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Frequent Viewers who never make contact
January 29 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's nothing. Some guys can view women every day, twice a day and more. Maybe you come up in their searches and they are just flicking through everyone in their area.
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RHP User
10 years ago
May be browsing through all profiles, on PC or phone, so even if they view you for half a second it's counted. Especially if they're close to you and browsing by distance. Check on whether they are guests or premium members, if they are guests they might be trying to signal that they are interested. They might be reluctant to send a flirt, as every second profile does say they don't have time for flirts. This doen't really relate to you, but one time I messaged a couple on another site. No response for a month, but then I noticed them viewing me every other day for quite a while. I figured perhaps as they were first timers, they were getting more curious but unsure of whether to proceed or reply, or make a decision from others. So I messaged again, slightly more reassuring. No response and I haven't been viewed again for a while now. So, sometimes, you just never know. Considering how many messages and flirts every woman/couple gets, I'm surprised that you are even noticing the who & when in your profile view list! I'm not sure about how others use their hotlist. Now they have a "shortlist", but normally I would be using it to remind myself of certain profiles for later messaging, especially if I'd ran out of messages for the period.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have been known to do this, my main reason? I have shocking memory! :) Another reason, is I may not yet be in a position to message, especially if who I am viewing is interstate, but am keeping an eye on things. These are just 2 reasons, and others will have others. At a guess, another reason would be that the 'visitor' can't message you, even if they did want to and are hoping you will notice them noticing you and you will message them. SS
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well for a start, your profile states you are looking for females, so if I was a guy reading that, I wouldn't bother with a message
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
A few that are regulars. Daily. Few times a day. Hot listed by some with not even a flirt. Wank away to your hearts content boys........ Good to see them practising safe sex
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Seachange
10 years ago
of viewers. I have them checking me out almost every other day. Some are premium members. A few are nice tradies in Melbourne (so no interstate issues and you know who you are) who are just guests but they always look into my profile and I see there them viewing my profile a few times in a row specially if I change my pic around... One gent ( a guest) keep sending me a flirt and I always respond that if they are serious to connect, send me a message. No response. But I get the constant viewing still. When I see them, I just ignore them as I know they are just peeping toms. Lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a few, but then I am guilty of viewing some profiles over and over for various reasons without making contact. Reasons being, hot but attached, hot, very hot and way out of my league, or hot but too far away. Maybe change hot for interesting. So I sneak a look now and again and let my imagination play games......We put photos up for attention, so I don't mind when I get some. : )
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Missb4u
10 years ago
to check out pics cause they are super fine.
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Violetincredible
10 years ago
Mostly because I'm just flicking through profiles and the same ones always come up, some because I like reading them, some because friends tell me to check them out, some because they have common friends, some because I like their user names, sometimes because I'm following stuff up from forums... Lol people probably think I'm a stalker... I don't pay any attention to who looks at me so I have no idea if I have any stalkers... Xxviolet
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6exxy
10 years ago
look at profiles we like more than once. Perhaps if nothing else but maybe to attract their attention. Maybe to see if they have interest in you as well. Everyone is looking for that ✨🎉💐
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RHP User
10 years ago
One lady in particular has viewed my profile numerous times. I've messaged her a couple of times but no response. She viewed me again recently after a bit of an absence.Sweety say Hi I don't bite...
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RHP User
10 years ago
I view some profiles more than once or twice, only because the information you get on the first click isn't enough to remember them by.... Their is the times when you enjoy checking them out again... The thing that gets me is they know you've checked them out but they may never contact you, catch 22. The other thing is your what their looking for and you message them only they haven't bothered to reply, how rude. Ok you may not be the one, so please reply with sorry your not what we are looking for.... Sorry off soap box now lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
different reasons and also sometimes simply !different browsing habits. I might just be direct and ask. Also. ah, hello, was I on cialis when I wrote that profile??! FFS. I haven't read it since I posted it. that's getting a little attention sometime very soon!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Who view my profile at least three times a day.......they are looking for votes for the famle in the amateur pics comp. Most of the single guys probably know who i'm talking about. They need to find some new hobbies rather than basing their lives on amateur pic comps, but hey everyone has their own illness lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
or they weren't memorable until I see their profile and then it gels, oh yeah, I remember that one now! I hate it when you forget one you don't want seeing that you checked them out again, doh... and of course they are online to see you do it! I only really look at people who look at me and sometimes I do remember who it is that checked me out but I just click on their profile anyway so they know that I know how many times I see them looking, lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Are just tourists...they like to check out the sites...even the old ruins 😃xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
I would visit alllll the time the hot guys , but then my husband caught me licking the monitor. Now am a guest and those grey ghosts are not so tasty. I like men to look at me, that is why I have up raunchy shots so they can have a bit of a tug when the wife goes off to pick the kids up from school the thought of millions of sperm being spent on my behalf brings a tear of joy to these old eyes. they just follow the bouncing boobies
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RHP User
10 years ago
There seem to be a lot of people who are lost for words. Even the keyboard jockeys seems to be lost for words too. I don't know how many messages I have sent out regarding parties, invites or just trying to make contact. But it seems to be look,look but don't say anything. But some people are genuine and know what it is about. Those are the ones that get to play and have fun. The rest they get to stick to their hand ;).
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't get confused or bothered. My Profile is meant to be viewed and I like it. My Profile views for the month now hovers around the 2500 mark. Keep looking guys and other Members. You are very welcome !!! Amy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am guilty of this, but i don't think it's a bad thing. more like flattery. There are some people i find captivating, but I don't fit the criteria for them. You see how many profiles are quite abrupt about people trying their luck when it clearly says they don't fit. So sometimes it's nice to look and move along.
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
I like to read the articles.
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RHP User
10 years ago
They look 6 times a day or send you 20 flirts even when you've said no :)
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Mischeviouslad
10 years ago
Quoting 'Hotnhotter' They look 6 times a day or send you 20 flirts even when you've said no :) Don't forget.... multiple friend requests.... chat requests and flirt after flirt within 5 minutes....
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RHP User
10 years ago
...who have a look at my profile a couple of times a week, sometimes a day. They never message me and I don't mind, saves me the effort of scripting a polite reply if they want to meet and I'm not interested. The women that is....it will be pretty easy to form a polite reply if a man ever messages me. I think maybe they're just having a look at my photos...they're all harmless, but I add a new one every so often.The regulars would have realised that a while ago. Or they may be checking out my occasional comments in theforums too. I don't check out anyones profile on even a semi regular basis, as I don't want to be perceived as a creepy stalker who doesn't say anything......but now and again I will have another look at a profile of one of the Forums personalities( for want of a better word ) as it gives me an idea of what these people are like. After all, I have been reading their opinions on here for over a year and it gives me a better picture of them as a person, rather than justa thumbnail photo that makes snappy comments. I notice all have intelligently written, well fleshed( sic ) out profiles. I'm fully aware of the stealth mode and that many use it, but I don't much care for hiding.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just joined rhp, first time I have ever been on any sort of dating/sex siteand was blown away with the amount of messages from guys without even seeing my pic .How on earth are you suppose to respond to each one ? lol some guys have sent message after message , and viewed profile so many times and there are quit a few that just keep viewing without messaging.Doesn't bother me that they view. If it makes them happy why not. Mel
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RHP User
10 years ago
That was complaining about guys regularly looking at her profile so I looked at her profile about 100 times in a row. Now that's how to stalk!
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Chillihoney
10 years ago
totally creeps me out
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im not a profile scanner at all.. If something attracts me I might have a sticky but then I move on.. I'd be lucky if I open a profile maybe 2 - 3 times in a month.. Lack of face pic's , unrealistic criteria , false descriptions , egotists and game players ' all turn me off.. However' when I do get someone who is what they say they are come along , its incredibly refreshing...
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Seachange
10 years ago
Aww thanks. Lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have done it. 1. Bad Memory2. Sometimes bored an just flicking through profiles3. Sometimes I would like to send a message, but have run out and would prefer not to send a flirt4. I generally view those who have vied mine... this does have some to and fro5. Sometimes it is a new main picture that draws attention6. Sometimes it is reading the forum and want to refresh who it is who is posting a comment (that is often)7. Some member often ad to the pics and I like to check out what is new they have put up. There could be others, but that will do. There s no malice in it at all. I also have people who check mine out regularly, I view it as just being on here and having a profile. Cheers
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RHP User
10 years ago
I cant stop perving at myself...sick stalker that I am
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Fit73' Who view my profile at least three times a day.......they are looking for votes for the famle in the amateur pics comp. Most of the single guys probably know who i'm talking about. They need to find some new hobbies rather than basing their lives on amateur pic comps, but hey everyone has their own illness lol I know exactly who you mean. They are making some money out of it, but it must be time consuming!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just forget sometimes who I've checked out. The lovely ladies that change their main pic around are really to blame though, cunning, sexy little minxs.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive set my profile to invisible when checking out profiles. The reason being, when i first got on here( back when I was oh so innocent) if I viewed a guys profile, quite often I would then recieve a message from them saying," hey you were looking at my profile... Etc. I suppose its a good message opener, but i was new and just flicking through.And im sure the ladies will agree that when you are new on here, its pretty full on with messages at first. So I went stealth mode. Or as I like to call it.. Ninja mode.And now I can look at pretties as often as I like, and not feel like they think im a stalker. Oh,and on another note, I found a way to cull messages recieved. I wrote in my profile that I have a strap on and aint afraid to use it. The single straights view me, but Im not getting messaged by them.They think Im a big ol' scary sword fighter now. Lucky I dont talk about hand puppets in my profile then!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Only one way to get noticed and that is to jump around like a loon. When a paid member I would just do a broad search, click on the very first profile and then click next, not even bothering to read the profiles. It got to be a chore so I automated it. I found it the easiest why to find people that where interested. They would notice me looking, and would click on my profile to find out who I am, most would shrug and move on. Every now and then I would see repeat clicks. There is a good chance something interests them about my profile. I would then read their profile to see if I was interested and take it from there. Works well and makes every one feel special and saves me time reading the endless and somewhat repetitive profiles. I have been told that it makes me look creepy, and that some people feel uneasy with someone hitting their profile several times a day, every day for months on end. All I can say is "block button.", keeps the creepy freaky repeat viewer in check so you can have a good time.
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RHP User
10 years ago
you are changing your pic regularly.... Then yep people will return to check out the new pic... I thought your pic is hot to be honest... But... You're not seeking men...or at least in the first 1/3 of it lol And... You live in stanmore....which I've never heard of... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I mean, why not? Or maybe send them the flirt, "I noticed you noticed me..." just to have fun with it.
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inspirit
10 years ago
...what was the post about again. also though to see what they have been posting on in the forums. You know - so I can see if they are serial bullshitter or not.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I look on my mobile ,, and click on the last profile and flick back tinder style ,, shows up as a view as you pass each profile . Maybe a check on the ego is appropriate on occasions - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
to people that interest me mainly because their profile says they are after something that I"m not and I just don;t wste people time pretending otherwise.That might be an age bracket, sex or sexual preference difference (as in your case) or something else like safe sex, body type (theirs and mine not matching), a simple plain weirdness that sounds like the person is either a nutcase or just a bit full of themselves, looking for a long term relationship (yikes Run LOL) .... a few other things. I probably lose out like this a bit because I'm sure there'd be many people with crap profiles as bad as my own who are actually quite normal in reality. If I do want to check someone out again though I just turn on the private view thing in settings so as not to look like a desperado. So yes if you've received a message from me consider yourself lucky (or very unlucky)
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RHP User
10 years ago
My gf and I made up a profile together but with countless views we have yet to make contact with other's unless we message them.... Our profile says Man but we are a couple and cannot change our profile to include one another, can we change thus error or will we need to delete our profile then loosing our payed membership so all those who view our profile may make contact ? Is it that our profile could not be what our viewer's are looking for ? It'd be nice to have other's show us interest by at least sending us a message ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
We have a couple from Newcastle that does that. So we wrote to them, just to start a convo and they didn't even write back........... Yet they still continue to look. Baffles me.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Weeell, quite often repeated profile views with no message has the same result for the viewer as actually sending a message after only a couple of views. I'm speculating that this way requires a little less effort and involves less risk of being rejected.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you pay for membership i dont see why you wouldnt look look look as much as you can but i also say hi alot - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Of us who use stealth mode, it's not 100%. Software glitch occasionally and it may show on their list. Usually when you really don't want it to. One of those awkward moments when they hit your page back straight away and you think "nnnooooooo!"
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RHP User
10 years ago
Oh really anywhichway? Im fucked then. No more ninja slinking for me. Damn, busted.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Maybe they guests and can not make contact and hope you will or just like to look till they pluck up the courage to send a email.
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RHP User
10 years ago
It's a compliment to be viewed time and time again. Plus you have way to many rules of engagement for your needs (seems only your needs) in your profile... I'd love to play with you but due to distance my man would be there every time ??
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have some blokes looking at my profile several times a day. Most of them are interstate so we will never meet anyway.As they say these days, I just don't get it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I have a few on my hotlist who are way out of my league but you can't help but day dream and have your cheeky perve now and then :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
One woman checks our profile on an almost daily basis. After a few weeks of this we messaged her the day after she blocked us . She still constantly views our profile though . WTF
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flashjack7
10 years ago
There was a stealth mode....must look into that! In regards to multiple viewings, yes we have a few that view our profile regularly. We just notice and move on. I love the pics we have up, so why shouldn't others also enjoy them? These viewers don't match what we are looking for, but hey, we need spectators as well as players to make it interesting. MrsFx
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RHP User
10 years ago
ContactWell for me it's the rejection thing, I've made contact with girls that meet pretty closely the ideals In the profile am never hear a word but see they are on line all the time. Yes I don't have profile pic as I'm cautious but have linked Facebook to one or two. It's a fine line of coming accross as needy or pushy as well. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
OP it could be that you are talking to their wife and they want to check you out ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Had a lady from my local area check my profile out regularly so once I paid up, I messaged her. I got a response of "not interested" so I guess she was being repeatedly curious! - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'willowtree265' Oh really anywhichway? Im fucked then. No more ninja slinking for me. Damn, busted. on your page. So let me know if you see my handle on your list.It'll just be me one of the several dozen times that I'll be looking at your photos in the coming days/weeks. You have to understand, I wont be perving.................
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TallHandsomeHung
10 years ago
It's very confusing, there are people that will flirt but never reply to your message and so a profile view may aid as a refresher. As already mentioned, you sometimes forget why you haven't messaged a particular person until you view their profile again and remember they were only looking for "insert something you don't quite meet" The only other time I can remember having multiple views is to check whether someone had been online after I had sent a message.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ok i will test it on yours now too. But hey i already have perved on your pics a few times, will force myself to go and do it another dozen times. Just for experimental reasons, not to perve...of course
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yep , common around here , if stalked more than once , I message . I have noticed however that on the phone app , the hotlist sometimes automatically loads and up they pop .Not bothered about peeps viewing , more annoyed at peeps asking for pictures (head shots ) when you want to be discreet and those that you start a convo , send the pictures , they still stalk but never get in contact , what's the deal with that ?I can assure them that real face to face is better than a play with themselves .How do you do stalk mode ?I think there may be 50 percent fake profiles on here , I know some are real because I have played with them a few times .
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RHP User
10 years ago
I straight up message them and ask if there was anything in particular that they liked that kept bringing them back 6 times a day. Some keep quiet. Some talk. Life's to short to wonder. Dive in and take the bull by the horns. Hit me up! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
That regularly view my profile give me the creeps. I am not talking about the ones who view your profile a few times a day in a few days. It is when it continues on for months of the viewer changes their profile name only to be blocked time again and time again. Just creepy - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Works the other way as well. Given we don't get much time to play (and don't you love when ya do they don't show up!) we forget who we were keen on for next available slot! I know there's the lists but they are long and outta control.Then one day you see them pop up and think $&@$ why didn't we contact him/them instead of the prick who did a no show! So as I said people dropping back in for a look jogs the memory for us. Pebbsnbambam :D
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RHP User
10 years ago
....... Im guilty of this ..... part of it is the way that I view ........ search by who's on line/ who's active , ... and then flick profile to profile, .... generally only for a few seconds assessing whether you know them or not/ or status changes etc ...... and part trying to remember whether the criteria match ( memories a shocker !)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Have one guy that seems to be able to view me over and over even after I block him!! A bit scary really?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'nomad74' Had a lady from my local area check my profile out regularly so once I paid up, I messaged her. I got a response of "not interested" so I guess she was being repeatedly curious! - Posted from rhpmobile But I must say I'm guilty of it... I do the same search every time I come on and then flick through the profiles one by one. Don't see the point of stealth mode really, if you don't want people to see you're looking at them why be on this site? - canhostbutubringthecondoms
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Plain
10 years ago
I dont know what the problem is, you are advertising after all, if someone clicks on more than 3 times I take it as interest and ask have you read my profile. Never hear from them again. There are guys that look but I suspect its checking out as a result of my musings on the forumns. Yes I look imagine and then read the man specification and interest drops alarmingly,get doubts and especially NO ATTACHED MEN blah blah really kills off further interest, so tend not to take it too much further. I still perve though as all who make an attempt on the photographs intrigue me more.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I get heaps also .. daily . my initial thoughts were perhaps a system glitch with the site but .. the exact same people over the two seperate profiles I've had in the last two years .. ? Bit too much of a coincidence lol .
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Quoting 'anywhichway007' Quoting 'willowtree265' Oh really anywhichway? Im fucked then. No more ninja slinking for me. Damn, busted. I'll test it on your page. So let me know if you see my handle on your list.It'll just be me one of the several dozen times that I'll be looking at your photos in the coming days/weeks. You have to understand, I wont be perving.................Finished the first few rounds of testing that on your page.Come to one conclusion after it. It's damn hot, very hot.......
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RHP User
10 years ago
You say the sweetest things. My strappy just got a chubby.😝
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RHP User
10 years ago
This post was a general interest question, it's not about ego, I'm simply interested in what people think. It's great to hear from those of you who do it or have wondered the same as me. Some multiple views I do take as a compliment, others are creepy. Particularly when their avatar is a full on cock shot and I've politely asked them to stop responding to my date finder, or we met once and didn't maintain contact. U6me9 I wasn't asking for a critique of my profile, so your three personal digs leading to "I'd love to play but... (I don't meet your sexual preference)", was just gold! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'lavushious' Maybe they guests and can not make contact and hope you will or just like to look till they pluck up the courage to send a email. You know I didn't think to check that. Guests get free flirts though, don't they? And one message a day? Good point though ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Bellabubbles' One woman checks our profile on an almost daily basis. After a few weeks of this we messaged her the day after she blocked us . She still constantly views our profile though . WTF That's one of the weirdest things I've read -
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Mr_Discovery' OP it could be that you are talking to their wife and they want to check you out ;-) I do like a smooth talker, you know ;)
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RHP User
10 years ago
Everyone gets free flirts, but guests don't get messages. Women used to get one free one a week, but I think that has stopped. Wantingsum, I had one guy who wouldn't stop looking, even after I blocked him. He would have only gotten the "Profile not available" message every time, but it was like he kept hoping it would change. ;-)
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RHP User
10 years ago
You know you can still block her by entering her name in the "Block user" box at the top of your block list?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Everyone gets free flirts, but guests don't get messages. Women used to get one free one a week, but I think that has stopped. Wantingsum, I had one guy who wouldn't stop looking, even after I blocked him. He would have only gotten the "Profile not available" message every time, but it was like he kept hoping it would change. ;-) That's a really good point about them checking and checking hoping your status might change. I guess it might seem that you're just taking a break...? And I guess that's why they might still reply to a date finder date... See this is why the forums are so great! ;) Don't you love team work hahahah!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Silkpeach is one of my 4 Hot profiles that when Im online I check out (which these days isn't often) and yes I send a few thousand sperm to and early grave. But I also find that whilst it may be a fantasy wank I also have two ladies I have meet and played with in that list and also enjoy reliving those memories. I do have a unicorn profile who is my current partner who blows my mind. The reality is "life is like a box of chocolates" and hey I put my hand up for the " I'm a dirty bastard who loves to serve on the beauty of a woman body" thats why Im on here.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'silkpeach' I cant stop perving at myself...sick stalker that I am It's understandable your a hot lushish full lady with a hot body I agree whole heartily. Just y humble opinion
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've wrote on here not long ago, regarding this subject.. I've checked out some profiles on a regular basis and have sent messages hoping for some reply but very few people reply. I'll chech them out again a few more time hoping to jolt their memory to reply. Christ knows I must be so ugly lol.... Hence the repeat viewing...
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