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Fragile ego or just frustrated?
October 14 2014
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Elle.... from what Ive read, and learned form other members..... the reply you received is sadly, all too common. I don't know if its a brittle ego, or rejection of a sense of entitlement, or just shitful manners. All of the above, perhaps. What I DO know... is that it adds further evidence to why you rejected them in the first place. I used to offer a lot of aid to guys whip asked how to draft a profile or write messages that are opened, read and replied to.These days, Im somewhat hesitant to do these things because how someone chooses to represent themselves, even if that public relations image is a total crock of shit and self-appointed advertising.... IS a true representation of their personality. If their profile is a lie, they are a lie. If their profile contains little effort, they will exert little effort on you.If they write all about their sexual abilities as if selling their resume... they're likely to be focussed on themselvesAnd if they become angry and abusive because a total stranger they've never spoken to or met declines their offer..... imagine how they'd react face to face if their behaviour, personality, attitude and/or presentation dint turn out to be what you prefer! Rejection is part of life. Waiter - "Sorry sir, we are all out of the NZ green lip mussels this evening" Customer - "Fuck you, ugly bastard, I wouldn't eat here anyway even if you paid me". Not likely. How we deal with rejection says more about us than the rejection itself.Its annoying, and offensive to receive such replies.... but, as Tayslor Swift says...... shake it off.You don't know these people and therefore they mean nothing to you.... so why care what they say. DG
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Twisted_Mister
10 years ago
But definitely a dickhead. Elle, you're not old and DEFINITELY not ugly. You've encountered the reason it's difficult for so many men on this site - wankers with a sense of entitlement the size of Saturn. And its rings. Speaking of rings, yours is mighty nice!!! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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Circe
10 years ago
It seems that many have. Don't overanalyse it. Some people are just dickheads, end of explanation. Nothing to do with you or the site.
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
But it seem to have only very happened when I use the quick reply, so I tend not to use it any more. I send a personalised message and if they keep messaging I just don't answer them. I think it's a case of "damned if you do, damned if you don't"......💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
I agree with MischeviousLad and Twisted_Mister, these guys do not have the emotional strength to handle rejection. After years on this site I have seen people like this come and go, they never last. They are very fragile and unfortunately lack the emotional maturity to say thank you for your honesty. It is very unfortunate as those of us who can accept a no thanks end up with the people who just don't respond at all and give no feedback due to people like you have experienced. So the end result becomes behaviour all round because of a chicken or the egg scenario. Elle, you are obviously a lovely, kind and intelligent woman, and as the others have said don't let them get to you. There are plenty to go around but also lots of great people as well. Cheers Rob
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RHP User
10 years ago
clearly of beauty being only skin deep...Ugliness is ugliness,rhp didn't cause it.you didn't cause it Elle,he ie just ugly xxQ
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MsJonesy
10 years ago
He found you attractive enough to approach in the first place, just changed his mind after you did not reply in the manner he wanted and expected. The comment "you’re old and ugly and I wouldn’t f^*k you anyway’. " sounds like a kiddy tantrum in the sandpit... oh hang on, that's where we are! Don't mind me, I'm just amusing myself
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RHP User
10 years ago
poor young boy has been rejected more times than a counterfiet note at the casino smoke machine !! Bahahaha Young boy if your reading this , son this is why when i venture out and onto a good pie hunt i send maximum amounts of various effective and ineffective messages individually customised for every particular target !! And if that does not work ? Off to the pub or an old favorite . But in your case young boy go pull ya dick . Bahahaha Miss Elle i would gladly accept a no thanks from you ! Hey wanna go out sometime ?? My shout ?? Regards Bigocean - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
that you can assume these people would act like that to your face, I think many are only game to because they are safe behind the computer screen. Most guys would not dare say a lot of the things they say to me in here in real life because they would not get away with it. I find it a bit sad but I know I have got cranky at men who don't deserve it because I have had a trail of tools before him that have been sleezy wankers and you do tend to start thinking everyone is the same in here.
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TallBaldSexy
10 years ago
The guys a sook he'll survive his ordeal im sure. I got a knock back myself two days ago - oh i realise its hard to believe - but its true! My flirt was returned to me with flirt - the short answer no the long answer is NO NO NO - or whatever it is. Anywayz i thought dearie me that is a tad rude my initial contact was simply a polite "nudge nudge wink wink" flirt. So I politely objected to the abruptness of this members response. Turns out she had been peppered by cranky guys carrying on at her because of her rejection....Funnily enough its potentially turned into a possible yes for me... My advice to inexperienced guys has always been - Stay calm, soldier on & you shall get much improved results! SA
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Smilingwithfun
10 years ago
that he was attacking the very thing he wanted & was denied. Primal response. Hope he wakes up soon.
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passion8_l
10 years ago
I've received a few nasty messages when I've replied with a rejection and unless I'm too busy I usually reply with a friendly and polite personalised message. I'm beginning to think that maybe it would be better to ignore them, particularly when it's from someone who does not match what I'm looking for. The worst was from a married man who told me that I probably had saggy tits because my cup size was a D, I was no doubt an opinionated bitch because I'm educated and if I'm lucky enough to have a 30 year old fuck me it's only because he's using me as a cum dump.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your right I am old and ugly, and I understand you will not fuck me. I guess now a blow job is out of the question? Sorry I am looking for guys that want to fuck me and my girlfriend, just never saw that on your profile. My bad I just had a bit of pushy juice in my eye and missed that bit. ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Great response. OP, I agree with DG completely. Who knows the true reason why the person responded the way he did. Regardless of why, it's a completely crappy, ugly response and a sign-post to steer well clear of him. I've had plenty of messages like that from men over the years I've been here. I ignore, delete and move on. I absolutely won't invest any of my energy in someone who thinks it's OK to spew nastiness like that. He could be a great bloke having a bad day, but it's the kind of bad day I want nothing to do with. What often surprises me is the way women get caught up in responses like that (based on past forum threads and posts) eg why did he do it, I don't deserve that, what an asshole, men are bastards, I don't understand how a man could act like that, I should have let him down more gently etc. And worse even, when a woman responds with matching vitriol. Ewww. A response like that from a man is petty. Any investment of time worrying about the response or getting angry/self-righteous/hurt by the response is, in my view, equally petty and a complete waste of the precious time we all have. So I don't ever give those kind of messages a second thought (other than a bit of gratitude that he revealed his true colours early). I note from various posts over the years that nasty messages are not just sent by men. From all accounts women can be ugly in their responses when rejected as well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hate it when I get abused for beating them off with my stick!!! Perhaps maybe I should put clothes on next time?? Lol :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's always nice when people out themselves and show their true colours before you meet them face to face . GG♒️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' But it seem to have only very happened when I use the quick reply, so I tend not to use it any more. I send a personalised message I've maybe received a handful of responses like the OP in five years. I've made my own template replies that read a bit friendlier than the RHP ones. If a writer gives his name, I'll include it in my response. Inthekiss, my response to one message like that was " Good luck with that."
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Lovinit28' But it seem to have only very happened when I use the quick reply, so I tend not to use it any more. I send a personalised message I've maybe received a handful of responses like the OP in five years. I've made my own template replies that read a bit friendlier than the RHP ones. If a writer gives his name, I'll include it in my response. Inthekiss, my response to one message like that was " Good luck with that."
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RHP User
10 years ago
Of course ppl get shitty if not handled the right way.. Like it or not ' you are a target and the laws of averages say it will happen at some time. Another guy would have passed it off as thats just the way it is .. Im of the belief a large majority of women are here for entertainment purposes anyway. After the flirting is finished the game starts to change along come the inevitable ejections.. BTW' This is just my opinion. So to the ladies ' who are serious' and use the site as intended' keep your knives in it's pouch for another day.. Elle67.. Not saying you shouldn't be upset at his no brain reply. just pointing out this is bound to happen at some time and dont take it to heart.. Think of it this way, you found out his real persona ' just in time . Dodged a bullet as they say.. Now you can concentrate on getting to know the guy's your real interest lay with... BTW ' luv ur posts, always honest and non bitchy.. Jay
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RHP User
10 years ago
....It would be nice to just get any replies be they positive or otherwise. Whilst there is no excuse for bad manners, I think that the endless profiles here that dont bother to make an effort to reply fuel the frustration of many men and they then possibly vent their frustration when they get a reply that rejects them. In your case, i think your initial judgement was right and your response correct, after all you did specify an age range and even then you took the time to send a reply. The other opinions here that have said a negative or abusive response back to a courteous ' no thanks' message should be ignored out of hand are right. Last resort there's always the block option
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just now on a vanilla site: Him: heyMe: Hi, I'm afraid your message didn't quite do it for me, so good luck here.Him: huh?Me: Take care.Him: wierdo
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'MissBlissBomb' It seems that many have. Don't overanalyse it. Some people are just dickheads, end of explanation. Nothing to do with you or the site. I'm not so sure I agree ... I'd say the "site" or environment has a lot to do with it. He expected rejection from the 18 - 25 yr old hotties he approached first. He was shaken when he couldn't get anywhere within his own demographic .. being caught up in the process and determined not to feel like a failure he proceeded to those he thought (using his own man logic) would be "grateful" for the attention and oblige in soothing his battered ego ... he would never turn down an offer from a fit 20 yr old woman so surely no "older" woman would turn down his most generous offer :=/ The 80:20 imbalance is toxic to the psyche of long term users - both men and women. The dynamics and resultant expectations are all but diametrically opposed to those experienced in day to day life. It is no excuse for being malicious and rude in the face of rejection but there's more to it than just bad manners and poor form.
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RHP User
10 years ago
In three messages. Is his nickname Shake a spear?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some fantastic opinions here, infused with humour from 'inthekiss' that was gold lol
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beachgal20
10 years ago
Elle,I encountered almost the identical...wonder if it was the same pathetic guy...mine was a personalised version of your response, but still same vitriol....I might cop flack from this but I am a bit over young guys who cant take a nice thanks but no from an older woman. I have read the messages from various in replies and I agree with some and say others are off the mark.We all have the right to common decency.
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passion8_l
10 years ago
The men that respond in that way are often the reason women don't reply. I reply to all messages but after receiving a nasty one I have considered ignoring messages from men I have no interest in. I'm curious as to how many women are now at that point and as a result many men don't receive a reply. Effectively these men are ruining it for the nice genuine men on here. What you said does make sense; I'm sure it would be incredibly frustrating to rarely receive a response and although it's not acceptable I can see why a rejection could lead to such behaviour.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ahhh Rejection something I'm no stranger as with a lot of males in here well said DG I have had a few messages like that as well but the other way round I sent a message to a woman once introducing my self shaped the message around what she wrote in her profile you would think with the reply I got I was totally rude and obnoxious.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's wave a dagger:-) xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
Eager with my Pole?
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6exxy
10 years ago
I do love the new name😘 Gurl move on and don't worry about him. It is a shame that it does happen. Hopefully all will be better on the next one 😘
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RHP User
10 years ago
Thanks everyone for your kind words and comments. I guess age is a relative thing - compared to my grand-mom, I'm a spring chicken lol, and as long as I don't scream when I look in the mirror in the morning then I'm happy with my looks :). I just thought it was so unnecessary and, as a number of people pointed out, it makes things all the more difficult for all the good guys on this site who end up getting tarred with the same brush :/ Quoting 'inthekiss' Your right I am old and ugly, and I understand you will not fuck me. I guess now a blow job is out of the question? Sorry I am looking for guys that want to fuck me and my girlfriend, just never saw that on your profile. My bad I just had a bit of pushy juice in my eye and missed that bit. ;) That is absolute gold!! And I was very tempted... maybe next time. Quoting 'Meander' I've maybe received a handful of responses like the OP in five years. I've made my own template replies that read a bit friendlier than the RHP ones. If a writer gives his name, I'll include it in my response. Thanks Meander, I've taken that on board and created a couple of different template replies. On a different note, I hope everyone is having a great week... I'm heading over to Brisbane tomorrow to go watch the rugby. Just a little bit excited!! Much love,Elle xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Why I often don't respond to some messages. It's not my job to stroke an ego or make them feel better and I don't feel the need to explain myself. Plus, a "no" message often is responded with.... *whines* but whhhyyyyy, I'm a nice guy..... etc. Pointless. Clearly he's probably sexually frustrated.... not your monkey, not your circus! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean' Miss Elle i would gladly accept a no thanks from you ! Hey wanna go out sometime ?? My shout ?? Regards Bigocean - Posted from rhpmobile Hell yes! I'll even shout a bit too Much love,Elle xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hedgar Allen Pole :-) xxQ
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RHP User
10 years ago
I do find those men in life disgusting, people who view girls as the lesser or have ownership of them... And thus can judge or be disgustingly rude, sometimes I wish you could tag things people send to you as something they sent so others can see their true colours... Sorry for going on a rant about female equal rights but its very frustrating to see how far we are from it. when "Like a girl" is an insult every boy and girls knows and even this week with the Australian athletes in body paint. Where were the boys for this? Why just the girls? The same reason when a woman wins the Australian open she is asked who she is going to date, not what her future plans are as an athlete.... Most people don't even see this, but its all part of the same problem, and the solution starts with us, the guys. The simple slogan "Don't be that guy" Needs to be entrenched in all males from a young age. If we don't respect ourselves how are we going to pass on that or project that onto others. wow this is quite a rant... Sorry to the OP it might be a small derail but its on the topic of why he would explode on you, because he has been taught through media, friendship etc its okay to even think like that :(
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RHP User
10 years ago
DODGED. *sways off singing 'Let it gooooo ... Let it gooooo ...... ' Him monkey. Not your circus. :-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Unfortunately a lot of men out there have big egos to counter their own insecurities. Just because you are on a intimate dating site doesnt mean every woman on here wants to sleep with them. They dont want to sleep with every woman on here so how can they have expectations that they will - Posted from rhpmobile
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PL1963
10 years ago
You're dead right, I don't slag women that knock me back, nor chase them any longer, but I appreciate a nice reply and thank them for it. These cretins do "fuck it up" for us genuine guys, but what does a man do? I know the "filth" and "abusive" msg's turn ladies and couples off, that is why 80% of the profiles on here are "dead in the water" and rarely return. But I'm afraid rejection is no reason to turn savage. Cheers P.L.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would actually love to get the response you sent him rather than the usual no response. At least you know it was received....sometimes I wonder 'is this thing on'. And I can see why just from your profile why he was interested which is clearly why he showed his disappointment in such a childish way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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6exxy
10 years ago
If you look at the messages in your inbox it will tell you if the message was revinced or read or unread.😀
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6exxy
10 years ago
Grrr
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes I've also had a few of those nasty replies. I dont answer to them as I dont take it personally. And its not just the younger guys either. I was called a C..t in one. I always try to reply to first contact messages that im not attracted to. I dont use a template, I just politely say thanks for the message but im looking for something else, etc. I dont make it about them, as I dont want them to take it personally either. Ive had many guys and couples message me back and thank me for taking the time to acknowledge their message with a reply as they dont hear back a lot of the time. I just think its common courtesy to do so. But the small number of guys who chose to send a comeback with degredation are probably the reason a lot of women dont both replying
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think your awesome for replying , I've had that reply a couple of times and away respond , " thanks for getting back to me and best of luck " Nice of you to reply , he's just a wanker xx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
He didn't appeal to me, his profile was brief and poorly written and I didn't find him attractive in his pictures, but he'd sent a relatively polite message so I responded with a "thanks for your message but you're not what I'm looking for" and I received a disgruntled reply saying "yeah, lol, whatever. Sorry I'm not a 20 year old with a six pack. At least I have the guts to show my face" I think it shows a lack of insight and a lack of respect for women. This guy would rather assume that I'm a shallow gutless person who is only looking for youth and bulging muscles than accept that I just might not be attracted to him. It's yet another example of the sense of entitlement that a lot of men have as DG and AGuyWithRespect pointed out. This thread should be linked with the 'Manners' thread that was started asking why we women are so rude we can't even be bothered to respond to messages..... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
there is never an excuse to reply like that! its low and u can bet he wouldn't say it verbally! i like a reply of any kind! if its a "no"i appreciate the effort as most don't take that time, which is understandable also!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry that it's happened to you but some cannot handle rejection. I've been fortunate when I've replied with a polite 'no thanks, you're not what I'm looking for but good luck with your search' I've always gotten nothing but kind responses thanking me for being police and courteous enough to respond even though it was a no thanks. Doesn't mean there isn't any jerks on here though...
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moreforyou69
10 years ago
Sorry to seem callous, but this goes on everyday. Boy meets girl, girl declines his advances, boy gets pissy and carries on.... Like a BOY! Don't sweat it; so his feelings are hurt because you turned him down!? He'll survive, and so will you. Better things await you both. Enjoy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
This guy has a few issues, but sadly he is not alone. And while they are his issues, men like this unfortunately tend to bring all of us down with them. He is clearly so full of self importance that he feels that he must have the last word. He cant simply walk away with his tail in between his legs and move onto the next profile, he needs to assert himself and make himself feel like a big man. He feels like shit because you have "rejected" him, so how could he live with himself knowing that you were happy with yourself afterwards? No, he needs to bring on the insults and try and make you feel as rejected as he is feeling. He is simply a child, he shouldnt be on this website, because as I understand, this is a website for adults only.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Wow, I didn't realise it was quite common for people to get nasty when they are rejected. I do get a lot of knock backs but if the attraction is only one way, it is called stalking. So, I just send a quick thank you note and wish her all the best. I mean it as well. Elle, it is a good thing you found his character in time. Sure, he might have snapped due to a lot of rejections but he should have apologised soon after realising it was unfair to take it out on you. The only thing I find uncertain about is not receiving a response. Does that mean she hasn't looked at my profile, she doesn't want to meet but doesn't want to tell me that, should I contact her again but yet I don't want to be a bother if she is not interested.
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RHP User
10 years ago
His manners were obnoxious and he probably needs to run home to mummy for some therapy as to why the bad bad lady didn't want to play. Theres no need to be nasty so thats just poor form from him. He may have been confused however about your "age range" you have listed in your profile. You say 40-55 but I couldn't help noticing you have a generous selection of male friends in the 24-32 year age range so maybe this 32 year old thought he was in with a chance... Food for thought.
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Pabsss
10 years ago
The bloke was behaving like a spoil brat,, having a tanti at the shops, because mum made him put the lollies, that she said he couldn't have, back on the shelf.. Given the reaction to a rejection from someone he has niether met nor knows ... sounds like you dodged a bullet by notaccepting the initial invitation.. Personally I only get peeved at people that can't be bothered to send a reply.. a quick reply only takes a nano-second... if someone isn!t interested well that's ... their loss..LOL.. happy to get feedback if offered ...but any response beats the crap out of none at all... Which is just plain rude.... Rejection l can handle .. they've never met me & don't know what pleasures they are foregoing....LOVL No Reply at all .. that bruises my (not particularly) fragile ego....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Elle, you should be pleased with yourself. Your reply was factual (the mismatching of the profiles) and courteous. And you did reply. You had other options - "the short answer is no ; the long answer is NOooooooNO" (something like that). Or you could have ignored him or blocked him. He has the problem - not you. We get quite inappropriate overtures, given our very explicit profile. We strive always to reply in a timely way (we may occasionally miss one!). And sometimes we get nasty follow-ups. We then ignore or block. It is all to do with whose problem it is. We worry about the very poor use of English (spelling and grammar) in a lot of messages that come to us. We use it as a predictor of whether we are likely to be able to connect with our heads (on our shoulders). At least fun trying to ...... R and S
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its hardly a negative response so wouldn't worry . You don't owe an explanation when , what you are seeking is clearly visible to him on your profile ! I'm going to go with he was probably just frustrated plus had a bit of a bruised ego to boot . - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's so annoying to hear, it's hard enough for single guys on RHP as it is without people behaving like that . There's absolutely no excuse. If you don't like being rejected then you're on the wrong site! Lol I'm always appreciative if someone bothers to reply and say sorry you don't match what I'm looking for and always thank them and move on. God save us from boys with fragile egos.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What do you women expect when your all hung up on looks and not hung else. Then you either block someone straight away after they send you a nice message as your that stuck up. Then if you do reply you are to lazy to even write your own message. At least write a descent messaged and save it as a template.
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RHP User
10 years ago
What do you women expect when your all hung up on looks and nothing else. Then you either block someone straight away after they send you a nice message as your that stuck up. Then if you do reply you are to lazy to even write your own message. At least write a descent messaged and save it as a template.
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's right inthekiss you blocked me just for looking at your profile how pathetic is that
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't think that women on this site judge men solely based on looks... we look at your profiles and read them. If you're not getting the responses you want, then maybe you should look a bit closer to home and write something that will actually make us want to engage with you. First impressions count on here... and based on both your profile and your post in this thread, I can't say that I blame Inthekiss one little bit for blocking you. *Elle sits back and waits for the vitriol to pour in* Much love, Elle xx
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Quoting 'notafaker' What do you women expect when your all hung up on looks and not hung else. Then you either block someone straight away after they send you a nice message as your that stuck up. Then if you do reply you are to lazy to even write your own message. At least write a descent messaged and save it as a template. I would say you have just done yourself a big disservice and expect that you will be appearing on quite a few block lists.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Couldn't care less passion8 as it's true and you know it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Definitley a certified wanker though... Your personalized response would have been in vain, because his oversized ego is squashing his pint sized brain so it wouldn't have registered anyway.. ;) Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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passion8_l
10 years ago
OK so if you conclude that ALL women are like that based on the rejection messages you have received, are women to assume that all men are arseholes because of the distasteful messages we've received? If that is your line of thinking I don't know why you even bother to message anyone or for that matter continue to be a member.
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RHP User
10 years ago
So passion tell me this. If you had a great message from an average guy and a mediocre message from a good looking guy with muscles what would you choose. The latter I bet. My membership runs out in November and then I'm done not that's any of your business.
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passion8_l
10 years ago
When a man messages me first I take note of what the message says because that tells me a lot about him. Then I look at his profile and base my decision on the whole package, obviously there has to be an attraction but I never discount anyone based on looks or physique alone in fact I have dated some average men because their initial message got my attention and after chatting further I was attracted to them as a person. So don't try to assume you know me and place that bet because you would lose big time. And by the way, not that it's any of my business, but I think you're making the right decision not renewing your membership because in my opinion if you were to renew it you would be wasting your money.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Your just saying what you want people to hear so it makes you look good. I don't care what people think. The end
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Circe
10 years ago
[C]ountless men deal with their vulnerability by transferring vulnerable feelings to feelings of anger. The anger then serves to ‘prove’ that they are not, in fact, vulnerable, which would imply they are not man enough to take the pressure.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ever heard the expression 'I refuse to have a battle of wits with an unarmed person'? Save your energy 😘 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'notafaker' Couldn't care less passion8 as it's true and you know it. About truth. In RHP.... (or anywhere else where people are in control of how they choose to represent themselves through photos, words and emails) ..... you create your own "truth". Your version of truth is vented dissatisfaction. Id suggest, after reading your comments and profile.... that your dissatisfaction with this site is more about your dissatisfaction with yourself. DG
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passion8_l
10 years ago
Oh but sometimes one just can't resist the urge 😉
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passion8_l
10 years ago
That's why you felt the need to message me privately and justify yourself. Go back and have a read of your posts and not just the posts on this thread. There lies the reason you are getting knocked back and blocked. If that's your opinion of me I can live with that because the people that matter know me and know you're full of shit. Now, when did you say your membership runs out?
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RHP User
10 years ago
@ passion How old are you.
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rupamohan
10 years ago
Fragile ego or just frustrated!!! Small fraction may have another reason for such response. Playing psychological games with opponents? In this case though you are not opponent but it can still be habitual response. In this situation ego or frustration may not be present. It is a game to put others dn so that if I can't win..I discourage opponent to play.
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Discover what RHP is doing offline
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RHP member's RL secrets
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