so this may be what has happened.
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wannabyummymummy
12 years ago
Hebe1, yep not just you i think the history does get deleted which can be a tad annoying but of course it would be neccessary otherwise RHP would run out of space lol.the thing is i could understand if it had been a while since i was chatting to this couple but i had only just been chatting to her on MSN a few days before Kind of makes me think that maybe he doesnt speak to her and vice versa and maybe he sent the message not realising she was already speaking to me?? anyway whatever the reason it did turn me off and i was curious if it happened to others, i am glad to see it isnt just me
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Paradisepair
12 years ago
If there was the option to save some messages so they last more than 6 months.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can't remember :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Move them into "notes" on that person's profile...you have to copy and Paste though, lol. And it is sad when someone contacts you after a decent Break (couple of days for guys), because by then one has Moved on, lol. I don't mind receiving a template reply From a girl, understand that you are inundated...but what gets me... Why block me??? ...not that IGAF, lol...just seems a really weird Thing to do.
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wannabyummymummy
12 years ago
Quoting 'goodtimesricky' Move them into "notes" on that person's profile...you have to copy and Paste though, lol. And it is sad when someone contacts you after a decent Break (couple of days for guys), because by then one has Moved on, lol. I don't mind receiving a template reply From a girl, understand that you are inundated...but what gets me... Why block me??? ...not that IGAF, lol...just seems a really weird Thing to do. thanks for the tip good times i didnt know about that.As for girls blocking well normally i only block someone who has been told 'no thanks' more than once but persists however i am now starting to think that other girls block after the first 'no thanks' so that they dont have to hear from you again and dont have to remember that they have already said no lol I honestly have no idea
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RHP User
12 years ago
I remember being contacted by a guy, and as he was going to be away or not in my area we passed on each other, then a short time later i was contacted by him again. I then reinterated our situations and he said that he and a few other guys used the same profile to save on money for membership. Not sure if this is your situation or not but how else does somewone forget whom they have spoken to.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...my profile with any guy....sounds like a bit of bulls**t to me...he is trying to cover up his mistake... or whatever...but if a girl did that to me, I'd be super quick to block her... Ricky.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't have templates and if I'm interested I make it a personal. goodtimesricky can vouch for that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
More than likely if it's more than a detailed paragraph, it's a template..
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