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Fourteen day challenge,,,,

March 11 2017

We have decide to challenge each other to having sex at least once per day for the next 14 days. We let life get in the way at times and it is generally to the detriment of our sex life so our aim is to put it right. A few ground rules have been set , ie an invitation from one person or the other cannot be refused. Once an invitation has been made the other person must relinquish control and submit to the direction of the other. It must be taken out of the house at least twice ( once each ) and must involve oral to completion at least twice. ( again once each ) There must be at least two sessions of deeply passionate lustfull sex as opposed to quick fucks or toy and bondage play. and we are to keep a diary both together and separately for reading after the challenge is over. We are looking for comments from people who have tried something similar ,or thinks its a good idea and maybe would like to take on the challenge and for any novel rules which may be applied that we haven't listed. Sure there are plenty. And also for people that might be interested in following our progress. Is 14 days too long or not long enough? Comments please ,,,,,

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EarthQueen

8 years ago

I did something like this with my ex but not as detailed as yours. I was reading a blog by a couple who committed to having sex every day for a year. I think we did it for two or three weeks, it was a while ago. From what I could remember it did bring us closer together while we were doing it and we had to start getting inventive with pozzies and places so it was lots of fun as well. It was nice to get that deeper connection something that gets lost in the busyness of life. Some days we were tired etc but once we got started, we got into it and it was good. I like the ground rules that you have set and it will be so interesting to read the diaries at the end. I think 14 days is a good start and you can reevaluate it at the end. Maybe you will be having so much fun you wont want to stop Good on you for trying something new and challenging yourselves a bit. It can only bring on more communication something thats so important in relationships. Yes I would be interested in following your progress. Yes I would be stoked to take on the challenge ( If I had someone to do it with LOL).

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RHP User

8 years ago

At the risk of being slammed for being negative, not the case here, I think it's a fun idea, more on that in a sec, but what did you mean by an invitation from one person or the other can't be refused? Do you mean if one of you, you or your partner, invites in a person, you have to accept and have sex with them? If so, that would be my worst nightmare, surely you would end up having sex with people you weren't attracted to, at some point? Anyway, I'll wait for your response, you may not have meant that. If you're okay with that, I'm not judging, but I couldn't do that myself. The numbers or frequency is awesome though, all for that 👍

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RHP User

8 years ago

Will be fun! I think that you will get into the swing of it and continue it on.!

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megz85g

8 years ago

I'm guessing they mean if one partner says to the other they want to have sex, they can't say no. I don't read it as a third person coming in? - Posted from rhpmobile

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luvsilver

8 years ago

Not sure ITM but my take on it was that if one suggested sex to the other (or vice versa) then sex it was.Not introducing a third or fourth person in to the play that couldn't be refused. Mr Luvsilver

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RHP User

8 years ago

you could include one session must involve lingerie or food,just for extra fun

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RHP User

8 years ago

Your spot on luvsilver, never any other people invited into our bedroom unless we both agree. This exercise is just for us and that rule was made so that one or the other couldn't delay sex by saying ie I just want to finish watching the news first. Penalties apply for any refusals,,,,, which could be fun in themselves,,, Sorry if it was a bit unclear ITM , hoping this straightens it out .

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RHP User

8 years ago

what a great idea. Good on you - both of you! I love the idea of the diaries too. In my opinion, you'll both be exhausted but deliriously happy at the end of the fortnight and will want to continue. I guess you've been together for many years however I'm sure you'll be amazed at how much you learn about each other, and about each other sexually and about each other's stamina. If you feel inclined to share a little of this adventure with us here on RHP, I look forward to reading how it went. PoisonIV's idea of having a food "session" was a good one. I recommend peanut butter.....mmmmmmm and honey, whipped cream and strawberry topping.Have a beach session.Shower session and kitchen of course.Out on the balcony (make your neighbours jealous)Back seat of the car. Another session could start with Dirty Dancing - put your fave music on.Opposite of naked - make each other cum with all your clothes, including undies, still on.Start off one night role playing picking each other up in a hotel bar that you haven't been to before but would like to try, then progress on up to a room to complete the evening.Dress ups - he's in a cop uniform and she's in a nurse uniform (or whatever outfits turn you on)

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SexAddictTJ

8 years ago

Does this challenge include going it solo ? I only ask, because has been a few months since I've had the pleasure of initimacy with a female, but am very much a regular solo performer in amongst my long working hours. The only thing i guess that concerns me with this if it does include solo's like myself ..is does it mean that I have to cut it back to only once a day for 14 days ? Lol ...just not sure that's st all possible that's all :) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

😀😉 okay thanks Mr Luv and op, well now I'm in 😊 lucky you. You'll have no time to be chit chatting to us here, did I say I was jealous?? 😛

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RHP User

8 years ago

Sorry, I was reading backwards 😀 just saw your comment 😊 thanks, I'm up to speed now and 100% behind this challenge 😛

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RHP User

8 years ago

I think it was 2013 and we made a New Years resolution to have sex on average once a day for the whole year! We did miss some days but had some big weekends (over 10) to catch up. For it to count it had to be vaginal penetration with at least one of us having an orgasm. Sex with other people didn't count either. I think the final tally was 435! It was a very good year! Mr D ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

I can only dream of such a scenario. Its been over a year for me. Getting onto 18 months but I love the idea and that it forces you to be a bit more creative for each day. Have fun! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Great idea guys, and a positive way to create change in your relationship.Keep us posted and share your experiences as Iam sure this will be helpful to others out there (including us)....Cheers A & B

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RedHotCoast

8 years ago

......Time we skip a day is when we are meeting another cpl. It's nice to stay "clean" prior to meeting. Sometimes we go months in a row with sex everyday. Sometimes 3 or 4 times a day.

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RHP User

8 years ago

Wow that will bring so much closeness and bonding back into your relationship :) role plays, turning up to his work with no panties he he going to movies and snuggling in close, walking on beach and finding a sand dune.... So many things oh I'm so excited for you guys and jealous lol xo - Posted from rhpmobile

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Laidback_Fun

8 years ago

You have inspired us to take a 14 challenge as well! We have both chosen 7 tasks, all of which have gone into a hat. Then, each day one is drawn out, and that is the days challenge. Everything from mutual masturbation to outdoor sex, car sex etc. Such a great idea to challenge ourselves! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

8 years ago

Wow, fantastic comments and some awesome ideas, some of which we have unashamedly plagiarised. Ideas in the hat and even rethinking time wise when others go daily for months,,, very impressive stuff. Not sure the local medical fraternity is equipped to keep us that fit,, . Could be a good test for them. Now our update,,, Sat,, start day, easy easy, great day/night, beers, porn and lots of naughty sexercise.Sun, recovery breakky. morning glory and afternoon swim in the pool and a few more fun and games. Thinking this is easyMon,, Reality and work set in but the candle has not dimmed, and was strong passionate and awesome if it can be described like that.Tues.... Game over. we tried to carry over one of the spares from the weekend but umpire ruled it out Perhaps poor timing on our behalf as issues got in the way. So we start again today and things are looking grand,,,, Interested people stay tuned,,,

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RHP User

8 years ago

I thought I'd post here in the hope you are following this thread and I can attract your attention to the people who are wanting to follow up with you. Ilovelaughter has posted a thread specially to ask. Cheers, Peachy

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RHP User

8 years ago

Thanks Peachy for bringing this to our attention, we'd assumed that it wasnt that important to others that we update and completely missed Ilovelaughters thread ( Will have to go and check it out. ) so didn't follow through on our report's. Extremely remiss of us and hope that we can be forgiven,,, or punished if any one cares too in real life of course So the end result was interesting. We failed at the fourteen successive days which was posted previously, but picked up again and was having a grand time until Mr had to go away for work. Mission stalled for obvious reasons, and he was sharing a hotel room so phone/webcam proved problematic to say the least,mission abandoned! It wasnt a complete failure though, we picked up when he returned and the concerted effort has proven if nothing else to be very enjoyable to say the least. Because we had already wrecked the challenge we didnt try to restart it but paid a little more attention to sex and the dividends have been grand. Not that we have had major issues in that area but some of the suggestions and ideas that the good people from RHP put foreward have been welcomed and implemented. The afternoon spent on the banks of a local river proved to be fantastic, even the odd invasive ant couldn't ruin it . Mrs gagged, bound and blindfolded and teased and tortured a little was a bit better than ok . Well a lot better really !!! Some webcam with a nice couple from east was a bit of a highlight. Games of cards for oral sex to the winner has had MR smiling as he nearly always wins cards.But really no one loses or misses out . To summarise, the challenge was unsuccessful in itself but has paid great dividends and benefits going forward. And where once we had well satisfied sex bits, they are now extremely well looked after and the brains have followed suit and we are closer and more in tuned and even more open with each other than what we were previously, which was a bit of a surprise because we thought we were pretty much as open as we could be. Thanks everyone for your interest and be good to get your feedback.

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