exploring_duo

exploring_duo

M39 F43

Fresh Meat

March 02 2021

So complete fresh meat here and still finding our way around RHP. Anyway - we are near Brisbane Australia and new to the swinging lifestyle. Came on here mainly as newbs, looking for any advice or anything those who have been in the lifestyle longer may have. Or even advice for meeting up with people from RHP - I mean we all make stupid mistakes we smack ourselves on the forehead for later wondering why we didn't think of it or something. This is your chance to save us from smacking our foreheads with some friendly advice :D

Comments

  • ElectricDreamers

    ElectricDreamers

    4 years ago

    Leave your expectations at the door. When you're starting out - check in with eachother consistently. What felt right 30 minutes ago might not feel so right. Have fun and be respectful - to your partner, your new playmates and yourself.

  • Deep_Love

    Deep_Love

    4 years ago

    Advice : Don't refer to your wife or yourselves as fresh meat 😆😆😆

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    Give yourselves permission to fuck up! It’ll happen, it’s not the end of the world and it shouldn’t change who you are as a couple

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    4 years ago

    Communicate with each other and let each other know you have their back no matter what. My number 1 tip-: One of you may be having the most intensely satisfying play but ALWAYS be prepared and able to leave immediately if your partner is not feeling it and wants to go. It shows trust and love. It's all you need in this minefield lifestyle

  • SpicyKale

    SpicyKale

    4 years ago

    What Annie said! Something that might trigger you with one couple may not with another, human emotions are odd. You might have something hit you days after the experience too. Don’t blame each other for your own reactions to random things. Lots of things to think about, but try and put them out of your mind.... go with the flow and enjoy the experience! Decompress and talk to each other about your experiences after the event! Good luck